The Absolute Best Sushi In NYC

December 22, 2016, 6:20 am

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Sushi and NYC are two peas in a pod. They go together like bread and butter, sugar and spice, cheese and crackers — yeah, you get the picture. So whether you live in the Big Apple or are just here on a whirlwind visit, we've got the ultimate sushi hit list for you.

Sushi in the city can run the gamut from cheap, all-you-can-eat deals to fancy spots that make you drop your very last dime in the blink of an eye. Scroll on for the best places to get your raw-fish fix — in whatever way works for you and your wallet.

**Masa**
Elegant sushi in an elegant setting, Masa offers premium sashimi for a fixed (albeit extremely high) price. Chef Masa makes the rolls worth every penny, for die-hard sushi fanatics, with his innovative and highly skilled culinary precision. The Per Se of NYC sushi, Masa is not for the faint of hearts ( *ahem*, wallets).
Masa, 10 Columbus Circle (at 59th Street); 212- 823-9800.
Photo: Via @thespoiledmummy.

**Ki Sushi**
The fare at Ki is inventive, fresh (i.e. fish flown in from Tokyo's Tsukiji Market), fairly priced, and all around delicious. If you're planning to stop by this cozy Cobble Hill sushi spot, be sure to try at least one of the unique appetizers (e.g. the sea foie gras) in addition to any of the tantalizing special rolls. We're currently dreaming about the "Ki Roll" with a mix of tuna, salmon, and yellowtail, all topped with spicy-crunchy king crab, avocado, caviar and gold leaves. Jackpot.
Ki Sushi, 122 Smith Street (at Dean Street) in Brooklyn; 718-935-0575.
Photo: Via @whatchuueating.

**Sushi Zo**
If you're in the market for omakase-only, Sushi Zo fits the (probably pricier) bill. One of those sleek yet simple places where you can taste just how much care and precision goes into the sashimi, Zo is deemed "high-end" for good reason. The Chef, Keizo Seki, offers an extensive menu that will delight the most seasoned of sushi diners.
Sushi Zo, 88 West 3rd Street (at Sullivan Street); 646-405-4826.
Photo: Via @sushizo_masa.

**Sushi Yasuda**
Known for the freshness of their fish, Sushi Yasuda is at the top of our list for good reason — this midtown spot flies their sashimi straight in from Japan. With a minimalist-modern look, the bright atmosphere leaves a clean canvas for the artful chefs and rolls to do all the delicious work.
Sushi Yasuda, 204 East 43rd Street (at 3rd Avenue); 212- 972-1001.
Photo: Via @kellybellyboom.

**Hatsuhana**
Established back in the 1970s, Hatsuhana is one of NYC's pioneers of Japanese cuisine. Sticking to traditional preparation techniques, the sushi rolls are precise and the final presentation is artfully impeccable.
Hatsuhana, 17 East 48th Street (between 5th and Madison Avenue); 646- 682-7879.
Photo: Via @evachen212.

**Blue Ribbon Sushi**
A Bromberg Brother creation, this upscale spot is definitely one to write home about. With fish flown in daily from across the Atlantic and Pacific, there's no beating the freshness of Blue Ribbon's creations. Not to mention, the menu is extensive enough to satisfy just about any degree of sushi lover wandering the streets of NYC.
Blue Ribbon Sushi Bar, 119 Sullivan Street (at Prince Street); 212- 343-0404.
Photo: Via @thrillist.

**Mamasushi**
Mamasushi is artful Japanese fusion fare at its finest. With an unexpected and fresh Latin American twist, stop by this spot to be delighted. And be sure to try the" Hot Mama Roll": traditional sushi mixed with fried plantains and jalapeños.
Mama Sushi, 3569 Broadway (between W. 146th and W, 147th Street); 646-682-7879.
Photo: Via @elchefdavidnunez.

**15 East**
If you consider yourself a diehard sushi fanatic, then 15 East deserves a spot on your raw fish hit list. With modern decor and traditional Japanese dishes, this top-notch spot is by far some of the best sushi in NYC. The chefs are knowledgable, the staff is accommodating, and the rolls are fresh. What more could you want? Get on over to 15 East!
15 East, 15 E. 15th Street (between 5th Avenue and Union Square W.); 212 647-0015.
Photo: Via @mattbruck.

**Momo Sushi Shack**
If you're looking for a sushi spot in Williamsburg that's great for smaller groups, look no further than Momo. With its long picnic-like tables and cash-only payment policy, this restaurant is ideal for good vibes without all the fuss. Not to mention the rolls are quirkily delicious (e.g. the pork betty or the spicy Mcbomb). Just make sure you arrive early to stake out your space!
Momo Sushi Shack, 43 Bogart Street (at Moore Street) in Brooklyn; 718-418-6666.
Photo: Via @momosushishack.

**Sushi Of Gari**
Run by renowned Japanese chef, Masatoshi "Gari" Sugio, this sleek Manhattan chain is top notch. With locales in Tribeca, the UES, Columbus Circle, Midtown, and even a spot in Hollywood, Gari is serving up traditional-fresh sushi with a twist — the soy sauce is pre-infused into each piece for optimal flavor notes.
Sushi of Gari, Multiple locations in Manhattan.
Photo: Via @harakahiki1.

**Cherin Sushi**
This tiny Japanese spot is the perfect place to grab a casual-cozy bite with friends in the East Village. The rolls are fresh, affordable, and named after former customers (e.g. the Karen Roll). The real kicker? Cherin's *also* BYOB.
Cherin Sushi, 306 E. 6th Street (at 2nd Avenue); 212-388-1348.
Photo: Via @thenomadiccouple.

**Bohemian**
This secret Japanese spot is reservation by referral only! If you haven't been referred, you could always try ringing with a generic name, or even take your walk in chances. But whatever you choose, the risk will be worth the delicious reward. Bohemian's scene is retro and their dishes are indulgently inventive (case in point: the foie gras sushi).
Bohemian, 57 Great Jones Street (at Bowery); 212-228-4181.
Photo: Via @johnnyprimecc.

**SUSHISAMBA West Village**
Not your average sushi joint — SUSHISAMBA serves an unexpected fusion of Brazilian and Japanese fare. The atmosphere is fresh, funky, and highly metropolitan. Stop by on Thursday through Saturday nights to enjoy your rolls while a DJ spins.
SUSHISAMBA West Village, 87 7th Avenue S. (at Barrow Street); 212-691-7875.
Photo: Via @sushisamba.

**BondST**
This sushi spot is about as chic as they come and is the perfect place for just about any special occasion. With a darkly lit and sleekly structured interior, BondST offers a highly metropolitan vibe in additional to some majorly delectable dishes (the wagyu beef tataki is amazing).
BondST, 6 Bond Street (at Lafayette Street); 212-777-2500.
Photo: Via @bondstnyc.

**One Or Eight**
This Williamsburg sushi spot is the definition of trendy. Set in what appears to be an abandoned, graffitied warehouse, the interior is whitewashed and warmly lit. The friendly service and inventive twist on classic Japanese dishes make 1or8 a must-visit.
1or8, 66 S 2nd Street (at Wythe Avenue); 718-384-2152.
Photo: Via @1or8brooklyn.

**Hibino**
Hibino is simple, affordable, and damn good. On the outskirts of Brooklyn Heights, this restaurant is great for a casual sushi meal that still feels special.
Hibino, 333 Henry Street (at Pacific Street); 718-260-8052.
Photo: Via @funksoul_sista.

**Zest**
What could be better than BYOB sushi? BYOB sushi on the Lower East Side of NYC. Zest is the perfect, low-key spot to get an affordable but still hip sushi fix.
Zest, 249 Broome Street (at Ludlow Street); 212-677-3158.
Photo: Via @hannaestone.

**Sushi Katsuei**
This Park Slope joint serves up authentic and moderately priced rolls in a cozy-clean neighborhood environment. Any die-hard sushi fanatics *must* check out this spot's surprising, high-end (yet affordable) omakase tasting menu.
Sushi Katsuei, 210 7th Avenue (at 3rd Street) in Brooklyn; 212-788-5338
Photo: Via @scottmsozmen.

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31 Grown-Up Ways To Drink Tequila

December 22, 2016, 6:20 am

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Are you ready to put those tequila-shot nightmares to bed? Yeah, we are too. There are plenty of easy recipes out there that will help you take your cocktail game to the next level. So swap out those shot glasses for martini glasses, tumblers, and popsicle molds. These are the fast and refreshing tequila drinks of your dreams! Mix it up and sip away.

**Cranberry Margarita**
Holiday tensions high? Make a batch of these cranberry margaritas to put the party at festive ease.
Photo: Courtesy of Gimme Some Oven.

**Kombucha Cider Smash**
Kombucha, cider, and tequila make for a surprisingly festive apéritif combination.
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Blood Orange Margaritas**
For when regular orange juice just isn't daring enough.
Photo: Courtesy of Smitten Kitchen.

**Tequila Sunrise Mimosa**
Nothing like an ombre mimosa to get your next brunch party started!
Photo: Courtesy of Damn Delicious.

**Carrot Orange Tequila Cooler**
Warnings state that alcohol can impair your vision — but this carrot cooler begs to differ.
Photo: Courtesy of Shutterbean.

**Spicy Grapefruit Margarita**
The zest of grapefruit adds a boost to this sugary and spicy marg.
Photo: Courtesy of Cookie+kate.

**Summertime Rosé Tequila Sangria**
You can't really go wrong with rosé, fresh fruit, kombucha, AND tequila all in one drink.
Photo: Courtesy of Half Baked Harvest.

**Pineapple Lemonade**
Pineapple juice and tequila take lemonade to a whole new level of summertime refreshment.
Photo: Courtesy of Damn Delicious.

**Guava Margaritas**
The "Guavarita" mixes in sweet guava juice for its namesake twist on the classic marg.
Photo: Courtesy of The Brewer & The Baker.

**Creamy Margarita Popsicles**
Take the classic margarita to new summer levels by freezing it on a popsicle stick.
Photo: Courtesy of Host the Toast.

**Good Morning Margaritas**
Margaritas in the morning?! When orange juice is involved, yes you can.
Photo: Courtesy of The Candid Appetite.

**Fresh Strawberry Margaritas**
Summery strawberries are the perfect complement to tequila and lime.
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Cranberry Margarita**
A cranberry margarita?! Yes, it exists— and yes, it is delicious.
Photo: Courtesy of Damn Delicious.

**Ginger Beergaritas**
What do you get when you mix ginger, lime, and tequila on the rocks? A refreshingly delicious ginger beergarita, of course!
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Watermelon Tequila Cocktail**
Juicy watermelon with freshly squeezed lime juice AND tequila? We just found our new summertime staple.
Photo: Courtesy of B.Britnell.

**Passion Fruit & Lime Margarita**
This tequila cocktail is summer sunshine in a glass.
Photo: Courtesy of Cooks with Cocktails.

**Breaking Bad Blue Margarita**
All you diehard BB fans out there (or just lovers of the color blue), get ready for the drink of your dreams! The Breaking Bad margarita takes it to the next level with blue salt AND blue ice chips.
Photo: Courtesy of Host the Toast.

**Cucumber Lime Tequila Cocktail**
Ever heard the saying "as cool as a cucumber?" Well this is it, in cocktail form.
Photo: Courtesy of B.Britnell.

**Spicy Watermelon Margaritas**
Give your fruity cocktail an unexpected kick with chili powder and fresh jalapeño.
Photo: Courtesy of Cookie+kate.

**Fresh Mango Margarita Frosty**
You can make this easy, boozy frosty with frozen mango.
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Watermelon Slush**
This sweet slushy recipe can be made in 5 minutes, with *just* 3 ingredients (4 if you are counting the tequila)!
Photo: Courtesy of Damn Delicious.

**Coconut Lime Margarita**
These coconut lime margaritas are cool and zesty!
Photo: Courtesy of Gimme Some Oven.

**Strawberry Jalapeño White Sangria**
Bring some heat to your sweet with this killer duo of berries and spicy jalapeños.
Photo: Courtesy of Joyful Healthy Eats.

**Sage Lime Tequila Smash**
Not a sage fan? No problem. Try this refreshingly easy recipe with some mint or basil instead!
Photo: Courtesy of Oh So Beautiful Paper.

**Frozen Blueberry Margaritas**
Not your ordinary slushy-machine frozen margarita, this blueberry twist is sophisticated and delicious.
Photo: Courtesy of Cookie+kate.

**Tropical Tequila Sunrise Poptail**
Who says popsicles can't be for adults? One lick of these passion fruit and tequila poptails is all the proof we need.
Photo: Courtesy of The Design Confidential.

**Kiwi Margaritas**
Sweeten up your margarita with a simple and refreshing addition — kiwi!
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Grilled Pineapple Margarita**
Let this tequila cocktail instantly transport you from Netflix and chill to aloha and luau — it's like a cup of sunshine, with a little salt.
Photo: Courtesy of The Brewer & The Baker.

**Palomas With Salty Chili Sugar**
Zesty grapefruit paired with sweet and spicy sugar makes for some serious refreshment!
Photo: Courtesy of How Sweet It Is.

**Pitcher Style Margaritas**
Planning your next grownup fiesta? You'll definitely want to use this classic margarita recipe.
Photo: Courtesy of Pinch of Yum.

**Sangria Swirled Frozen Margaritas**
Your cocktail game just got taken up a notch with this next level combo of frozen sangria and margaritas.
Photo: Courtesy of Dessert For Two.

**Pear Nectar with Reposado Tequila**
This tequila cocktail gets a festive and crafty makeover with sweet pear, honey, and some cinnamon spice.
Photo: Courtesy of Cookie+kate.

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These Are The Best Biergartens In New York City

December 22, 2016, 6:20 am

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Biergartens (or beer gardens) are becoming more and more popular in New York due to their expansive and communal environment (a novel concept where space is at such a premium), great food, and, most importantly, beer. And since the Big Apple has so many spots to choose from, even those who say no to hops and ale will be sucked into these bustling scenes. From traditional German-style venues to trendy, reinvented joints, there's bound to be a biergarten for everyone.

We've mapped out a hit list for you, so scroll on through to find your new haus away from home.

**Black Forest Brooklyn**
For the trendiest of biergartens, stop by Black Forest in BK. An ample indoor space with fresh touches, lots of light, and fine brews. The atmosphere is nothing short of energetic and the beer chilled to perfection — not to mention their menu is worthy of writing home about (we'll have about 5 of those perfect pretzels, please).
Black Forest Brooklyn, 733 Fulton Street (between S. Elliot Place and S. Portland Avenue); 718-935-0300.
Photo: Via @tastesofny.

**Bier International**
Bier International is one of Harlem's first biergartens. And as a founding brewer, it's well-seasoned in representing the tastiest of cuisine and beers from countries around the globe. Playing reggae tunes and screening a plethora of international fútbol games, the crowd here buzzes with eclectic energy.
Bier International, 2099 Frederick Douglass Blvd (at West 113th Street); 212-280-0944.
Photo: Courtesy of Bier International.

**Zum Schneider NYC**
Built by German owner Sylvester Schneider, Zum ("to the") Schneider has majorly historic biergarten touches. From the 100-year-old handmade beerhall chairs to authentic festivals and events, this NYC brew-haven is *almost* as good as catching a direct flight to Bavaria. And we haven't even gotten to the schnitzel and weisswurst...das ist gut!
Zum Scheneider NYC, 107 Avenue C (at East 7th Streets); 212-598-1098.
Photo: Courtesy of Jonathan McPhail Photography.

**West End Hall**
This UWS spot is spacious, vibrant, and filled with good eats and even better brews. During the warmer weather, the backyard garden is a fresh escape from the heat of the city streets. And if it happens to be the dead of winter? No worries, the indoor hall is always bustling with jovial heat and boisterous vibes.
West End Hall, 2756 Broadway (at 106th Street); 212-662-7200.
Photo: Courtesy of Oleg March Photography

**Harlem Tavern**
Bringing biergarten life to Harlem, HT is a spacious indoor plus outdoor venue. With upscale bar-food offerings, live music, sweet service, and a bustling crowd, this spot brings the heat to the beloved borough. Whether you're enjoying a Monday night game or just a few drinks and bites with friends, you'll want to spend that time and cash right here.
Harlem Tavern, 2153 Frederick Douglass Boulevard (at 116th Street); 212-866-4500.
Photo: Via The Drink Nation.

**La Birreria**
La Birreria, the rooftop restaurant and brewery at Eataly, offers delicious food and quality brew. Unlike most uncovered biergartens in NYC, this spot stays open through rain, shine, snow, or sleet. Hosting different pop-up restaurants each season, the scene here is always fresh and the vibes very Italian. Mangia bene!
La Birreria, 200 5th Avenue (between 23rd and 24th Street); 212-937-8910.
Photo Via: @remybrowning.

**Union Pool**
Stop by Union Pool to hangout, drink brew, and maybe even grab a taco (or two). Don't let the limited bar space fool you, there's ample outdoor space to cushion any indoor crowding. Known for drawing a bustling crowd, this spot is the simply the best for grabbing afterwork drinks — or even just dancing your night away.
Union Pool, 484 Union Avenue (at Meeker Avenue); 718-609-0484.
Photo: Via @reverendvince.

**Bohemia Hall and Beer Garden**
Calling all beer connoisseurs! You absolutely cannot leave NYC without stopping by Bohemia Hall and Beer Garden. With super cheap pitchers filled with the best brew, this is *the* place to indulge in your beer obsession. And because of the low prices and ample outdoor seating, it's on point for group gatherings when the weather's fair.
Bohemia Hall and Beer Garden, 2919 24th Avenue (between 29th and 31st Street); 718- 274-4925.
Photo Via:@bennymagoo.

**Threes Brewing**
Once a swampy no man's land, Gowanus is now home to some bustling Brooklyn nosheries — and Threes Brewing takes the cake. This sprawling spot serves up affordable eats and house made brews in a renovated warehouse. With a back garden to boot, you'll have space to sip your pale ale in moderate peace.
Threes Brewing, 333 Douglas Street (at Butler Street) in Brooklyn; 718-522-2110.
Photo: Via @mattlizleo.

**Radegast Hall & Biergarten**
Nestled in the heart of Williamsburg, Radegast Hall & Biergarten offers a wide range of brews that you can drink sidled up to the large bar, or at a picnic table in the indoor beer garden. Come enjoy a pitcher (or two...) with as many friends as you can squeeze in at a long, communal table.
Radegast Hall, 113 N. 3rd Street (at Berry Street); 718-963-3973.
Photo: Courtesy of Radegast Hall.

**Zum Schneider**
If you want your fill of Bavarian beer and German cuisine, Zum Schneider is the place for you. With a festive vibe and splashy decor, this East Village german beer hall promises to celebrate every day like it's Oktoberfest. So put on your lederhosen, order some bratwurst, and drink up!
Zum Schneider, 107 Avenue C (at 7th Street); 212-598-1098.
Photo: Courtesy of Zum Schneider.

**The Chester Biegarten**
Any biergarten bucket list is not complete until you add The Chester Biergarten. The outdoor space, which is an extension of the trendy Gansevoort Hotel, is great for a casual after-work drink with friends. Come thirsty, leave happy.
The Chester, 18 Ninth Avenue (between W. 12th and 13th street); 646-253-2284.
Photo: Via @afrancor.

**The Standard Biergarten**
Hidden under the High Line, this venue is surprisingly affordable and über trendy. The space comes complete with ping pong, food, and, you guessed it: beer! While The Standard may not resemble most traditional German beer halls, it's still a *must* visit for biergarten neophytes. The weekend lines just go to show, it's worth the wait.
The Standard, 848 Washington Street (at 13th Street); 212-645-4100.
Photo: Via @misslaranyc.

**Loreley**
Have you ever longed to pop over to your local biergarten, only to come to the cold realization that it's the middle of winter? Well, the folks at Loreley have you covered. Their large outdoor space is fully heated — so you can cozy up and enjoy your schnitzel, whatever the season.
Loreley, 64 Frost Street (at Meeker Street); 718-599-0025.
Photo: Courtesy of Loreley.

**Clinton Hall**
Fidi finally has its own biergarten — 4,000 square feet of it to be exact. And every week its draft list changes up, keeping visitors on their toes (so they never get beer-bored). With a rustic feel and classic German eats, you'll never have to ask yourself: To beer or not to beer?
Clinton Hall, 90 Washington Street (at Rector Street); 212-363-6000.
Photo: Courtesy of Clinton Hall.

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The Best Trader Joe's Products Of All Time

December 22, 2016, 6:20 am

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If you've got a Trader Joe's in your neighborhood, chances are it's your go-to supermarket. It's cheap, convenient, and the snacks are unbeatable. It sounds crazy, but I often stand on the checkout line for 30 minutes and then take the subway home with my groceries just so I can have my favorite TJ's products during the week.

When I sent out an office poll about people's favorite items, I quickly found I wasn't the only one who can't get enough of what that grocery store offers. So much, in fact, that I had well over 100 "favorite" products to sort through. After painstakingly whittling down the list, I present you with our top Trader Joe's picks, according to R29 staffers.

Did we miss any of your faves? Shout 'em out in the comments!

**Somewhat Spicy Dill-Flavored Kettle Cooked Chips**
For those who like a little heat, but can't handle spicy (oh, and love pickles) — these "somewhat" chips have you covered.

**Organic Brown Sugar BBQ Sauce & Marinade**
If you like your BBQ more sweet than tangy, then this Kansas City-style sauce is *just* what the southern-condiment-doctor ordered.

**Nutty Seedy Fruity Bar**
Chocked full of enough nuts, seeds, and fruits to satisfy our inner squirrels for the winter.

**Avocado's Number Guacamole To Go**
What can only be called the GOAT food invention — portable, individually-sized, guacamole packs.

**Peppermint Joe-Joe's Ice Cream**
Our favorite Joe-Joe's cookies in frosty-mint form.

**Molten Macarons**
Lava cake meets macaron — thus a TJ's frozen dessert star is born.

**Partially Popped Popcorn**
TJ's take on the fan-favorite Pipcorn — with more buttery and sea salty goodness, of course.

**Wild King Salmon Jerky**
Forget beef jerky, salmon jerky is where it's at.

**Joe-Joe's**
We won't say what famous cookie these TJ's treats are based off of — but yes, they are *just* as delicious.

**Cheddar Rocket Crackers**
These rockets blow Goldfish out of the snacking atmosphere.

**Jalapeño & Honey Chevre**
Talk about sugar and spice — this goat's milk cheese strikes the perfect balance.

**Speculoos Cookies**
These cinnamon-sugary cookies are the perfect dunking apparatus for your beverage of choice.

**Traditional Tunisian Harissa**
You don't need to shop at a specialty store for authentic Harissa — just pop over to TJ's for a jar of this spicy sauce.

**Apple Pie Cheddar Cheese**
For those of you that consider cheese the *only* food group, this one covers a couple of bases.

**3 Cheese Wafers**
These delightfully thin crackers are packed with cheddar, parmesan, AND mozzarella.

**PB&J Bar**
Keep one of these bars in your bag for any anytime snack.

**Sweetened Dried Orange Slices**
TJ's has a great assortment of dried fruit and we love when there's a new addition to the mix.

**Hass Avocado Oil**
Olive oil's new, trendy cousin avocado oil is here.

**Chile Lime Seasoning Blend**
This spice blend is good on *everything.* Try it on fish, chicken, or even watermelon!

**Mango Sorbet Bon Bons**
These mini frozen treats hit the spot on a hot, summer day.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Uncured Bacon Jam**
No explanation needed. We've been putting this new savory product on EVERYTHING.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Raw Almond Butter**
TJ's raw almond butter is the same price as its regular counterpart, but packs double the flavor.

**Unsweetened Instant Oatmeal**
Because sometimes we want breakfast to start as a blank canvas.

**Lemon Meringue Tart**
Nothing beats a $5 fancy-looking dessert that you can stash in the freezer.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Seafood Paella**
Seafood paella might seem like the last thing you'd ever want to buy from the frozen foods aisle, but somehow Trader Joe's pulls it off.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's

**Sweet Onion & Bacon Vinaigrette**
We love our veggies, but we love them even more when they're topped with this bacon-y dressing.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's

**Hatch Chile Mac & Cheese**
Trader Joe's frozen mac & cheese options are so good we've got two of them in here. Hatch chiles add a smokey heat to this delectable version.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Milk Chocolate Crisps**
Chocolate that you can essentially eat like a potato chip? *Yes.*
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Crispy Crunch Chocolate Chip Cookies**
The only unfortunate thing about these perfectly crisp cookies is that it's really easy to eat 3/4 of the bin without even noticing.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Edamame Hummus**
Okay, so if we're being honest, we love all of Trader Joe's hummus flavors. The three-layer hummus is genius, right? But we'd never tried edamame hummus before this product, and it's so good.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Mini Dark Chocolate Mint Stars**
These might actually be our favorite TJ's product. They're only around in the winter for a brief stay on store shelves (they go really quick), but we swear they're better than Thin Mints.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Frozen Black Bean & Cheese Taquitos**
Anyone else grow up on these? They are the essential after-work or after-school snack, because you can eat a couple or make a meal out of them
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Spicy Chai Tea Latte Mix**
We're not usually fans of drinks that start as a powder, but this chai latte mix is just as good as what you would buy at your local coffee shop, except you don't have to leave the house.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**BBQ Chicken Pizza**
All of Trader Joe's frozen pizzas are good, but there's something about BBQ sauce, red onions, and gouda over a doughy crust.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Chile Spiced Mango**
If we had room, we would have put all of Trader Joe's dried fruit options in this slideshow. They have every single fruit imaginable (where else can you find dried tangerines?!), but these spicy mango pieces are truly something special.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Hold The Cone Mini Ice Cream Cones**
Perfect for when you just want a little dessert or, you know, a bunch of little desserts.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Speculoos Crunchy Cookie Butter**
Trader Joe's helped start the cookie butter trend, so it only makes sense that it now carries the product in multiple flavors and forms. However, the original will always be our true favorite.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Unexpected Cheddar Cheese**
Unexpected is right! This cheddar tastes as if it comes from a fancy cheese shop, but at TJ's it's super-cheap.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Tarte D’Alace**
Trader Joe's has the best frozen options out there, especially when it comes to apps, and this cheesy flatbread is no exception.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Balsamic Glaze**
This thick, rich balsamic sauce takes marinades and salad dressings to the next level.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Frozen Tikka Masala**
We actually prefer the chicken tikka masala, but the paneer and vegan options are great, too. Not only are they delicious, but they're also so much cheaper than takeout.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Cilantro & Chive Yogurt Dip**
Warning: Once you try this dip, there's no going back to your generic supermarket brand.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Spinach Tortellini**
Sure, every supermarket sells a version of tortellini, but these guys are ridiculously cheap and they're ready in three minutes, which is more than we can say about 99% of our post-work meals.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Spicy, Smoky, Peach Salsa**
The name of this salsa says it all, because it really is spicy, smoky, and sweet. It's much more exciting than your typical supermarket options of mild, medium, or spicy.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Gone Bananas!**
Trader Joe's has no shortage of bite-size treats, but these are perfect when you need something sweet at the end of a long day. Plus, at least you're getting some potassium with that chocolate!
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Organic Silver Dollar Pancakes**
Pancakes are one of those foods you wouldn't think would freeze well, but once again Trader Joe's proves us wrong. Stacks on stacks on stacks, with no effort whatsoever, sounds pretty good to us.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Gummy Tummies Penguins**
These are definitely meant for kids, but who can resist an adorable gummy penguin?!
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Green Olive Tapenade**
We love when condiments can do triple duty as a spread, a marinade, and a dip, and this flavorful marinade does just that.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Mochi Ice Cream**
All of Trader Joe's mochi flavors are great, but the fact that they made a seasonal pumpkin pie version exemplifies why TJ's is our all-time favorite grocery store.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Savory Thin Mini Crackers**
Yes, these are just plain crackers, but somehow they are mighty tasty. You'll just have to try them and see.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Candy Cane Joe-Joe's**
Regular Joe-Joe's are good and all, but these seasonal peppermint-frosting-filled cookies are even better. They're definitely a cult favorite, though, so if you see them, stock up.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Dark Chocolate Speculoos Cookie Butter Cups**
These are basically the evolved version of peanut butter cups. Try them frozen — trust us.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Chicken Tikka Samosas**
You can't go wrong when combining two of our favorite Indian food dishes into one essential bite.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Roasted Seaweed Snack**
It looks simple, but roasted seaweed is one of the best healthy snacks out there. Plus, you can make all kinds of fun "wraps." The possibilities are endless.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Corn and Chile Salsa**
Another one of our favorite tomato-free salsas. We would eat this with pretty much anything, and it's great as a salad dressing, too.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Frozen Mac & Cheese**
Mac & cheese is definitely one of our freezer staples, and this version is way better than a stovetop box.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Multi Grain Croissants**
Croissants are another one of those foods that you wouldn't expect to freeze well, but TJ's has proved us wrong once again.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Cheese And Green Chile** **Tamales**
As one R29 staffer aptly explained, "If you steam them for exactly 13 minutes, you will taste the truth."
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Fig Butter**
We put this stuff on *everything*.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Chicken Cilantro Mini Wontons**
Every time we make these, we end up doing double microwave duty because we always want more.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Frozen Quiches**
We couldn't pick just one frozen quiche to feature, because we love them all.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Pretzel Slims**
What's better than regular pretzels? Chocolate-covered pretzels, of course! And we love the flat texture of these.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Roasted Gorgonzola Crackers**
With these crisps, you don't even need cheese to go with your crackers. Although it never hurts to put even more cheese on top.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Parmesan Pastry Pups**
Just when we thought pigs in a blanket couldn't get any better, TJ's added parmesan.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Greek Honey Yogurt**
We mix honey into Greek yogurt anyway, so this flavor does the work for us.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Blue Cheese Roasted Pecan Dip**
It might sound a little odd, but once you try this dip, it'll be your new go-to snack.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Tempting Trail Mix**
Forget chocolate chips — peanut butter chips make this trail mix crave-worthy.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Triple Ginger Snaps**
These gingery cookies feel like a holiday party in your mouth.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Fruit Leather**
These make for a great snack no matter how old you are!
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Spanakopita**
You really can't go wrong with cheese-and-spinach-stuffed filo dough, and these manage to stay crispy on the outside despite the fact that they're frozen.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

**Popcorn In A Pickle**
Yes, it sounds *really* weird, but if you're a fan of pickles and popcorn separately, you have to try this seemingly odd snack.

**Mini Cinnamon Sugar Churros**
One of Trader Joe's latest products has quickly become a fan favorite. These mini-churros are a perfect snack to keep stashed in your freezer for anytime you're in need of an impromptu sweet treat.
Photo: Courtesy of Trader Joe's.

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40 Costco Foods You Need In Your Life

December 22, 2016, 6:20 am

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PirateIf you haven't been to Costco in a while, you might be surprised to learn that the wholesaler is a huge purveyor of organic snacks and under-the-radar foods. While the chain has a reputation for selling enormous packages of chips and cookies, huge bundles of toilet paper, and, yes, giant stuffed bears, it's also up on the latest trendy eats, too.

Whether you're a twentysomething shopping for yourself or you have a big family to feed, Costco has food options to fit your needs. Many of its snacks are sold in individual packages, so you don't have to worry about finishing, say, a giant container of perishable food before it expires. (Though if you are shopping for a larger group, you should definitely check out Costco's organic produce selection.) Ahead we rounded up some of the best foods available at Costco — the cost of that membership just got so worth it.

**Pirate's Booty Aged White Cheddar Snack Packs**
You don't have to be a kid to enjoy this classic treat.

**Mini Babybel Original Cheese**
These individually-wrapped cheeses are the perfect addition to a packed lunch.

**Kirkland Signature Sahale Snacks Pecan Cashew Nut Crisp**
If you prefer a little bit of sweetness when eating nuts, Sahale Snacks are a delicious solution. This mix blends cinnamon apples and cherries with pecans and cashews for a satisfying treat.

**Harvested For You Organic Raw Shelled Pumpkin Seeds**
Dried fruits, nuts, and seeds are some of the best hidden gems at Costco — try these pumpkin seeds to get into the spirit of the fall season.

**Pocky Chocolate Biscuit Sticks**
Who knew you could pick up a 12-pack of Pocky pouches on your next Costco run?

**Coco-Roon Organic Brownie Super Cookies**
These treats are so tasty, you won't believe they're gluten-free and vegan, too. They're perfect for sharing with your food-sensitive friends.

**Nature Nate's Raw & Unfiltered Honey**
You won't have to worry about buying honey again for a *long* time with this 44-oz bottle.

**Kirkland Signature French Brie**
Why travel to the fancy cheese store when you can get imported brie at Costco?

**Nature Valley Sweet & Salty Nut Bars**
You won't need to put granola bars on your grocery list for weeks after buying these at Costco — they're sold in a box of 48.

**Fiber One Chocolate Fudge Brownies**
If you love Fiber One bars, you'll be happy to know you can get a 28-pack at Costco.

**Terra Mediterranean Chips**
You can find these vegetable chips at plenty of grocery stores, but Costco has party-size bags.

**Kirkland Signature Organic Creamy Peanut Butter**
If you're always running out of peanut butter, maybe it's time to invest in a Costco-sized jar.
Photo: Courtesy of Costco Wholesale.

**Crazy Cuizine Mandarin Orange Chicken**
If you're hosting a party, pre-made appetizers can be a lifesaver. These chicken bites are delicious and won't break the bank.

**The Cheesecake Factory**
If you love cheesecake (or don't live near a Cheesecake Factory), you'll be thrilled to know you can get a 9" cheesecake in Costco's frozen section.

**Aidell's Chicken & Apple Sausage**
Costco's 3-lb sausage package is enough to feed even the biggest dinner party.

**San Pellegrino Sparkling Fruit Variety Pack**
If you can't get enough of San Pellegrino's fruity goodness, you'll have enough for weeks with this 24-can package.

**Multigrain Tortilla Chips**
This brand's name says it all AND delivers on it.

**Bare Organic Apple Chips**
These apple chips are au naturel with no added sugar and the perfect crunch.

**GT's Enlightened Organic Raw Kombucha**
The "enlightened" version of GT's kombucha includes probiotics and comes in a variety of flavors. At Costco, you can buy six 16-ounce bottles of the gingerade version for $14.99.

**Calbee Snapea Crisps**
If you're looking for a potato chip alternative, these pea crisps hit the spot.

**Chobani Greek Yogurt Assortment**
Who knew Costco had such a great selection of Greek yogurt? Stock up on a variety pack of Chobani cups, and you'll be weekday-breakfast-ready.

**Chewy Snack Bars**
Costco has a variety of on-the-go bars, and you really can't beat the prices.

**Explore Asian Organic Edamame Spaghetti**
If you're looking for new takes on pasta, try this spaghetti, made from edamame.

**Sheila G's Brownie Brittle**
All the chocolaty goodness of a brownie, now in a crispy cookie format.

**GoodFoods Tableside Chunky Guacamole**
Store-bought guacamole can be hit or miss, but this one tastes super fresh.

**Fresh Blueberries**
Berries are one fresh food at Costco you don’t need a huge family to eat. Costco's berries come in relatively small packages, and during off-seasons, the prices are lower than what you'd find at regular grocery stores.
Photo: Getty Images.

**Chosen Foods 100% Pure Avocado Oil**
If you're bored of your usual olive oil routine, switch things up with avocado oil, which has a higher smoke point, perfect for high-heat cooking. The Costco price point is unbeatable, too — you can't go wrong with a 33.8 ounce bottle for just $9.69.

**Tate's Bake Shop Chocolate Chip Cookies**
All the deliciousness of Tate's cookies — without the usual high price tag.

**Amy's Kitchen Organic Lentil Soup**
When you're in a pinch for dinner, these hearty soups are just the solution.

**Beecher's Flagship Handmade Cheese**
Costco's cheese selection is one of the store's highlights, and Beecher's signature cheese is a great place to start. Aged 15 months, this semi-hard cheese is perfect for baking into mac and cheese or slicing to serve as part of a charcuterie platter.

**Stretch Island Fruit Co. Fruit Strips**
Think of them as the grown-up version of fruit snacks.

**Kashi Organic Promise Sprouted Grains Cereal**
Cereal often gets a bad rap, but this vegan version offers an impressive six grams of fiber per serving.

**GimMe Organic Seaweed Rice Chips**
If you've been on the fence about trying seaweed, these chips just might make you take the plunge.

**Brookside Dark Chocolate Cherry & Tahitian Vanilla Flavors**
Perfect for stashing in your snack drawer at work.

**Belvita Cinnamon Brown Sugar Biscuits**
Breakfast to go. Done.

**Lotus Bakery Biscoff Cookies**
Yes, these are THE speculoos cookies you get on Delta flights.

**Kind Bars Nut & Spices Variety Pack**
You may already love Kind bars — but did you know you can get multiple varieties at Costco for way less than you'd pay at other stores?

**Made In Nature Organic Mountain Gold Superfuel Blend**
This healthy dried fruit and seeds mix is the perfect grab-and-go snack for busy days.

**BarkThins Dark Chocolate Almond With Sea Salt Snacking Chocolate**
Dark chocolate is already a foolproof snack, but adding almonds and sea salt? Genius.

**Not Your Father's Root Beer**
Yes, this is alcoholic. Think of it as the adult way to enjoy your favorite childhood soda.

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30 Sex "Rules" For People In Long-Term Relationships

December 22, 2016, 6:30 am

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No matter how many dozens of Netflix-and-chill nights you and your long-term partner have had together, there’s something that keeps you tuning in for more. But just as individuals age and change over time, the same goes for your sex life: What turned you on when you first made it Facebook official might not be the same for you now.

Experts say that the key to a happy, fulfilling sex life with a long-term S.O. is changing things up and making your own new sex “rules” as you go along. But of course, these “rules” aren’t hard and fast, and they don’t stay stagnant; they grow and change with your relationship. Just as a casual relationship might progress to commitment (and, for some, children), your sex life can shift in tandem with your ever-shifting partnership.

“In the beginning, everything is carefree and wonderful, and it's easy to have loving and sexual feelings towards your partner,” Sarah Schewitz, PsyD and licensed clinical psychologist, tells Refinery29. It’s what comes after that honeymoon phase — children, debt, and boredom, to name a few possibilities — that can put a damper on your sex life.

That’s not to say that every single long-term couple has issues in the bedroom (in fact, there’s plenty of research out there that suggests that people can stay “very intensely in love” for decades). But studies suggest that couples who exhibit certain sexual behaviors tend to be more satisfied with their sex lives. And even if you’re already satisfied, putting effort into your sex life and learning new things can only be a good thing.

So what are some tips, tricks, experiments, and “rules” sex experts wish you’d include in your sex life? We talked to the experts themselves and rounded up 30. Try ’em or break ’em — just have fun.

**Find porn you both like.**
Whether you’re already a seasoned expert with a curated collection of X-rated videos or you’re a curious novice, talking about porn with your partner can be both illuminating and a turn-on. And if you don’t think you’d be into porn, don’t forget that there’s a lot of variety out there, so it may just be a matter of figuring out what works for you (and your partner, if the two of you can get in sync).
“Porn has come a long way in [terms of] diversity and quality over the past several years, and there is a vast variety available, ranging from hot and nasty all-action to full-blown cinematic films with pirate ships, space odysseys, and even Hollywood-style special effects,” Coleen Singer, sexologist for Sssh.com, says.
For those who are new to porn, Singer recommends the “XXX-parody” category, since it combines humor with steamy sex. (We also recommend Trenchcoat X, the subscription site started by Stoya and Kayden Kross.)
“Make it a sexy event, and for a special touch, bring in some strawberries, Champagne, and perhaps a few sex toys,” Singer says.

**Dive into the** **Kama Sutra**.
Even if you know what it is, Google the crap out of the *Kama Sutra* — seriously, it can give you a ton of ideas. While you don’t need us to tell you that the key to a fun sex life is switching things up, you might need a refresher on the storied text’s notorious sex positions. (Might we suggest starting with Lotus?)
Schewitz suggests having a conversation with your partner about how you want to incorporate more play and variety into your routine, and then challenge yourselves to try a new position once a month. And if the *Kama Sutra* isn’t your thing, you can try standing positions, positions from behind, or any other variation that appeals to you. (And remember: Write it down!)

**Cut out quickies (for a short while, at least).**
Hear us out: So much about what makes sex super erotic and enjoyable in a long-term relationship is how well you know each other, how much you care about each other, and how willing you are to invest in the other’s pleasure. But once you get into the habit of only having quickies before work or bed, you can miss out on a lot of the fun.
“Sex is about feeling connected to your partner and being intimate,” Schewitz says. And while quickies and low-key sex can be fun at times, more drawn-out sex can have a big payoff in terms of intimacy and pleasure. “Make sure you set aside time to connect in both ways,” Schewitz added.

**Work on fighting more fairly.**
Many people can attest to how hot make-up sex can be. But sex and relationship therapist Courtney Geter, LMFT, cautions against letting sex become your only form of conflict resolution. Rather, it should be more of a celebration once you’ve worked through any issues. On the flip side, she also says that some couples go through extended time periods without sex due to fighting, and that isn’t good, either.
“The tip here is develop strong conflict-resolution skills in order to keep the relationship strong and healthy, and don't let conflict make sex a symptom,” she explains.
Sometimes the key to better sex has nothing to do with sex.

**Create a sex menu.**
When you’re in a long-term relationship, especially when you co-habitate, one of the most common texts you’ll shoot each other’s way is “What should we have for dinner?” That’s why sexologist, sex educator, and relationship expert Lisa Hochberger says to consider a different type of menu to keep things interesting.
“Each partner will write three sexual acts that they would like to do as an appetizer, three sexual acts that they would want as a main course, and three sexual acts that they would want as dessert,” she explains. “Then the couple will read each other’s menus and negotiate a sex menu that they will engage in that night.”
Still unclear? Here’s a sample sex menu:
Appetizers
Foot massage
Blindfold
Suck nipples
Main Course
Oral sex
Anal sex
Play with vibrator
Dessert
Spanking
Back massage
Cuddling

**Make a body map of one another.**
What makes sex both engaging and, at times, redundant in a long-term relationship is how well you know each other’s bodies. You know where and how to thrust, which spots are the most sensitive, and how to get each other off at lightning speed. While that can be fun and convenient, it can also take some of the imagination out of things. So Hochberger says to consider literally writing down what you know and then figuring out what you can learn by talking about it.
To start, each person takes turns drawing the other’s body as best as they can. (As Hochberger says, you’re the only person that needs to see it.)
“When you are finished, start by touching, licking, and caressing your partner’s feet,” she explains. “Start with the left foot and ask, ‘Does it feel good when I kiss you there? Does it feel good when I lick you there? Do you like it when I rub your feet softly, or do you like when I rub your feet with more pressure?’”
Then work your way up to your partner’s head. As you move along to each part of your partner’s body, take notes on the drawing.
“If you are in a long-term relationship, you will be surprised to learn that your partner may have changed over the years,” Hochberger says.

**Don’t discount the importance of non-sexual touch.**
Sometimes, focusing on non-erogenous zones can be more erotic than engaging in overtly sexual activities. Aside from amping up your day-to-day touching — which studies suggest can help boost “overall relationship and partner satisfaction ” — consider a non-sexual activity that still requires touch, like a massage. Hochberger suggests buying massage oils and setting the mood by turning off the lights, lighting candles, and getting completely naked.
“Take your time rubbing and massaging your partner,” Hochberger says. “Get as close to your partner’s genitals as you would like, but do not touch.”
She adds: “After you each have spent an hour or two massaging each other, you can enjoy some slippery sex.”

**Switch up the timing.**
You and your partner might be night owls who get turned on before bed or morning people who are revving to go as soon as you wake up. But in an effort to keep your sex life surprising and engaging, relationship expert and therapist Dr. Jane Greer suggests switching up the timing of your lovemaking.
“If you're used to having it on the same days because of schedule convenience, try having a quickie on other days when you might have less time; if you always have sex at night, try it in the morning,” she says. “The novelty of doing something different brings with it a certain level of excitement.”

**Stop playing the "you have to initiate" game.**
If you’re still under the impression that your partner has to make the first move or that the ball is always in your court, Greer suggests that you step outside of your respective comfort zones.
“Put your desires out there and show your partner that you find them attractive and hot,” she says. “People fall into routines and expectations of who should initiate, so knowing your partner is turned on and wants to be with you is a turn-on in and of itself.”

**Trade off playing “giver” and “receiver.”**
If one of you is much more of a giver than the other and that’s worked for your relationship, awesome. But that doesn’t mean that switching up those roles every once in a while is a bad idea, especially if you make it a unique, erotic experience.
“Decide which role each will ‘play’ for the night, and then have another evening where you reverse the roles,” Greer says. “Often, people get caught up in the roles they play in bed, as well as the expectations they think their partner has of them. That can create interference in terms of being able to give oneself over to complete relaxation and pleasure.”
And, hey, if you’re a straight couple, don’t be afraid to grab a strap-on and trade off playing the roles of “giver” and “receiver” more literally.

**Swap the PJs for something sexier once a month.**
Your partner may think you’re equally as sexy in your college sweats as you are when decked out for a black-tie affair, but that doesn’t mean they won’t appreciate a little unexpected effort in the form of a sexy nightie or even just a new pair of underwear.
“There's definitely pleasure to be gained from taking the time to dress for sex,” Greer says. “Feel sexy in what you're putting on, and allow your partner the opportunity to be visually turned on by what you're wearing.”

**Try a new non-sexual hobby together.**
Even if you’re generally happy in your relationship, you might run into a period of time when you don’t feel as turned on or connected — and that’s very common and totally okay. Sexologist Jess O’Reilly, PhD, suggests engaging in activities that reinvigorate the chemicals associated with new and passionate love: hormones like dopamine, adrenaline, and serotonin.
One way to reignite the spark is to do something nonsexual together that makes you feel more excited to jump back into bed when you’re done. Dr. O’Reilly also suggests spending more time apart so that you become “curious about one another’s lives outside of the relationship.”
“Novelty, mystery, and anxiety fueled your connection in the early days, so you need to recreate a similar environment to reignite the passion,” Dr. O’Reilly says.

**Take responsibility for your own sexual desire.**
Even if your partner is the best at getting you aroused and ready to go, it’s not just up to them — and what they do with their hands, genitals, and mouths — to prepare you for intercourse. As Dr. O’Reilly explains, sexual desire doesn’t always come naturally, and it’s up to you to create it for yourself. Your partner can definitely play a role in this, but don’t always put the responsibility in their court.
“Many of us aren’t in the mood for sex until after we’re turned on,” Dr. O’Reilly says. “So don’t wait until you’re in the mood — put yourself in the mood. Fantasize, read an erotic story, watch porn, flirt. Do something to get turned on, and then see if you’re in the mood.”
That said, there’s no reason to pressure yourself to always be in the mood or want sex a certain number of times a week, a month, etc. Listen to your intuition and find the balance that works for you.

**Have a candid discussion about opening up your relationship.**
Talking about not being monogamous doesn’t mean that you’re suddenly going to be in an open relationship. In fact, simply discussing your desires outside of the relationship and your curiosity about others can actually bring you closer together, according to Dr. O’Reilly. And that can be a turn-on in and of itself. But these kinds of conversations can also challenge you both to see non-monogamy in a new light.
“The problem with monogamy is that we accept it as a default setting,” Dr. O’Reilly says. “We erroneously place it at the top of the relationship hierarchy when it’s one of many valid options.”

**Don’t sweat it if your desire evolves over time**.
Dr. O’Reilly says that our desire changes throughout our lives (and research suggests she’s right). So don’t worry if your libido ebbs and flows. Just listen to your gut, and communicate with your partner.

**Put sex on the agenda — literally.**
It might sound like the opposite of sexy at first, but putting sex on you and your S.O.’s Google calendars (or handwritten planners) can add intention and build anticipation. You can call the reminder whatever you want, but Schewitz says that making the effort to put it on your calendars reminds you to make it a priority.
“As your lives get busier, it becomes easy to put sex on the back burner,” she says. “The problem is, when you do that for too long, you may find yourself or your partner feeling disconnected and suddenly realize you have some major relationship issues to work out. Commit to having sex a certain number of times per week or per month, and follow through with it, no matter how busy or how tired you are.”

**Try role-playing and pretend you’ve just met.**
Remember the opening scene in *Four Christmases* in which the couple pretends they don’t know each other at a bar, and then have what appears to be hot stranger sex in the bathroom? Sure, it’s not always practical to take a page from an unrealistic romantic comedy, but this suggestion is actually a great idea for people in LTRs. Singer suggests trying the “stranger stranded on a deserted road” scenario, in which one partner waits next to their “broken-down” car until the other partner (the “helpful stranger”) arrives in a separate car and seduces them. Or, as evidenced in *Four Christmases*, the “bar pick-up” is another great option. Just make sure that you don’t get caught if you’re getting it on in a public place, like your car.
“If sex in the car isn’t your cup of tea, go to a local hotel together for a classic one-night stand,” Singer says. “Bonus for this option is room service for breakfast together after you’ve both broken character.”

**Up your sexting game.**
Instead of merely using your texting conversations to update one another about when the cable guy is coming, make your texts a little kinkier now and then and tease for what’s to come later in the day.
“Describe what you are wearing in bed and how you are touching yourself thinking of them,” Singer suggests. “You can keep this game going throughout the day, and when your partner arrives home that evening, sparks will fly.”
Need sexting ideas? Don’t worry, we’ve got plenty.

**Take it out of the bedroom.**
When the mood strikes, you might not be in your bedroom, candles lit and feeling your absolute most attractive. You may be sweaty from the gym or walking in from a long day of work when you catch a glimpse of your partner sitting on the couch or stirring tomato sauce, and you suddenly want to jump their bones. Singer says to give in to those impulses, and don’t worry about having sex on the couch or the kitchen counter (as long as no one else is home, that is).
Moral of the story: Sex doesn’t have to be some perfect bedroom situation. Trust your desires and go with the flow.

**Have angry sex.**
If your parents always told you to never go to bed angry, Geter says you might want to make an exception with your partner. Because, as some people already know, angry sex can be really, really hot.
“The part of the brain that is triggered with anger is the same part triggered during sex,” Geter explains. “Therefore, it's natural to want sex when angry, even if you haven't made up.”
She adds, “Plus, during this moment, you might focus a little more on yourself, which is also acceptable.”

**Take a sex workshop.**
Before you get visions of that awkward tantric course on *Sex and the City*, remember that adult workshops aren’t always that intense. Geter says that, by investing in the education of your sexuality, you show a real dedication to one another’s happiness and the longevity of your couplehood.
“This will build more intimacy and closeness,” Geter says. “Try a tantra workshop to tap into your inner sexuality, or a kink workshop to learn all about bondage.”
Just make sure to investigate your local options to figure out which workshop is best for you and/or your partner.

**Plan a sexcation.**
Even if you’re married and you’re saving for a trip to Disney with the kids, make time together a priority, especially time away from everyday stresses and responsibilities. Geter says a sexcation — yep, a vacation in which your only plan is to get it on all the time — will recharge your sex life.
“Book a nice cabin in the woods or a ritzy hotel room for the weekend,” she says. “Pack your favorite toys and sexy outfits — or no outfits at all! — leave your phones and other devices off, and enjoy the time with your partner.”

**Have a monthly relationship check-in.**
You may see your doctor twice a year, or meet with your boss once a week. So why not make time for a regular moment of reflection with your partner to discuss both your relationship and your sexual satisfaction? Sex therapist and expert Dr. Dawn Michael suggests sitting down and having a check-in once a month.
“Go over any issues or problems in the relationship and find solutions so that things get resolved immediately — not two years from now when resentment has already been built up,” Dr. Michael explains.

**Talk about each other’s sexual fantasies.**
Instead of getting into bed and reading your Kindle or scrolling through Instagram every night, allow your pre-bedtime routine to include discussing fantasies from time to time.
“In long-term relationships, especially, you might lose touch with how your partner’s cravings evolve over time, and asking about them can bring you closer,” Dr. Michael explains.
You can even write down your fantasies instead, she says, if that’s easier.
“You can place the idea in a card, fold it, and put it in a fantasy box, and pick from it from time to time to try something new,” Dr. Michael says. “This pushes both people to come up with new things to try or just talk about.”

**Don’t pick small battles that affect your sex life.**
No matter how compatible you are with someone, you’re bound to find minor annoyances that irk you in the relationship. But as Dr. Michael advises, picking your battles wisely will ensure you keep the romance in your sex life alive.
“If someone left the garage door open again and this upsets you, just close it and let it go,” she says. “I am sure that there are little things that upset them as well. Pointing those little things out all the time, instead of just dealing with them, can cause more fights than just not sweating it and doing it yourself.”

**Allow your partner to dictate your movement.**
Part of being in a long-term relationship is developing a sincere level of trust. In the same way you know your partner will be true to his or her word, you should be able to trust how they guide you in the bedroom. Sex therapist Dee Wagner challenges couples in a committed, long-term relationship to play what she calls “the mirror game.”
In this “game,” you or your partner can start off as the leader and you demonstrate the different things that turn you on, and it’s your partner’s job to copy (or “mirror”) your movements. The only catch is that they can’t touch you — they can only copy what you're doing to yourself.
“You may find that you learn things about each other that, even after many years together, are new,” Wagner says.
Once you’ve both had turns as the leader, Wagner suggests trying to move in sync, with no designated leader. Then, you can let that movement turn into finally touching each other.

**Practice yoga breathing together.**
Experts believe that a huge factor in being able to orgasm is simply breathing. It may sound simple, but for many people, it’s difficult to do this during sex. Wagner says that practicing syncing your breath and making each one deep and mindful, like yoga breathing, can build the intensity of your orgasm.
Here’s how it’s done, according to Wagner: “Sit across from one another and look at each other. Notice your partner's breathing pattern. How does it look? Is there a rise in your partner’s shoulders? An expansion of their chest? Begin to bring your breath into the same rhythm. When your breath rhythm is simultaneous, begin to touch each other and maintain synchronous breath through your entire sexual encounter.”

**Have sex…with your fingertips.**
When it comes to sexual arousal, the fingertips may just be the most underrated body part — their abundance of sensory neurons makes them particularly sensitive. And because so many couples rush through the motions of sex, they can forget that a soft touch can be the most impactful. That’s why Wagner suggests trying “fingertip” sex.
“The only kind of touch your hands are allowed to do is what is possible with the tips of your fingers,” she explains. “Mouths can touch mouths, tongues can touch tongues, tongues can touch any body part they want to touch, but hands can only touch your lover as hands would touch a piano or a keyboard — only the tips of the fingers.”

**Talk about masturbating.**
Even if you’ve never discussed it with your long-term partner — let alone actually masturbated together — there’s a good chance you’re both masturbating on your own time, since most people report doing it. So why not talk about it?
“Talking about each other's masturbation habits and preferences can be a huge turn-on,” says sex therapist Holly Richmond, PhD.
Plus, Dr. Richmond adds that supporting your partner’s masturbation habits and taking the erotic pressure off your partner for your own pleasure some of the time can make sex together feel more relaxed.
“Give them their space for sexual self expression, a huge part of which is masturbating,” she says.

**Make up your own “rules” — and don’t be afraid to change them.**
Sometimes, throwing out the rule book is the best way to recharge your sex life. After all, there’s no one-size-fits-all sex fix for every couple, so doing what works for you and your partner(s) is what’s most important.
“You simply need to learn to be honest with yourself and your partner,” O’Reilly says.
Experiment by crafting your own “rules” with your partner and trying them out for a while. And of course, don’t forget to check in and see how you both feel.

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Most of us are pretty excited for 2016 to end. Dubbed as a dumpster fire of a year by the internet, the year was rife with hackings, shadings, Twitter beefs, and all kinds of A-list breakups.

We all know where we were when Kim Kardashian exposed Taylor Swift for (kind of) lying about that whole "Kanye didn't tell me about 'Famous'" flub. And while Brangelina ended in a flash, Meghan Markle became the new American princess who stole Prince Harry's royal heart.

This year saw meaningful conversations about domestic violence and sexual assault, when Amber Heard and Gabrielle Union spoke out and pushed those issues forward into the mainstream. For no reason at all, Leslie Jones received so much racist and sexist vitriol online that Twitter had to step in and take control of the situation. And when Kardashian was robbed at gunpoint in a terrifying attack in Paris, close readings of celebrity, social media, and safety took center stage.

At the heart of all these viral stories were powerful, independent, and strong women who are not going anywhere. Like them or not, they controlled the narrative in 2016, and they'll be back even bigger in the new year. Ahead, a look at how they had us talking these past 12 months.

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**Amber Heard**
A little over a year after tying the knot, Amber Heard stunned fans when she filed for divorce from Johnny Depp, accusing him of verbal and physical abuse that spanned the entirety of their marriage. When graphic photos of Heard’s bruised face surfaced soon after, the onslaught of disturbing victim-blaming that followed started a larger conversation about domestic abuse and the many reasons survivors don’t feel safe enough to come forward.
Depp supporters leveled hateful allegations at Heard, accusing her of faking the whole thing to get her hands on a large settlement. Well, she shut all that down when she announced she was donating the entirety of her $7 million settlement to charity. Heard has continued to serve as a forceful voice for survivors of domestic abuse. Starring in a PSA for #girlgaze, Heard urged women to speak up, saying, “You don’t have to do it alone. You’re not alone.”
Photo: Matt Baron/REX/Shutterstock.

**Beyoncé**
If we had to use one symbol to represent 2016, the lemon emoji would be it. Beyoncé didn’t just break the internet, she broke all of us when she debuted *Lemonade*, her HBO music special confirming years-old rumors that Jay Z had been cheating on her. In one hour, *Lemonade* went through every stage of Beyoncé’s grief: heartbreak, anger, mourning, and finally, forgiveness. The Beyhive was torn: If Queen Bey could forgive Jay Z, surely we could too.
But the Beyhive was not in a forgiving mood when it came to whoever "Becky with the good hair" was. The Hive went into full witch-hunt mode, accusing designer Rachel Roy, Taylor Swift, Rita Ora, and even Rachael Ray of being Jay Z's other woman.
Photo: Courtesy of Parkwood Entertainment/ HBO.

**Blac Chyna**
In the span of just 12 months, Blac Chyna shocked the world — and we’re sure, Kylie Jenner— when she became an extended part of the family. Chyna hooked up with Rob Kardashian in January. She got engaged to her ex-fiancé’s girlfriend's brother in April; announced her pregnancy with a bitmoji in May; won over the entire Kar-Jenner brood; and starred in a six-episode E! series, *Rob & Chyna,* in September. In November, Chyna also gifted us with Dream Renée Kardashian, the cutest baby this side of Calabasas, before finally breaking Rob and the collective internet’s heart when she packed up all her stuff, Dream, and even Rob’s bag of chips and left for good in December.
How does your 2016 compare?
Photo: Broadimage/REX/Shutterstock.

**Gabrielle Union**
Without a doubt, *Birth of a Nation* was this year's most controversial film. Not just for the sexual violence the film's female characters endure, but for director Nate Parker's 1999 rape charges, of which he was later acquitted in the court case that followed.
Triggering a deeper conversation about sexual assault, *Nation* actress Gabrielle Union's powerful op-ed in the *Los Angeles Times* revealed she had been raped when she was 19 years old. Union didn't distance herself from the film, saying she can never really know what happened between Parker and his accuser, but she took the opportunity to urge the importance of sex education and a deeper understanding of consent. Union's main impetus for the op-ed was "to inform and educate so that these situations cease to occur on college campuses, in dorm rooms, in fraternities, in apartments, or anywhere else young people get together to socialize."
Photo: Matt Baron/REX/Shutterstock.

**Kim Kardashian**
Kim Kardashian's Fashion Week came to a terrifying halt when her Paris apartment was stormed by masked robbers in the middle of the night. The assailants dragged Kardashian from her bed into the bathroom where they tied her arms and legs and placed her in the tub. Minutes later, they had fled with almost $10 million in jewelry, including the engagement ring Kanye West had gotten his wife.
The internet reared its ugly head with memes and ridiculous theories speculating that the whole robbery was merely a staged PR stunt. But Kardashian's friends and fellow celebs came to the reality star's defense. Even some who believed the robbery was real leveled a hearty dose of victim-blaming at Kardashian. Fashion icon Karl Lagerfeld said an attack like that was to be expected, because the Kardashians are masters at flaunting their wealth.
It's been over three months now, and Kardashian has yet to make a formal return to her old life. But however long she needs, there's a strong base of supporters who only want the best for her after such a traumatic experience.
Photo: Swan Gallet/WWD/REX/Shutterstock.

**Selena Gomez**
In August, Selena Gomez shocked fans when she announced she was taking time off to manage health issues brought on by lupus, which she was diagnosed with in 2015. Gomez went completely dark on social media, and it was rumored she was in a rehab facility in Tennessee. Fans were clamoring for any news of her whereabouts and had nothing but well wishes for her speedy recovery.
So when she resurfaced during the AMAs in November, fans were beside themselves. Their excitement soon turned to support as Gomez’s acceptance speech for Best Pop Rock Female Performance took a serious and emotional turn.
"I had to stop," Gomez said. "Because I had everything. And I was absolutely broken inside. I kept it all together enough where I would never let you down. But I kept it too much together to where I let myself down." With a quivering voice and tearful eyes, Gomez added a message to all her fans, "If you are broken, you do not have to stay broken."
Now we can all look forward to new music, as Gomez has reportedly been laying down some powerful tracks in the studio. We can’t wait for her return in 2017, but only when she’s ready.
Photo: Matt Baron/REX/Shutterstock.

**Teyana Taylor**
The day after the VMAs, the only question on anyone’s lips was: Who on Earth is Teyana Taylor?! Let’s back up. Kanye West debuted his new music video for “Fade” during the VMAs, featuring singer and actress Teyana Taylor gyrating and dancing in a sexy and sweaty '80s workout homage to *Flashdance,* before turning into a cat with real-life husband, NBA player Iman Shumpert. Twitter was in hysterics, demanding to know every last detail about Taylor. We bet we’ll see more of Taylor on screen very soon.
Photo: Matt Baron/REX/Shutterstock.

**Miley Cyrus**
After taking a short break of, oh, a few years. Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth brought joy back to the world by getting back together. And they are most definitely engaged!
Cyrus has spent birthdays and holidays with the rest of the Hemsworth brood, and her *Hunger Games* beau even comes to support her during tapings of *The Voice*.
We can't help it, we had to include a photo of the two together!
Photo: Chelsea Lauren/Variety/REX/Shutterstock.

**Taylor Swift**
While much of the rumor mill has been churning out stories about Taylor Swift’s beef with Kimye, breakup with Calvin Harris, and relationship with Tom Hiddleston, the most important Swift story of the year is the news of her sexual assault lawsuit against DJ David Mueller.
Quick recap: Swift accused Mueller of groping her butt under her dress during a photo op in 2013. He claims he lost his job because of Swift and sued her for slander. She answered back with a countersuit for sexual assault and filed a motion to have the court documents sealed, including the photograph taken during the incident.
Swift and her mother's depositions revealed the emotional toll the incident had on both women, and the story hit a fever pitch when TMZ leaked the photo. The outcry from fans was swift and unrelenting. They leveled criticisms against the tabloid for essentially making Swift relive the incident all over again, except this time with millions of prying and judging eyes.
Swift's assault, unfortunately, shows that it can happen to any woman. But her lawsuit also sends the message that we don't have to accept it and can take action to stand up for ourselves.
Photo: Swan Gallet/WWD/REX/Shutterstock.

**Angelina Jolie**
Nothing lasts forever in Tinseltown. That's what we learned in September as one of Hollywood’s most solid A-list couples came to an end. Angelina Jolie filed for divorce from Brad Pitt, after a two-year marriage and 12 year relationship. The divorce quickly turned ugly, with custody of the couple’s six children at the crux of a months-long negotiation.
Authorities got involved to investigate child-welfare concerns after an incident on a private plane involving Pitt and the couple's eldest, Maddox. In the end, Pitt was cleared and the two reached an agreement with the help of child-health professionals. Jolie will retain custody of the kids, and Pitt will continue visits with the children.
Photo: Broadimage/REX/Shutterstock.

**Meghan Markle**
*Suits* actress Meghan Markle is literally living many girls' childhood dream: A real-life prince has fallen madly in love with her!
Markle became a household name when the world — and we assume, the queen — found out she was dating Prince Harry. The paparazzi began hounding her immediately, invading every part of her life, harassing her family, and even breaking into her home. And where they left off, the online trolls took over with racist and sexist messages. Prince Harry did something royals don't usually do, he released a strongly worded statement defending Markle, calling on the paps to lay off his girlfriend.
The two have been making their whirlwind, long-distance relationship work. Markle regularly jets off to London and Harry even broke with royal protocol and snuck away for a 12-hour trip to Toronto to visit his lady love. The two just spent a very un-royal holiday together in London, buying a Christmas tree and lugging it back all by themselves. Except in their case, they took it back to Kensington Palace.
We are all for an American princess, so here's to these two working out in 2017!
Photo: John Salangsang/BFA/REX/Shutterstock.

**Katy Perry**
We could talk ad nauseam about how much we love Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom; the two seem adorable and happy together. But actually, the more defining moment of Perry’s year was her political activism on the campaign trail for Hillary Clinton. While many other pop stars of her caliber chose to stay neutral in 2016, Perry spent months touting Clinton's achievements to anyone who would listen.
And the love goes both ways. In one of her first appearances after losing the election, Clinton surprised Perry with a heartwarming speech before presenting her with the Audrey Hepburn Humanitarian Award during UNICEF's Snowflake Ball.
Photo: Gregory Pace/REX/Shutterstock.

**Lena Dunham**
Lena Dunham put her foot in her mouth in 2016 when she told a story about being rebuffed by NFL player Odell Beckham Jr. at the Met Ball.
Putting words in his mouth, Dunham said Beckham didn't engage in a conversation with her during the dinner because he didn't think she was attractive enough. Dunham was excoriated by fans and critics alike for advancing a racist trope that sexualizes Black men, and for censuring someone because she didn't get the attention she wanted from him.
Dunham's apology tour didn't quite satisfy the masses, but Beckham took the high road and refused to comment on the matter, saying he didn't want any problems with anyone.
Photo: Matt Baron/REX/Shutterstock.

**#KimExposedTaylorParty**
Hell hath no fury like Kim Kardashian when her husband is trashed. The peace treaty between Kanye West and Taylor Swift was ripped to shreds when West debuted "Famous," in which he raps "Taylor and me might still have sex, because I made that bitch famous."
Tay's camp was not about to let it slide, so she clapped back with a pointed and strongly worded Grammys speech. West claimed he ran the lyrics by Swift, but no one was having it. Who was going to listen to someone who already had a history of bullying America's golden girl?
Enter Kimmy. Kardashian put herself directly into the narrative and actually broke the internet when she released videos on Snapchat of West reading some of the lyrics to "Famous" over the phone to an enthusiastic Swift. We will note, however, that West didn't appear to relay the "bitch" lyric, which is what Swift harped on after the fact.
But the damage was done for Taylor. Her reputation took a major blow, and she went into self-imposed hiding as the #KimExposedTaylorParty tweets flooded our social media feeds.
Photo: Larry Busacca/Getty Images.

**Leslie Jones**
The sexist jibes began almost immediately after an all-female *Ghostbusters* cast was announced. Misogynist haters weren’t shy about letting their opinions be known: Women were not funny and a new retelling of the beloved cult classic was unnecessary. So when critiques of the trailer and movie snowballed to hateful messages and threats of violence toward actress Leslie Jones, it was too much to bear.
Jones retweeted the worst of the racist and sexually violent messages in an attempt to draw the attention of Twitter administrators to the trolls. "I feel like I'm in a personal hell, I didn't do anything to deserve this," she wrote before announcing she was leaving the social media platform. Eventually, Twitter intervened, suspending accounts and sending out warnings to the worst offenders, prompting Jones’ return to much fanfare and support from fans.
Photo: Broadimage/REX/Shutterstock.

**Hillary Clinton**
In a year when pop culture and politics collided, Hillary Clinton’s comments the morning after the election could have gone either way, but it’s undeniable that her concession speech was a defining moment for American women.
Whether you voted for her or not, her message to the future generation of women is one to take to heart: "And to all the little girls who are watching this, never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world to pursue and achieve your own dreams." Amen.
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Why The Best SPFs Come From Asia

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Korean women have an extreme relationship with the sun — taught to avoid it at all costs — that shimmering ball of death in the sky. An entire industry supports the idea that, in return for a few carefree years of being beautifully bronzed, the sun will stealthily rob us of our youth and leave us wrinkled and covered in brown spots. And, it’s true. The sun is the number-one cause of aging skin. UV rays dry it out, break down collagen, and cause skin cancer.

This explains why Korean women deck out in full-on battle regalia in the summer months: Darth Vader-esque visors, sun umbrellas, really big hats, and, of course, a whole gamut of skin products to keep the Dorian Gray illusion alive.

The key to successful sun protection is layers. No, one sweep of tinted moisturizer with a hint of SPF won’t stand up against that burning ball of hot our solar system revolves around. Slathering on the SPF repeatedly during your day will best prepare your skin for facing the sun’s harmful rays and help it skin retain its youthful elasticity. Sure, layering SPF doesn't enhance your protection factor, but applying an SPF spray over your face two hours after you applied your SPF BB sure doesn't hurt.

Click through for some of my favorite Korean UVA- and UVB-screening products in a variety of forms and applications.

If you have sensitive skin and are strictly on an organic routine (or not), this SPF will protect you from any sun damage without a bit of irritation.
**Aromatica** Calendula Non-Nano UV Protection, $33, available at Peach & Lily.

The brand behind the best-selling cushion compact in Korea (more on that later) is basically the authority of making skin look effortlessly luminous. Iope’s UV Shield is a boss sun protector, but somehow also manifests a glow on your skin. I’m talking halo effect in full force.
Though the lightweight formula isn’t pigmented, I could wear it alone for its beautifying effects on a good skin day and as a primer on makeup-essential days.
**Iope** UV Shield Sun Protector SPF 50+ PA+++, $39.27, available at Aritaum.

In general, things that come in stick form are pretty convenient. High-five for corn dogs and ChapStick, and high-five for Sunprise Bye Sebum Sun Stick from Etude House.
This product doubles as sun protection and oil control, and also makes it remarkably easier to be responsible about slapping on a UV protectant. If you're concerned about your face turning into an oil slick under the blazing midday sun, a few swipes of this stick will give your face a matte finish and a much-needed cooling sensation.
**Etude House** Sunprise Bye Sebum Sun Stick SPF 50+ PA+++, $12.98, available at Kollection K.

This sunscreen from Neogen is a recent discovery that has quickly become one of my favorite sun protectants. The smell is amazing and hints at the potent botanicals pumped into the formula. Rose, honey, and raspberry extracts intensely hydrate skin, which at this point should be a standard feature for all SPF, considering the fact that there is likely some sun-parching skin exposure in your very near future.
When patted onto the skin, the lightweight formula is sucked almost instantly into skin, so you’re not endlessly rubbing white streaks back and forth across your face. I like to double-layer the formula under my cushion compact, and then once again on top for maximum sun protection — amazingly, my foundation doesn’t revolt with splotches or pilling.
**Neogen** Day-Light Protection Sunscreen, $30, available at Soko Glam.

Dr. Oracle is one of Korea’s leading dermatologists, which means he’s seen millions of patients — an impressive pool of knowledge to draw from when developing his products.
He created this sunscreen for patients — particularly those who had ultra-sensitive skin post-treatment. This means the formula is sensitive enough for women who’ve had layers of their dermis peeled off, but it also comes at a Korea-standard SPF 50 for full protection from the elements.
It’s formulated with skin-plumping peptides and a blend of botanical extracts including lavender, freesia, chamomile, bergamot, peppermint, and rosemary. Korean women love it because it works overtime as a lightweight, moisturizing sunscreen but also as a primer to help “grab” makeup onto the skin for a totally natural finish.
**Dr. Oracle** EPL Daily Sunblock SPF 50 PA+++, $44, available at Glow Recipe.

Aromatica's sunscreen is special for a few reasons. Firstly, it's a physical sunscreen, which means it reflects UV rays instead of absorbing them — so it's similar to zinc. But, unlike zinc, it doesn't have that white, chalky texture to it. It's one of the more wearable sunscreens on the market — and it's available stateside.
**Aromatica** Natural Tinted Sun-Cream, $25, available at Peach & Lily.

Innisfree is known for using natural Korean ingredients. In this case, that includes organic sunflower oil, organic Jeju green tea, and fermented yeast ingredients that help keep the face from becoming an oil slick. I like this sunscreen because it's lightweight and oil-absorbent, but one downside: Because it’s an all-mineral product, the higher levels of zinc leave a silvery finish that can make anyone look a bit Edward Cullen-esque.
**Innisfree** Eco Safety No Sebum Sunblock SPF35 PA+++, $15, available at Shop at Korea.

If you don’t already know, “air cushioning” is all the rage in Korea. It’s a great way to touch up sun protection on the go and the product also lends a luminous radiance to your complexion. These days, it’s all I put on my face and of all the air cushions out there, Iope is my favorite — and apparently it’s everyone else’s, too. (It’s said that one Iope Air Cushion XP is sold every 30 seconds.)
When picking out the right shade, know that the lower the number, the lighter the color. Beyond that, C stands for coverage (for more coverage), N stands for natural (my preference), and S stands for shimmer (if you’re into the Guerlain Meteorites look).
**Iope** Air Cushion XP SPF50+/PA+++, $40, available at Iope.

Sulwhasoo is a high-end beauty brand based around Korean herbal and medicinal ingredients. This broad-spectrum sunscreen BB is loaded with herbal ingredients like white ginseng and white cloud grass, so the benefits are twofold: broad-spectrum protection and evening out of skin tone while lending a soft, pinkish radiance to the face.
**Sulwhasoo** Snowise Brightening Serum BB Broad Spectrum Sunscreen SPF50+, $60, available at Bergdorf Goodman.

This product has lots of claims — it’s a mousse, it’s waterproof, and it’s supposed to lower your skin’s temperature. The foam-like mousse makes for a light and airy application. When rubbed onto the skin, the product breaks down into tiny droplets on the skin, leaving behind a slightly dewy, radiant finish.
**Hera** Sun Mate Cooling Mousse SPF50+ PA+++, $40, available at Tester Korea.

I’m not sure what a "sun liquid" is, but I do know it’s pretty moisturizing for a UV-protection product. It goes on incredibly light and silky, absorbing quickly into the skin. It also taps into the current fermented-skin-care craze, as it contains fermented enzymes that help brighten skin tone.
**Nature Republic** The First Sun Liquid SPF 50+ PA+++, $8.57, available at Korea Depart.

Another way to build up UV protection is to use a powder with SPF. Catrin's Natural 100 Mineral Sun Kill Powder is a great option because it's a translucent sun-protection powder that brings together 10 minerals to deliver 100% natural, oil-free, and chemical-free shine control. It’s perfect for keeping oiliness at bay and ideal for those who aren't a fan of chemical SPF.
**Catrin** Natural 100 Mineral Sun Kill Powder SPF 42+ PA+++, $20, available at Memebox.

This sunscreen harnesses all the power of the SPF gods into one tube. It promises to be a blemish balm, skin brightener, moisturizer, and sun protector, basically covering the spectrum of preventative and reparative sun care in one application. It’s lightly tinted a pinkish beige, but I’ve found it blends without discrimination and without the whitish hue characteristic of most sunscreens.
**Kangskin** Multi Block Cream SPF 50 PA+++, $42, available at Memebox.

Ohui's Sun Protection line is one of the gold standards of Korean sun-care products. Of this range, the most well-loved is the mist spray sunscreen. It's infused with lemon balm extract and peppermint extract to help decrease redness caused by sun exposure, and this also means that distinct sunscreen smell is replaced by a pleasantly light, lemony scent.
**Ohui** Sun Protection Mist Spray Sunblock EX SPF 50 PA+++, $22.69, available at Oh My Face.

I'm a big fan of CNP Laboratory products, and this sunscreen is one of my absolute favorites. It can be used as a makeup base, but I find myself toting it to the beach as a general sunscreen to slather on every couple of hours. It's not sticky or oily on the skin, and from a purely sun-protecting perspective, it's what I consider a high-performance product.
**CNP Laboratory** Omega Sunblock SPF 50+ PA+++, $44.10, available at Shop at Korea.

Amorepacific is a stateside staple among Korean imports — read: easy to find at stores like Sephora when you're in a pinch — and offers serious protection in a light, yet hydrating formula. This particular version is oil-free, and keeps skin hydrated while absorbing excess sebum. Translation: It's a win-win.
**Amorepacific** Natural Protector SPF 30/PA+++, $65, available at Sephora.

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Aging gracefully is the goal of hopeful, optimistic millennials everywhere, isn’t it? We know that wrinkle-free isn’t an option — unless you’re a Real Housewife — but we’d like to look healthy, and damn good, as the decades go by. Well, as professionals (and capitalism!) tell us, the key to a beautiful complexion is daily care and smart prevention.

We get it: You already knew that! But, don't you get confused about how exactly you should be “preventing” things? (Is Botox preventative?) How can we weave anti-aging products into our routines without prompting an onslaught of clogged pores and acne? And, more importantly, at what point do we need to get Olivia-Pope levels of serious about fine lines, wrinkles, and hyperpigmentation?

To answer these very important questions (and help phase you into real adulthood), we consulted one prominent dermatologist and two aestheticians. Here, they take us through the early, middle, and late chapters of our 20s, and then give us a sneak peek at our 30s. But, before you start clicking, we want you to note: At no point is it too late to start taking good care of your skin. And, if you have any questions about what you see here, feel free to leave a message in the comments, and we’ll be sure to get back to you.

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**The Early 20s**
Adulthood is just beginning for you, children of the future! Unfortunately, while life speeds up, your body does the opposite. “Skin-repair replacement mechanisms begin to slow by age 20,” says celebrity dermatologist Harold Lancer, MD. “In women, there are hormonal shifts — estrogen declines, and testosterone increases.” This might come as a surprise for someone who’s just beginning to enjoy the best skin of their lives: “Your skin, right now, *looks* like it's in its prime,” says Caroline Hirons, a London-based aesthetician. “But, what you do right now will determine how it looks later on.”
So, your early 20s are kind of like facial bootcamp: It's the time to build up the proper discipline and habits that will help you age gracefully — without going totally overboard and causing your face to become a red, irritated mess.
**Swap the Acne Wash**
“Americans treat their skin like it’s the enemy," says Hirons. "It’s not! Get rid of any foaming acne cleansers, because they’re too stripping.” Unless you’re under specific instructions from your derm to use a medicated daily wash, choose a gentler alternative. “A cleansing milk will balance the complexion and remove the day’s grime,” she says.
**Ren**, $28.00, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Ren.

**Pick Up A Cleansing Oil**
And, of course, washing twice daily is absolutely necessary. “I always tell my clients that cleansing before bed is non-negotiable. Now is the time to be responsible,” says celebrity aesthetician Joanna Vargas. And don’t try to be sneaky after you’ve had a few too many cocktails at happy hour: “Cleansing wipes absolutely don’t count as washing your face!” Hirons says.
**Caudalie** Make-Up Removing Cleansing Oil, $28, available at Sephora.

A cleansing balm is another excellent choice. Many formulas, like this one, are loaded with oils that dissolve makeup in a matter of seconds. Unlike cleaning oils, balms are solid at room temperature, making them a great mess-free options for travel.
**Clinique** Take the Day Off Cleansing Balm, $29, available at Clinique.

**Start Exfoliating Three Times a Week**
“You have to stimulate your skin in order for it to repair itself,” explains Dr. Lancer. “It’s just like exercise — you have to get the muscles burning in order to promote cardiovascular muscular growth. Make sure to use a scrub at night, so your skin has time to recover.” Since you’re still young and beautiful (as Lana Del Rey sings), you’ll want something gentle with just the right amount of grit: You don't want to rub your face raw. This product should do the trick.
Photo: Dermalogica

**Swap Your Toner**
That’s right: It doesn’t always have to sting! “I always recommend my younger clients stay away from astringent toning products [in favor of] something more balancing,” Vargas says. “Rose is incredibly hydrating and good for circulation — it works on any skin type.”
**Eminence Organics**, $38.00, available at Buy Natural SkincarePhoto: Via Éminence.

**Start Using an Eye Cream**
“The skin around the eyes is very thin and gentle, which means signs of aging are likely to start there,” says Vargas. You should apply a basic, hydrating eye cream both day and night to keep fine lines at bay. Just pat it in with your ring finger, and make sure you leave time for it to sink into the skin.
**Clinique** Pep-Start Eye Cream, $26.50, available at Sephora.

**Get Diligent About SPF**
The biggest no-brainer, though, is starting to use SPF, ASAP. “Daily sun protection will go a very long way in terms of preventing the signs of aging,” Hirons says. Dr. Lancer notes: “You should be using [SPF] 15 to 30, because much more than that is [just] marketing. Just make sure to apply it liberally — that’s the one mistake a lot of my patients make with sunscreens." We love this all-natural wonder from Canada.
**Consonant**, $45.00, available at ConsonantPhoto: Via Consonant.

**Get to Know Glycolic Acid**
Renowned for both its resurfacing and purifying properties, glycolic acid helps regenerate the skin *and* treat pesky acne and blackheads. “It will also help with pore size and improve overall skin texture,” Vargas says. The best part? It comes from all sorts of delightful, naturally-sourced ingredients, so you can feel good about using it. (Yup, raspberries can help you battle wrinkles!) Start by using this product only on the nights you exfoliate, and then build your way up to once a night. You'll wake up with a glowing, polished visage.
**Drunk Elephant** T.L.C. Framboos Glycolic Night Serum, $90, available at Sephora.

**Get to Know Antioxidants**
“There’s a huge lifestyle component to skin care,” says Dr. Lancer. "At this age, you’re wolfing down your lunch, going to parties, imbibing too much alcohol, and being surrounded by tobacco products. That’s why antioxidants are key.” You can only counteract the damage done by living la vida Lohan with the proper cocktail of ingredients, which helps ward off environmental stressors. This daily cream does the trick without being too heavy.
When you’re applying it, says Hirons, be sure to save some for the neck and décolletage. “Americans are the only people who think the face stops at the chin,” she says. Save yourself from a future of turtlenecks by spreading the love.
**Tammy Fender**, $95.00, available at Beauty BarPhoto: Via Tammy Fender.

**Try a Facial Oil**
Oils are the true gold standard of skin care, mostly because they contain potent ingredients and optimum moisturizing properties. “The right oil can also help mend acne scars and breakouts,” Hirons says. She recommends this blend by Sunday Riley, which contains a purifying lemon-myrtle oil. “Just be careful: A couple of drops across the forehead and cheeks should do it. Avoid the chin!”
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**Sunday Riley** Artemis Hydroactive Cellular Face Oil, $75, available at Birchbox.
Photo: Via Sunday Riley.

**The Mid-20s**
Okay, so you’ve built the foundation for good skin. Congratulations! Now, it’s time to start getting a little more serious. Twenty-five is, in the beauty world, a tipping point: “By age 25, the skin has decelerated its repair mechanisms, and that affects your entire body,” says Dr. Lancer. This is also when you can accurately evaluate what damage has been caused — and, with the help of a dermatologist, plan how to treat it. “Everybody should be seeing a board-certified dermatologist at least once a year by this point in their life,” says Vargas. Together, you and your derm can discuss concerns like hyperpigmentation or hormonal acne. At the quarter-century mark, you should allow for splurges now and then, which means one thing: “Monthly facials are essential for detoxing the pores and doing a mini-peel,” Vargas says. “You should also look for a service that provides oxygen for the skin, which promotes healing.” And, this is just the beginning.
**Keep Your Cleanser, But Upgrade Your Scrub**
“The ‘no pain, no gain’ rule also applies to skin,” insists Dr. Lancer, whose Polish exfoliant is beloved by Victoria Beckham. “By your mid-20s, your skin is more like a couch potato: It has potential, but it’s lazy. This will help get it up and running." Try using this three times a week before bed in order to super-charge the rest of your routine. (There’s a formula for blemish-prone skin, too.)
As for the rest of your regimen? Make sure to maintain the nightly double-cleansing, the daily SPF, the eye cream, your oil, and your antioxidant moisturizer.
**Lancer Skincare**, $75.00, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Lancer.

**Upgrade Your Serum**
“Moisturizer is for skin type, but serum is for skin *condition*,” explains Hirons. That means it’s time to start treating whatever’s bothering your complexion with some seriously revved-up ingredients — a.m. and p.m. “Alpha-hydroxy acids will help to dry up hormonal breakouts and lightly exfoliate,” she says. “Antioxidants, like vitamin C, will help to protect and brighten spots and acne scars.” For the former, try the pictured product. For the latter, we love Eminence Organics Citrus Kale Potent C+E Serum. Not sweating anything in particular? Keep clicking.
**Ole Henriksen**, $45.00, available at SephoraPhoto: Via Ole Henriksen.

Not concerned about breakouts or pigment issues? That doesn’t mean you’re off the hook: Skipping serum is like skipping your daily vitamins! Instead, try the universally-friendly Joanna Vargas Daily Serum for a radiance-boosting cocktail of antioxidants and hyaluronic acid. It’ll perk up a tired complexion in a pinch.
**Joanna Vargas** Skincare Daily Serum, $85, available at Beauty.com.

**Update Your Toner**
You let go of the alcohol-based acne toners for a few years, but now you need to get serious. “Acid toning is essential, because it gives you a gentle, mild exfoliation,” Hirons says. This product, known among beauty junkies simply as “P50,” is what Hirons calls “the Rolls-Royce of toners.” She says to use it nightly, but we suggest easing into it: For the first few times, it tingles and stings, and might leave you a little pink. (It gets better — promise!) The reason? It has a high AHA content, which regulates oil production and maintains the skin’s pH level for a balanced, even complexion.
**Biologique Recherche**, $57.00, available at Rescue SpaPhoto: Via Biologique Recherche.

**Update Your Masks**
Now’s the time to invest in an anti-aging treatment. But, is there one that can also help with pimples, just in case? “I’m a huge fan of lactic acid because it lightly exfoliates, but also minimizes the pores,” Vargas says. Her Exfoliating Mask (shown here) is a soon-to-be cult beauty product, beloved by her celebrity clients (and this writer). “It’s gentle enough that you can put it under your eyes for a quick pick-me-up,” she says. “Or, you can sleep with it on blemishes to treat them overnight.”
Photo: Via Joanna Vargas.

This overnight mask tightens skin as you sleep and drenches it with moisture, so you'll wake up looking a little more contoured than usual, and feeling a whole lot softer.
**Fresh** Black Tea Firming Overnight Mask, $92, available at Sephora.

**Add Night Cream**
The days of one moisturizer are over: You have officially joined the legions of women who use night cream. “Sleep is an important time for the skin,” Vargas says. This is especially true if you’re using products like Polish and P50 — you'll need a healthy dose of moisture before bed when active ingredients are at play. “You can use just your facial oil, or you can put on a night cream and then an oil, depending on your skin type,” Hirons suggests. “But, start with something light, and avoid anything with shea butter — this one is gentle enough for daily use.”
**Kate Somerville**, $20.00, available at Kate SomervillePhoto: Via Kate Somerville.

**The Late 20s**
“By 29, you really need to get serious about stuff,” says Vargas. “Your skin goes through a complete transformation between the ages of 22 and 29. Your body’s ability to produce new skin cells slows down completely.” Look at your late 20s as an opportunity to really crack the whip on your complexion before the big 3-0: You can start using retinol, learn that “plump” is a good thing when it comes to your skin, and learn how to protect your skin barrier in a major way. All of this hard work will hopefully delay the need for more serious things, like Retin-A and chemical peels, until they’re absolutely necessary. You should, however, see a facialist once a month for a peel and an LED light treatment, which will help maintain your skin's texture.
**Update Your Cleanser (Again), Exfoliate Daily**
We know: It’s the millionth time you’ll have done this in a decade, but a cleansing balm is totally worth it. “They destroy makeup without being stripping, and they still leave the skin feeling soft and supple,” Hirons says. She loves this one for an ultra-nourishing feel. But, if you're combination, you might prefer Nude's Cleansing Jelly, which is safe for eyes and face.
Unless you have sensitive skin, you should also try exfoliating every night. But, choose a cleanser-scrub hybrid, and save the Polish for the days in-between. Try Tata Harper Regenerating Cleanser.
**Sarah Chapman**, $75.00, available at Bloomingdale'sPhoto: Via Sarah Chapman.

**Tone More, Hydrate Smarter**
Chances are, you’ve already interacted with hyaluronic acid during your skin journey. But, now it’s time to start using it regularly. The ingredient is well-known for its instant plumping effects. “It basically supercharges your moisturizer,” Hirons says. This is particularly important because you should, by now, be using acid toner both day *and* night to help regenerate your skin. “The hyaluronic acid will supercharge your moisturizer, protecting the skin’s barrier,” Hirons says. (It also makes applying makeup a total dream.)
**Indeed Labs**, $36.99, available at AmazonPhoto: Via Indeed Labs.

**Start Using Retinol, Keep Your Serum**
“The king of all antioxidants is vitamin A, which is where prescription Retin-A comes from,” says Dr. Lancer. “It’s critically important, because products with retinoid acid reorganize the process known as keratinization, or the way the skin repairs and replaces itself.” But, as Vargas cautions, it can cause irritation among more sensitive types. So, try using this a few times a week before bed, and absolutely do *not* forget SPF the morning after. This is more of a precautionary method: Hirons says retinol isn’t *really* necessary until after age 30, but it can’t hurt to start a mild version (like this one) before then. To complement it, stick to your regular daily serum.
**Arcona**, $68.00, available at ArconaPhoto: Via Arcona.

**Update Your Eye Cream**
It’s also time to get serious about treating eye wrinkles to prevent crow’s feet. “Vitamin C is a massively important antioxidant that gives advanced environmental protection,” Hirons says. Caudalie’s lightweight formula is jam-packed with the stuff — plus, it's gentle enough to use day and night.
**Caudalie**, $49.00, available at CaudaliePhoto: Via Caudalie.

If you're tired of waking up to puffy eyes and dark circles, dab on a bit of this eye cream every night so your under-eyes look well-rested and bright.
**RoC** Multi Correxion 5 in 1 Eye Cream, $15.79, available at Target.

**Update Your Face Oil**
If your blackheads and acne are finally calming down, it’s wise to start experimenting with a different facial oil for twice-daily use. “Put it on over your night cream if you're dry,” Hirons suggests. This Rodin product is a rich — and fragrant — blend of 11 essential oils. (Bonus tip: Smooth one drop over your complexion before applying foundation, and you'll glow like a lightbulb.)
**Rodin** Jasmine Neroli Face Oil, $170, available at Rodin.
Photo: Via Rodin.

**Update Your Night Cream**
This liquid acts immediately, forming a cushion that protects the skin barrier from water loss. It'll serve as the ultimate soothing tool on your retinol days.
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**Dr. Jart+** Ceramidin Liquid, $39, available at Birchbox.
Photo: Via Ceramidin.

**The Early 30s**
You’ve made it. “By the time you’ve reached 30, your routine should really switch over to all anti-aging products,” Hirons says. “In this decade, things just slow down. I like to tell people that your body goes on a little holiday and then comes back! You laugh now, but by your 40s, it goes away — and you wonder if it’s ever returning!”
But, a whole lot of this is skin sensationalism: Being 30 means your skin is still at its prime, especially if you’ve been vigilant about daily SPF and proper cleansing. Still, it’s time to consult your dermatologist about facials — or possibly even twice-yearly acid-based peeling. (Only if necessary!) “If hyperpigmentation is a concern, you may want to look into light-resurfacing procedures with low-energy lasers twice to three times a year,” Dr. Lancer suggests.
If your skin’s in tip-top shape, all you need are a couple of upgrades to what you’re already doing. But, the pros caution, you should reconsider other things, like lifestyle choices: Think hard about forsaking cigarettes forever, limiting your alcohol intake, and curbing how much processed sugar you eat. “We look at women in Hollywood who have aged very well, [and] these people don’t have any caffeine or added salt, and their carb intake is low," Dr. Lancer says. "They’re proof that anti-aging really needs a multi-pronged approach."
**Upgrade Your Retinol**
This is a good age to start using Vitamin A daily, and you’ll want a more intense formula to get your glow going. “You should be using a product that contains 1% retinol,” Dr. Lancer says. “Anything more than that can be found in prescription Retin-A, which is more of a corrective treatment than a preventative one.” Use it before your bedtime moisturizer, so your skin has time to heal itself in case redness occurs. Consider daily polishing, too — morning and night, if your complexion can handle it.
**SkinCeuticals**, $63.00, available at SkinCeuticalsPhoto: Via Skinceuticals.

**Invest In a Serum**
Unfortunately, the more advanced skin care becomes, the more it costs. And, since serums deliver all the good stuff in the most essential, concentrated method, you might want to start considering formulas that are priced beyond what you’re used to spending. It boils down to this: If you splurge on one thing in your routine, let it be serum. Tata Harper’s range is spectacular, because it targets different concerns (lifting and firming, plumping, brightening) in formulas that are lightweight enough to use daily — even if you still get the occasional breakout. You should, however, still keep your hyaluronic-acid moisturizer and facial oils handy. (And, never forget SPF!)
**Tata Harper**, $185.00, available at Tata HarperPhoto: Via Tata Harper.

**Update Your Eye Cream**
Getting religious about eye cream will also go a long way: one for day and one for night is best. AmorePacific’s duo is genius: The day version has SPF, so you’re protecting while hydrating. Meanwhile, the night formula increases turnover and restores collagen.
**Amorepacific**, $150.00, available at AmorepacificPhoto: Via AmorePacific.

**Update Your Night Cream**
Hirons says to avoid shea butters in your 20s. But, in your 30s: “You want something rich to sleep in.” If you massage a mask into your skin before bedtime, it'll go to work long after the label-suggested 10 minutes, which means you’ll wake up with refreshed and restored skin. Look for treatments labeled “healing,” since your routine now has a plethora of active ingredients at work. To put it simply: Serums and retinol deliver the good stuff, and moisturizer acts as a cushion. (Just consider this the most luxurious cushion ever.)
**Chantecaille**, $79.00, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Chantecaille.

**Update Your Masks**
Sheet masks are, essentially, thin paper cloths that have been soaked in serum. This one, which is doused in retinol, would be ideal to adapt into your routine on a weekly basis. Try it before bed, massage the excess into your skin and down the décolletage, and follow with a facial oil or your night cream.
**Shiseido**, $63.00, available at NordstromPhoto: Via Shiseido.

**Invest In A Neck & Décolleté Cream**
At this point, you know the importance of potent creams, serums, and masks, but you likely haven't given much attention to your neck and chest. “Many women in their twenties and thirties are using expensive face creams and coming in regularly for face-focused tweaks, but very few think to take care of their necks before 40,” says Paul Jarrod Frank, MD, a dermatologist in New York City.
To keep the thin skin supple and youthful-looking, reach for a treatment targeted to the area and containing ingredients like glycolic acid, calcium, and amino acids.
**Dr. Brandt** Do Not Age Firming Neck Cream, $67, available at Sephora.

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6 Arm Exercises You'll Actually Want To Do

December 22, 2016, 6:45 am

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Way, way too many women avoid or even fear arm workouts because they think they’re too hard — or worse, they worry about getting “too bulky.” First of all, strong muscles aren’t necessarily big muscles, so that fear is totally misplaced. (And even if that were how it worked, there’s nothing wrong with having big, defined muscles!)

Plus, strengthening your arms is in no way "too hard" — as long as you train within your abilities and build from there. The trick is to find moves that work your arms and your entire upper body, training everything as a unit in order to get functionally stronger (that means better at opening heavy doors and lifting things in your everyday life).

What you won’t find in this roundup is biceps curls. Because, unless you’re a fitness competitor who needs to create mass or definition, bending just your elbow for multiple reps is kind of a waste of time in terms of bang for your muscle-building buck. And, really, when was the last time you picked something up by first fully extending your elbow and then folding your forearm straight up toward your shoulder? (The answer should be never.) Your biceps, along with other, bigger muscles of your upper body, are much better served doing moves that get them working in synergy, not in isolation.

Ahead, a list of moves that meet these qualifications that you can pick and choose from to create your own arm workout. To put them together in a circuit, choose a rowing exercise, a chest-focused press or push-up, a shoulder press or raise, and a more total-body movement. Do three or four sets of 8 to 12 reps to make it a kick-ass upper-body circuit. Now get at it!

**Wall Push-ups**
One of the most functional exercises for the whole body is the standard push-up: Basically the entire upper body works in synergy for the movement part while the rest of your body (core, legs) have to brace to stabilize. If the full monty just isn’t your thang (yet), start at the top with this variation.
**How-to:** Stand in front of a wall at least three feet from it. Place your palms against the wall about shoulder-width apart and come up on your toes so your body forms an angled plank against the wall.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Wall Push-ups (cont.)**
**How-to:** Brace your core by pulling in through your bellybutton and squeezing your glutes, then inhale as you bend your elbows out on an angle so that they form an A shape with your head and shoulders. Exhale to press your body back up to the plank. Once you can do 10 of these with ease, move on to incline pushups.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Eccentric Push-ups**
This version of on-the-floor push-ups focuses on controlling the lowering-down portion, which is often more challenging than the press. (They’re sometimes called “negative” push-ups, but that’s just not very friendly-sounding.)
**How-to** : Start on the floor in a long-arm plank position, hands a bit wider than shoulders (glutes squeezed).
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Eccentric Push-ups (cont.)**
Slowly, with control, inhale and bend your elbows back in the A shape as you pitch your chest slightly forward, lowering all the way to the ground (it’s kind of like yoga chaturanga but with wider elbows). Drop your knees down, and exhale to press back up, then pop your knees back up so you’re in that plank position again. Do 10.

**Supported Bent-Over Rows**
The tough part about a lot of upper-body work, particularly work that targets the backs of the shoulders, is that you generally need to manipulate gravity in order to get at the right muscles. This one requires dumbbells or something heavy (worst case, start with a gallon jug of water, which weighs eight pounds). The gravity manipulator: Bend down so that your back is parallel to the floor, so when you lift the weight, the muscles you’re hitting are the shoulders and the biceps.
**How-to:** Place one bent knee and the hand of your same-side arm atop a bench (or a firm ottoman or couch frame, in a pinch), such that your knee is aligned under your hip and your arm is straight, with your wrist below your shoulder.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Supported Bent-Over Rows (cont.)**
Hold your weight in your free hand, exhale as you slowly bend your elbow up toward the ceiling, allowing it just to graze your ribs and break the plane of your back. Inhale and slowly resist the weight as you allow your arm to straighten. Do 10 to 15 reps; then switch sides. If you have access to a variety of dumbbells, go heavy for this one (15 pounds or more), to the point at which completing 10 reps is a challenge, but you could probably do two more.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Unsupported Bent-Over Rows**
Once you’ve mastered the bench-supported version, get your core into the act with this two-armed row.
**How-to:** Hold weights in both hands. Hinge at your waist, bending your knees slightly, so that your back is flat and close to parallel to the floor; your chest and shoulders should be open, not hunched over. It helps if you hold your gaze on something several feet ahead of you on the floor.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Unsupported Bent-Over Rows (cont.)**
Exhale and slowly bend both your elbows up as you did before with one arm, so that they graze your ribs and just break the plane of your back. Inhale and lower back down slowly. Do 10 to 15 here (ideally with that heavy weight we just talked about).
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Bent-Over Row with Kickback**
Adding this little bonus to the bent-over row targets the triceps (backs of the arms) without only targeting the triceps.
**How-to:** Go slightly lighter on the weights than you did for the rowing-only version of this move. Start in same position as you did for unsupported bent-over rows.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Bent-Over Row with Kickback** **(cont.)**
Exhale and slowly bend both your elbows up, so that they graze your ribs and just break the plane of your back.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Bent-Over Row with Kickback (cont.)**
Maintain that great hinged flat-back position and row your elbows up toward the ceiling, then extend your forearms straight so your arms are totally straight. Hold for a beat, then re-bend your elbows and slowly lower the weights back down.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Chest Presses**
Just like your back and biceps tend to work together, so do your chest and triceps.
**How-to:** Snag some dumbbells (try at least 10-pounders) and start on your back on a bench or the floor. Hold the weights in the air with your elbows bent right along your sides; then, exhale and press the weights up straight over your chest.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Chest Presses (cont.)**
Control as you inhale and bring the weights back down to the start. Another version: Wing your elbows out to the sides so they’re at about a 45-degree angles from your ribs. Press up to the top, bringing the ends of your dumbbells close to each other, but without clanging them.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Single-Arm** **Overhead Presses**
Lifting weight overhead is super-common in our daily lives — putting groceries away, stashing your suitcase in the overhead bin. The overhead press trains for these movements. There are a couple of reasons it’s good to do these one arm at a time, especially when you first start. One, you’ll get a better range of motion and likely be able to get your arm up higher and straighter (sometimes, the arms will fall forward slightly when done simultaneously). And two, it’s a better core challenge to be a little off-balance.
**How-to:** Grab a dumbbell in the 5-to-15-pound range. Bend your elbow so it’s right alongside your ribs and the weight is hovering above your shoulder, with your palm facing your chin.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Single-Arm (cont.)**
Exhale as you press the weight straight up overhead, tracking the elbow straight in front of you (no winging out) and ending with the inside of the bicep aligned with the ear. Important: Do not let your body arch back under the weight. Keep your knees soft, and even stick your butt out ever so slightly, so you don’t let your hips jut forward. Inhale to lower the weight with control. Do 10 to 15 reps; then, switch sides.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Plank Step-Ups**
Even more functional are arm-focused total-body moves. This one takes a plank and adds some one-armed pressing and instability by, in effect, climbing stairs with your arms.
**How-to:** Find a step, preferably a shallow one to start. Set yourself up in a straight-arm plank (squeeze those glutes!) right in front of the step.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Plank Step-Ups (cont.)**
Shift your weight to one hand and pick up the other hand, placing it on the step and pressing into it so that you step up onto the tread, with the other hand following.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Plank Step-Ups (cont.)**
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Plank Step-Ups (cont.)**
Now step back down with same lead arm. Repeat the sequence with the other arm. All of that is one rep. Do 5 to 10.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

**Plank Step-Ups (cont.)**
Once you have the action down, really focus on preventing your hips from swaying as you climb up and down.
Illustrated by: Paola Delucca

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The Best Non-Drying Lipsticks To Grab, ASAP

December 22, 2016, 6:45 am

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The last thing we want on our lips — especially as we approach the winter months — is a drying lipstick. In years past, we may have skipped our matte lippies in favor of their glossier, more balm-like cousins, but thanks to new formulations, comfortable mattes exist and they are here to stay.

That being said, we still run the risk of nabbing a subpar, moisture-sucking formula (they can't all be perfect, right?). So in an effort to help you avoid flaky, cracked lips, we rounded up our favorite matte lipsticks that not only feel comfortable, but seriously deliver in the pigment and texture departments. Ahead, check out our favorite lines and our choice colors from each.

A velvety-soft lipstick that barely feels like it's on your mouth? Count us in.
**Butter London** Moisture Matte Lipstick, $22, available at Butter London.

Vibrant, non-drying, *and* affordable? This new collection features on-trend shades and a comfortable finish.
**CoverGirl** Katy Kat Matte Lipstick, $8.99, available at Ulta Beauty.

Calling a lip formula creamy *and* matte seems contradictory. But these lipsticks magically stay on for hours (and don't migrate to your teeth or chin) and feel almost balmy.
**Maybelline** Color Sensational Creamy Matte Lip Color, $7.99, available at Ulta Beauty.

This is a redder step up from your favorite your-lips-but-better shade. The smooth formula feels almost weightless, and the color is so forgiving that you can slick it on in a hurry without a mirror.
**Buxom** Big & Sexy Bold Gel Lipstick in Evocative Petal, $22, available at Sephora.

Not the traditional lipstick type? Go for this liquid version. The doe-foot applicator makes sweeping on color easy. Speaking of color, the brand carries a whopping 21 — from blush nude to vivid lilac — and none of them flake, fade, or feather.
**Stila** Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick, $24, available at Sephora.

Formula-wise, NARS' Velvet Matte Lip Pencils have a lot going for them: smooth application, great pigment, and enough moisture to make them comfortable for daylong wear. Train Bleu is our go-to vampy hue for fall and winter because of how amazing it looks applied directly from the bullet or blended out with fingers as a stain. Although it's a pain to sharpen these, it also makes them the perfect lipliner replacements.
**NARS** Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in Train Bleu, $26, available at NARS.

This liquid lipstick goes on a little watery at first, but don't worry, it dries to a beautiful, velvety finish that lasts for hours. This vibrant pink hue has purple undertones that make the color pop even more. Plus, unlike most liquid lipsticks, this one layers beautifully (read: doesn't go patchy or make our lips crack), which makes post-dinner touch-ups super-easy.
**Bourjois** Rouge Edition Velvet in Pink Pong, $16.12, available at ASOS.

We've waxed poetic about celeb makeup artist Troy Surratt's lip pencils before — and for good reason. The automatic bullet goes on with the precision of liner, and feels like a comfortable matte lipstick. The texture allows it to go on smoothly, but trust us when we say that it does *not* move. The best part? The color range has been expanded to include even more brights, darks, and nudes, so you're sure to find a hue you love.
**Surratt Beauty** Automatique Lip Crayon in Alluring, $34, available at Sephora.

This lipstick ticks all the boxes when it comes to hydrating mattes, but it goes one step farther because of how it wears. After a few hours, this formula fades but leaves a very even, pigmented stain. Sometimes, we're so lazy that we just apply this lipstick straight from the bullet in the morning and skip reapplication in favor of rocking tinted lips for the rest of the day.
**Chanel** Rouge Allure Velvet Luminous Matte Lip Colour in La Fascinante, $36, available at Nordstrom.

Thanks to a formula infused with avocado and jojoba oils, this semi-matte lipstick never leaves your lips flaky — even after days of wear. We love pairing this hot-pink hue, Gigi, with minimal makeup for a statement lip that's a little more outré than your typical red.
**Lauren + Vanessa** Lipstick in Gigi, $24, available at Lauren + Vanessa.

If you ask us, everyone needs a tangerine shade in their arsenal. This one from Nyx is a classic, and beloved by just about every blogger in existence for good reason: It feels luxurious and goes on opaque in a single swipe.
**Nyx Cosmetics** Matte Lipstick in Indie Flick, $5.99, available at Ulta.

A lengthy love letter to this line of lip crayons already exists in the Refinery29 beautysphere, but in short, they're highly pigmented, moisturizing-matte marvels that will last through just about anything (including cocktails and fries — we tested).
**LOC** Vibrant Matte Lipstick in Glam Life, $8, available at Birchbox.

This formula feels like a balm, but gives off smooth, pigmented color that's super-easy to slap onto your lips without fear of bleeding. The shade 1993 is the perfect '90s brown — it may not look like much in the bullet, but trust us, it is incredible in action.
**Urban Decay** Matte Revolution Lipstick in 1993, $22, available at Urban Decay.

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The Best Base Makeup For Women Of Color

December 22, 2016, 6:45 am

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Base makeup is one of those notoriously hard beauty products to shop for. Like picking out jeans or bras, the process takes time, commitment, and patience. The trial-and-error situation gets even harder when you only have a handful of choices — all of which are typically nowhere near your actual complexion shade.

Unfortunately, this is the harsh reality for women of color. There's a whole spectrum of "fair" shades on the market, while those with more pigment are left choosing between "tan" and "brown." (And, don't even get us started on "one shade fits all.")

Thankfully, according to CoverGirl makeup artist Jennifer Fleming, there's been progress over the past few years. "Many brands are offering shade extensions catering to a much wider range of skin tones and complexions," she says. "As the world continues to become more blended, there will always be work to do."

According to makeup artist Sir John, who's worked with everyone from Queen Bey to Joan Smalls, not having a uniform complexion is another big problem that plagues women with darker skin. "Women of color — [and that includes] Pacific Islander, Asian, Latin-American — have two different colors that they're working with," he says. "They're lighter in the center of the face, and they’re usually deeper around the hairline and under the cheekbones." To counter that, he suggests mixing two products: one that matches your hue and one that's slightly darker. Genius.

Ahead, get more base-makeup wisdom from these pros, along with their go-to brands for women of color.

This creamy foundation — which comes in a whopping 26 shades — delivers one of the most natural-looking finishes we've seen from a stick formula.
**Hourglass** Vanish Seamless Finish Foundation Stick, $46, available at Sephora.

This creamy foundation is a makeup artist and editor favorite for good reason. Not only does it have excellent medium-to-full coverage, the finish is extremely natural.
**Giorgio Armani** Luminous Silk Foundation, $64, available at Sephora.

Kat Von D just added 13 new shades to her Lock-It Foundation range, making it easy to score your perfect hue — sans mixing.
**Kat Von D** Lock-It Foundation, $35, available at Kat Von D Beauty.

“The shade range is the real star of this foundation line,” says celebrity makeup artist Tasha Reiko Brown. The foundation also boasts some big benefits for oily skin types by providing medium coverage and mattifying without settling into lines or looking heavy. “The undertones are spot-on and you get a lot of pigment in a lovely texture. The coverage is buildable and sheers out easily when mixed with moisturizer,” she adds.
**Black Up** Mattifying Fluid Foundation, $41.50, available at Black Up.

This full-coverage foundation never looks cakey on the skin, thanks to a healthy boost of jojoba esters and sunflower-seed wax in its formula.
**Marc Jacobs** Re(marc)able Full Cover Foundation Concentrate, $55, available at Sephora.

Iman — yes, *that* iconic Iman — has made it part of her mission to bring a more complete range of colors to her namesake cosmetics line. We suggest this creamy powder foundation: It's lightweight and you can easily build the coverage as needed.
**Iman** Cream to Powder Foundation, $9.99, available at Target.

There are long-lasting foundations that slough off on your collar/scarf/significant other pretty much immediately. Then there's this 24-hour workhorse, which sticks around until you choose to wash it off. Also? Even though the formula is heavy-duty, the matte and oil-free finish is completely elegant.
**Lancôme** Teint Idole Ultra 24H Foundation, $47, available at Sephora.

MAC’s Studio Fix Fluid SPF 15 foundation is renowned for not only helping to control oil throughout the day, but also for delivering a matte finish in a whopping 35 shades.
**MAC** Studio Fix Fluid Foundation, $27, available at MAC.

This completely lightweight foundation finishes matte (like your dream skin) and is available in 18 different shades, that play to undertones as well. So, if you know you have dark golden undertones to your skin or you have a hint of a warm undertone in there, there is a shade for you.
**Urban Decay** Naked Skin Weightless Ultra Definition Liquid Makeup, $40, available at Sephora.

Becca is well-known for its shade varieties when it comes to foundation. And the Ultimate Coverage Complexion Crème is a full-coverage foundation that doesn’t feel like one — basically, what everyone is looking for. If your skin tone is between shades, choose a shade lighter because of the full-coverage pigments. Or, you can always mix and match.
**Becca Cosmetics** Ultimate Coverage Complexion Crème, $44, available at Becca Cosmetics.

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Laura Mercier’s Candleglow Soft Luminous Foundation comes in a whopping 24 shades. The foundation itself is ultra-flattering with a formula that builds from sheer to medium, depending on your preference. It also contains pearly bits of mica to lend a lit-from-within (albeit not over-the-top sparkly) glow to your skin. (Pro tip: To give your foundation extra staying power, use a powder puff to press and roll a translucent loose setting powder over top, slowly working the powder into your skin.)
**Laura Mercier** Candleglow Soft Luminous Foundation, $48, available at Laura Mercier.
**Laura Mercier**, $48.00, available at Laura Mercier

The one product Sir John swears up and down by is NARS Radiant Creamy Concealer. "No matter the complexion, it’s something I use on everyone, from Karlie Kloss to Naomi [Campbell]," he says. "It runs the gamut color-wise, and it doesn’t look like makeup on the skin. The consistency is medium-to-buildable, so you can even sheer it out with some moisturizer, and then build your coverage.”
**NARS**, $29.00, available at NordstromPhoto: Via NARS.

Sir John praises Yves Saint Laurent's Le Teint Touche Éclat for its color selection. "This is a great time to be not just a makeup artist, but a woman who happens to be multiethnic or multicultural," he says.
For those (like me) who are wondering how to find your perfect match, he shares this application trick: "If you put your foundation near your jawline and it matches your neck and your décolletage area, then you’re in a good place."
Photo: Via Yves Saint Laurent.

Fleming says that since those with darker skin tend to be on the oilier side, a lightweight foundation can be a good option. "Skin type is definitely a factor to consider when perfecting the pretty," she says. One of her faves: CoverGirl's Queen Collection All Day Flawless. "The color payoff is rich, giving great coverage with a lightweight feel. It is a one-stop shop, combining foundation, concealer, and powder in one easy step."
**COVERGIRL**, $11.29, available at COVERGIRLPhoto: Via CoverGirl.

If you're willing to splurge a bit more for the perfect coverage, Sir John says Tom Ford has amazing shades for women of color. "Both the stick and the liquid foundation called Traceless are genius," he raves. "He’s quite a modern man, and he uses multicultural and multiethnic women in his advertisements and shows. So, he took that global perspective...to start a cosmetics brand, which I can applaud.”
**Tom Ford Beauty**, $80.00, available at Tom FordPhoto: Via Tom Ford Beauty.

If you're looking for fuller coverage, opt for Make Up For Ever's Ultra HD foundation. "This product is great...you can be anywhere within a shade or two of this foundation's range, and it just blends in,” Sir John says. "It’s water-based, not oily, and won’t clog the pores or sit in the skin."
He adds that today's options aren't the foundations of our moms and grandmothers. "Even if you’re super oily or dry, the products nowadays are skin-care based and have a philosophy of skin at the core."
**Make Up For Ever** Ultra HD Invisible Cover Foundation, $43, available at Sephora.

If you're going to go with a drugstore brand, Sir John recommends Black Opal (although he says Iman's line is great as well) to get the best payoff for your dollar.
At the end of the day, it's not just about finding the right foundation — you have to know what to do with it. Sir John suggests creating dimension in the face. "When you put on foundation, it sort of wipes the face clean," he says. "And, your goal as a makeup artist is to bring it back. You’re going to be playing chemist, highlighting and low-lighting — you’re going to lend your artistry to a slight contouring effect." This means focusing on the darker areas: the hollows of the cheeks, around the hairline, and near the eyeball sockets.
**Black Opal**, $9.50, available at Black OpalPhoto: Via Black Opal.

If you still can't find the exact right shade of foundation (or your skin tone fluctuates slightly by season), these drops are a godsend. Use them to alter the tone of another foundation that isn’t quite right. “You can [also] customize your level of coverage by mixing a few drops into your serum or moisturizer,” makeup artist Tasha Reiko Brown says. “And because you can mix it into a water, oil or silicone-based product, it's wearable for any skin type.”
**Cover FX** Custom Color Drops, $44, available at Sephora

Reiko Brown’s top choice for a light-coverage foundation that delivers a glowing finish? This hydrating formula, which is perfectly suited for dry or mature skin. She also loves the comprehensive spectrum of shades — including half shades — which help ensure a perfect match. “This is the most complete color range on the market,” she says. “The color range is from light caramel to the deepest mahogany, and the undertones shift appropriately throughout the range.”
**Bobbi Brown** Moisture Rich Foundation SPF 15, $50, available at Nordstrom.

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What We Actually Think About These Top-Rated Sephora Buys

December 22, 2016, 7:00 am

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One of the best things about shopping for makeup online is that you have the entire internet to crowdsource from about a product. You can search YouTube videos to get recommendations, peep the reviews on your favorite e-retailer, and check in with your favorite editors to see what they actually think about something before you click "add to cart." There's a wealth of information out there — so much so that you don't actually have to schlep to a makeup counter to test-drive innovations you're curious about.

With that in mind, we decided to check in with the top-rated, most popular beauty products from some of our favorite online shops and see how their ratings stacked up to our own. From concealers to settings powders to dry shampoos, click through to get our unfiltered opinions about all the scores you guys love to buy.

"This unassuming orange bottle was sitting on my bathroom shelf for months before I decided to give it a shot. And what the hell was I thinking, waiting so long? In just a few weeks, my face looks brighter, clearer, and softer — with much less-noticeable acne scars (and fewer breakouts, too). This is what it must feel like for people who end up marrying their best friend who was with them all along.
"The sweet scent — which smells like orange-flavored candy — might be a touch cloying to some. But I personally find it really soothing. Just be careful to apply the right amount (one single pump); too much and you veer into sticky territory."
**Ole Henriksen** Truth Serum Vitamin C Anti-Aging Collagen Booster, $48, available at Sephora.

"When you're a beauty editor, trying product after product is the name of the game. I always work to keep an open mind (but it can be trying when the packaging sucks), but as far as I'm convinced, no other dry shampoo will ever touch this one — they can all quit now.
"It's the only one that never leaves my hair feeling dry, powdery, and chalky; instead, it makes it silkier and softer and, yes, I'm usually a skeptic, but this formula's technology actually does *clean* the buildup, dirt, and odor, rather than just mask. Need proof? This is my hair after letting it dry from a sweaty SoulCycle class, then using the dry shampoo. Magic.
"I do, however, feel like there’s less product inside the can — even compared to others of the same size. I don’t use a ton of the stuff, but I go through it in about three weeks, which isn’t very cost-effective."
**Living Proof** Perfect Hair Day Dry Shampoo, $22, available at Sephora.

**Lexy Lebsack, West Coast Beauty Editor**

"This was one of the first foundations that made me actually like foundation. I haven't worn it in years, but I will always remember it fondly — and now, I swear by the stick formula. It's lightweight and provides great coverage, but can easily either be thinned out over just-moisturized skin or built up with a brush.
"The 40 (!) only slightly different shades are a double-edged sword. It takes some work to get your shade nailed down — and it's easy to think you've nailed it, only to find it's actually the wrong undertone — so my advice is to ask for help in the store when finding your perfect match."
**Make Up For Ever** Ultra HD Invisible Cover Foundation, $43, available at Sephora.

"This is the powder in nearly every professional red carpet makeup artists' bag — and for good reason. It goes on sheer, not white or pale, but completely translucent. Plus, a jar will last you forever.
"That being said, it is a jar of powder — not a compact or a tube — so it inherently gets EVERYWHERE, unless you're very careful, which means I don't take it when I travel or just need a quick touch-up."
**Laura Mercier** Translucent Loose Setting Powder, $38, available at Sephora.

"There are certain duos that will always be iconic: Barack and Michelle, Sonny and Cher, Portia and Ellen. For me, one of those perfect pairings is Luna and Good Genes. Sunday Riley's Power Couple is the only set of products that has magically transformed my skin overnight.
"The mix of Luna's retinol with Good Genes' lactic acid is a heady cocktail that smooths and moisturizes my finicky complexion. I use them together whenever I need to look especially fresh to death the next morning."
**Sunday Riley** Power Couple Duo: Total Transformation Kit, $85, available at Sephora.

"Mark my words: If NARS ever discontinues its Radiant Creamy Concealer, I will chain myself to the company's office doors in protest. This tube is the only thing that covers my zits while still keeping my skin looking like, well, skin. But it also adds an incredible amount of radiance — especially when I tap it under my eyes. It hides a bevy of sins and that's why I've pledged my undying love for this itty tube."
**NARS** Radiant Creamy Concealer, $29, available at Sephora.

**Samantha Sasso, Beauty Editorial Assistant**

"The first time I got my hands on Chanel's Mademoiselle, I was 12 years old. My aunt had accidentally bought the wrong Chanel for my cousin and handed the castoff down to me. Needless to say, it was love at first spritz. 10 years later, I still hang on to this bottle for those nights that deserve a decadent fragrance. It's feminine, fresh, a little rosy, and transports me to France the second I spray it on.
"That being said, it's not exactly a light scent. It's s not something you want to mist on in the office — unless your intention is inducing a coughing fit from your coworkers and desk mates. It’s lovely once settled, but when you first release the fragrance, it can be overwhelming."
**Chanel** Coco Mademoiselle Eau de Parfum, $94, available at Sephora.

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Did This Kids Movie Make A "Becky With The Good Hair" Joke?

December 22, 2016, 7:00 am

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If you've seen Sing, you know that its filmmakers have a soft spot for Taylor Swift and Katy Perry's kid-friendly hits. Something tells us they're secretly part of the Beyhive, too.

The animated film about a singing competition hosted by the Ari Gold of koala bears (voiced by Matthew McConaughey) has a reference to "Becky," and we're not referring to that bunny girl group performing the Valley girl intro to "Baby Got Back" in the trailer. We're talking about that Becky.

That'd be "Becky with the good hair," the mysterious other woman referenced in "Sorry," one of Beyoncé's most explosive tracks on Lemonade. She's the new Jolene. She's not Rachael Ray, or even Rachel Roy. According to songwriter Diana Gordon, she's fictional. According to Sing, she's a porcupine.

The film, which opened December 21, features a scene (a snippet of which you can see in the video below) in which Scarlett Johansson's character, Ash the porcupine, comes home to find her ego-maniac boyfriend, Lance, with another girl. She's a porcupine with shiny quills stylishly parted to one side. She wears heart-shaped sunglasses. She introduces herself as Becky.

"Becky?" Ash sputters, her voice dripping with disdain.

Cue snickers from the cool moms.

Most kids won't get it, but we see what they did there. Pretty clever — unless your name actually happens to be Becky, we suppose.

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The Best Places To Eat On The Lower East Side

December 22, 2016, 7:00 am

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The Lower East Side may be best known to you as the home of rowdy, rollicking nightlife, but that adventure extends to the food scene as well. Restaurants here tend to be as tiny and crowded as bars, but see it as an excuse to meet new people and try new things before you even hit the party scene. You might know iconic spots like Katz's Delicatessen or bagel heaven Russ & Daughters, but it's time to venture outside your comfort zone. The immigrant heritage of the LES colors its cuisine, leading to some fascinating hybrids — Chinese-Italian? French-Asian-American fusion? It all makes sense here.

**La Contenta**
Authentic Mexican fare crafted by a classically trained chef, Luis Arce Mota's La Contenta is prime LES eats. A clean rustic interior filled with hip Mazatlán vibes, this restaurant serves up creative margs with French-infused dishes — we'll be pairing the "El Easy Rider" with an order of the chile relleno y ratatouille.
La Contenta, 102 Norfolk Street (at Delancy Street); 212-432-4180.
Photo: Via @lacontentanyc.

**Kiki's**
Hidden behind the facade of a Chinese restaurant sign lies a hip Greek spot in a sparse wood-beamed setting. Kiki's keeps the fare old-school and filled with fountains of traditional flavor, drawing in the hoards of hungry Lower Easter Siders. And we can't blame them —just one taste is enough to keep you coming back for infinite orders of tzatziki and grilled octopus.
Kiki's, 130 Division Street (between Orchard and Ludlow Street); 646-882-7052.
Photo: Via @wherefoodieseat_nyc.

**Cheeky Sandwiches**
New Orleans meets NYC — Cheeky Sandwiches serves up the ultimate in sandwich deliciousness on the LES. Stop by the cozy snack bar for a shrimp po'boy or buttermilk biscuit with fried chicken and gravy. There's just nothing like " *Nawlins,* " y'all.
Cheeky Sandwiches, 35 Orchard Street (at Hester Street); 646- 504-8132.
Photo: Via @infatuation_nyc.

**Katz's Delicatessen**
Katz's Delicatessen has been slicing and stacking NYC's freshest deli sandwiches since 1888. They've bumped their way up from a simple family-owned and operated business to a buzzing household name. With a late closing time (2:45 a.m. to be exact) this spot is ideal for snagging a pastrami on rye before calling it a night.
Katz's Delicatessen, 205 East Houston Street (at Ludlow Street); 212- 254-2246.
Photo: via @thrillistnyc.

**Mission Chinese Food**
A San Fran original that's set up shop in NYC, Mission Chinese dishes out quirky and elevated Sichuan eats. Stop by for their green tea noodles or pork riblets with pickled beets and a hibiscus glaze. Reservations are limited and the spot is hot, so be sure to plan your visit ahead.
Mission Chinese Food, 171 East Broadway (between Rutgers and Jefferson Street); 212-432-0300 .

**Ivan Ramen**
Who would've imagined that a Long Island native would go and open up one of the top ramen spots in NYC? Not this foodie. Ivan Orkin, the culinary genius behind this noodle slurping spot, offers his unique rendition of the Japanese soup classic. We're talking bold flavors of hot spices, fresh veggies, and quality meats — the perfect dish for any chilly winter's eve.
Ivan Ramen, 25 Clinton Street (at Stanton Street); 646-678-3859.
Photo: Via @_arnavroy.

**Wildair**
Casual-cozy yet sophisticated at the same damn time — Wildair unquestionably earns its title as one of the LES's best. The menu spans from small shareable plates, to French wine, and to-die-for main dishes. Oh, and a kick-ass hazelnut tarte for dessert too. This neighborhood spot is simply a must go!
Wildair, 142 Orchard Street (at Rivington Street); 646-964-5624.
Photo Via: @infatuation_nyc.

**Sweet Chick**
All hail Southern comfort food, where the almighty fried chicken reigns supreme. There are seven varieties of the crunchy stuff on this menu, often with fascinatingly flavored waffles to go with, like rosemary-mushroom or spicy pecan. A fried chicken parm on a basil-flecked waffle is particularly genius.
Sweet Chick, 178 Ludlow Street (between East Houston and Stanton streets); 646-657-0233.
Photo: Courtesy of Sweet Chick NYC.

**Benson’s**
Their M.O. is “bringing craft beer to the Lower East Side,” but you’ll forgive that holier-than-thou missive because the actual vibe inside the place is so chill and friendly. Staffers are thrilled to help you find something new from their giant catalogue of brews and ciders, and once you’ve worked up a hunger, there’s a finger-licking menu of burgers and flatbreads and fries.
Benson’s, 181 Essex Street (between East Houston and Stanton streets); 646-791-5765.
Photo: Courtesy of Benson's.

**L.E.S. Kitchen**
Just what the city needs: another burger joint. Right? Well, when you’re surrounded by carousing youths swinging from one bar to the next, it’s not a terrible concept, but this spot offers more than greasy drunk food. Just try the mercifully cheap (and highly popular) spicy fried chicken sandwich on a toasted potato bun, or the kitchen sink fries, which are piled with pulled pork, Thai chilies, bacon, and steak.
L.E.S. Kitchen, 15 Essex Street (between Hester and Canal streets); 646-952-2313.
Photo: Via @beezeatz.

**Dirt Candy**
What may be *the* vegetable restaurant in New York City now has a larger space on the Lower East Side. Expanding on her original East Village menu, chef Amanda Cohen continues her mastery of flora, with delicate arrangements like a portobello mousse or sturdier fare like carrot sliders and fried broccoli.
Dirt Candy, 86 Allen Street (between Grand and Broome streets); 212-228-7732.
Photo: Courtesy of Dirt Candy.

**Balvanera**
What do you know of Argentine food? If you’re picturing steak and a glass of Malbec, you’re not wrong, and Balvanera nods to the country's beef-focused menu with leather-trimmed aprons for the staff. Beyond the beef, there are more hearty dishes like pork and veal kidneys, with a Buenos Aires soundtrack to lull you into pleasant fullness.
Balvanera, 152 Stanton Street (at Suffolk Street); 212-533-3348.
Photo: Via @balvaneranyc.

**The Lucky Bee**
One of those LES spots that is just about always buzzing with an insanely hip crowd (even on a Tuesday). The vibes are tropical meets disco and the food is HOT, Aussie-inspired, Thai cuisine. If you're in the mood for some spicy atmosphere *and* fare, pop on down to the Lucky Bee.
The Lucky Bee, 252 Broome Street (at the corner of Orchard Street); 844-364-4286.
Photo: Courtesy of The Lucky Bee.

**Le Turtle**
Want to find the next it spot downtown? Look no further than this spectacular French eatery serving up elevated modern and veggie-centric dishes. The perfect spot for a fancy date or a sophisticated evening with your crew, a meal at Le Turtle is always a social affair to remember.
Le Turtle, 177 Chrystie St, New York, NY 10002; (646) 918-7189
Photo: Courtesy of @alchemyworks

**Russ & Daughters Cafe**
The legendary Russ & Daughters has been serving up smoked fish and bagels for over 100 years, but it only opened a dine-in restaurant in 2014. We can't predict the future, but we wouldn't be surprised to see the cafe last a century as well. In addition to its signature seafood offerings, the cafe serves Jewish comfort food staples like knishes, matzo ball soup, and latkes.
Russ And Daughters Cafe, 127 Orchard Street (between Delancey and Rivington); 212-925-5220.
Image: Via @russanddaughters.

**Casa Mezcal**
The live bands, DJ, and dance floor at Casa Mezcal, along with the absurdly happy decor, are all so fun that you might forget to eat and drink. But don’t! Like the name suggests, this place has the best mezcal cocktails in the city, alongside solid Mexican food for when all that revelry makes you hungry.
Casa Mezcal, 86 Orchard Street (at Broome Street); 212-777-2600
Photo: Courtesy of Casa Mezcal.

**Kitty** ’ **s Canteen**
Opened by Richard Kimmel of The Box, this bizarre little gem also requires a game of hide-and-seek to locate. Once you do, you’ll be rewarded with bartenders in burlesque costumes… southern soul food with Jewish infusion… and jazz music. Like a New Orleans fever dream!
Kitty’s Canteen, 9 Stanton Street (between Bowery and Chrystie Street); 212-477-7047.
Photo: Courtesy of Kitty's Canteen.

**Cocoron**
You already know that noodles are one of the most comforting dishes on earth (carbs!), and Cocoron runs with the concept — their name means “heartwarming” in Japanese. There are many kinds of soba noodles dishes on the adorable, cartooned menu, which is so sweet you won’t feel embarrassed if you need your helpful waiter to explain where to begin.
Cocoron, 61 Delancey Street; 212-925-5220.
Photo: Courtesy of Cocoron.

**Birds and Bubbles**
In a city where you mixing new H&M with vintage Chanel is a major accomplishment, how did this idea take so long? The signature dish here is the eponymous fried chicken with champs, but there are so many combos to choose from. There are other elevated southern classics on the menu, which contains cheeky little chicken puns throughout — like “which came first” for the appetizer category.
Birds and Bubbles, 100B Forsyth Street, 646-368-9240.
Photo: Courtesy of Birds and Bubbles.

**Bacaro**
How very New York: a Venetian-style gastopub in Chinatown, situated inside a converted aquarium. History is all around you in this space, where the ancient brick and vaulted ceilings make you feel like you’re dining in a castle. The most beloved dishes are carb-y goodness, like gnocchi with mushrooms in a brown butter sauce, and spaghetti with cuttlefish ink.
Bacaro, 136 Division Street (between Orchard and Ludlow streets); 212-941-5060.
Photo: Courtesy of Bacaro.

**Pig & Khao**
You can spot *Top Chef* contestant Leah Cohen here at her restaurant, which mixes Thai and Filippino influences. That means a whole lot of pork (like the head, belly, *and* leg), as well as fish options, like skate wing in a banana leaf, or prawns in a butter curry. One lovely final touch is the option of bottomless beer—you can just serve yourself when you need a refill.
Pig & Khao, 68 Clinton Street (between Stanton and Rivington streets); 212-920-4485.
Photo: Courtesy of Pig & Khao.

**Cafe Katja**
This place is about as Austrian as you can get without boarding a plane. There’s hearty beef goulash, bratwurst, and a sausage sampler, but the best part may be what you wash it all down with. The carefully-chosen German and Austrian beers are both rare and interesting, especially for New York City.
Cafe Katja, 79 Orchard Street (between Grand and Broome streets); 212-219-9545.
Photo: Courtesy of Cafe Katja.

**Clinton Street Baking Company**
They do much more than sweets, but it's the sweets that you'll get in line for. There's wild Maine blueberry pancakes and caramelized banana French toast for breakfast, plus loads of pie, cake, and milkshakes. But, if you insist on eating real protein (as fans of the bakery did years ago, pushing the owners to expand to other meals), then you won't be disappointed. Go for the fried chicken!
Clinton Street Baking Company, 4 Clinton Street (between East Houston and Stanton streets); 646-602-6263.
Photo: Courtesy of Clinton Street Baking Company.

**Contra**
Like some other punk-rock places in this neighborhood, Contra has very little signage out front to help you find it. But you’ll forgive them once you do, because their tasting menu is the rare arrangement that won’t make you forfeit rent: a mere $67 for 5 courses. Recent offerings included a broccoli soup with uni, and swordfish with peas and pepper, gorgeously plated and delicately delicious.
Contra , 138 Orchard Street (between Rivington and Delancey streets); 212-466-4633 .
Photo: Courtesy of Contra.

**Freemans**
Hidden at the end of an alley, this restaurant may have invented the lumberjack-hipster look. The walls are covered in stuffed animal heads like a hunting lodge, and the food is similarly rustic, like a cassoulet with three cuts of pork, or grilled trout with garlic and thyme. Luckily, it’s so delicious you’ll forgive them for the bearded masses.
Freemans, End of Freeman Alley, Off Rivington Street (between Bowery and Chrystie Street); 212-420-0012.
Photo: Courtesy of Freeman's.

**Cata**
The vivid red and yellow interior invokes the flag of Spain, preparing you for the Catalan tapas you're about to inhale. The menu is divided into categories of sea, land, and vegetables, so there will be an option (or five) for everyone at your table. Oh, and the wide selection of gin and tonics is a refreshing kick against all of those bright flavors.
Cata, 245 Bowery (between Stanton and Prince streets); 212-505-2282.
Photo: Courtesy of Cata.

**Dimes**
Take your Bay Area-friend here (you know, the gluten-free, dairy-free, veggie-tastic one), when they come to visit. The cuisine is healthy and creative, like spiced quinoa with with pickled vegetables, or chicken with kimchi yogurt. New York can do that ultra-fresh thing, too, you know.
Dimes, 143 Division Street (between Orchard and Ludlow streets); 212-240-9410.
Photo: Courtesy of Dimes.

**The Fat Radish**
You don't have to fight about where to eat: The Fat Radish is great for the vegetarians, but placates the carnivores with a killer bacon cheeseburger and pork chop. Your group will also agree on the gorgeously bright, all-white space, which perfectly complements the delicious food.
The Fat Radish, 17 Orchard Street (between Hester and Canal streets); 212-300-4053.
Photo: Courtesy of The Fat Radish.

**Mission Cantina**
The bold blue and red exterior at this corner spot makes way for bright, colorful, neon lights. The playfulness keeps right on coming with Mission's "whimsical" cuisine, which recently got a total revamp under chef Danny Bowien. It’s now divided down the middle with columns for Mexican and Chinese, but you can’t go wrong with mole-spiced fries.
Mission Cantina, 172 Orchard Street (at Stanton Street); 212-254-2233.
Photo: Courtesy of Mission Cantina.

**Kuma Inn**
If you hate sharing, Kuma Inn is not the place for you. The menu is 100% tapas, with chef King Phojanakong pulling culinary inspo (and talent) from his Filipino mother and Thai father. The small plates are a good way to get to know these flavors, with fan favorites like the drunken spicy shrimp with sake and baby octopus with bamboo shoots. Oh, and it's BYOB. You don't have to share that part, if you don't want.
Kuma Inn, 113 Ludlow Street (between Delancey and Rivington streets); 212-353-8866.
Photo: Courtesy of Kuma Inn.

**Louie & Chan**
Of all the culinary mashups, Italian and Chinese? Louie & Chan pulls it off, with an Italian restaurant upstairs and a Chinese lounge/club downstairs. The food is pasta and pizza with luxurious details, like stracciatella and spicy blue crab. The fun continues with Chinese cocktails — the signature Chan's Tonic contains 14 herbal ingredients that are infused for a year before hitting your glass.
Louie & Chan, 303 Broome Street (at Forsyth Street); 212-837-2816.
Photo: Courtesy of Louie & Chan.

**The Leadbelly**
The place somewhat resembles the basement of your college dorm, but you can use that as an excuse to get college-style tipsy. There's an epic cocktail list, featuring liqueurs you're never even heard of, plus lots of yummy little plates of cheeses and baba ghanoush. You know, for when you get the late-night munchies.
The Leadbelly, 14 Orchard Street (at Canal Street); 646-596-9142.
Photo: Courtesy of The Leadbelly.

**Thelma on Clinton**
Chef Melissa O'Donnell opened Salt Bar in this locale in 2003, and closed it at the decade mark to rebrand. Her newly reinvented space is Thelma on Clinton, and it aims to "reflect the diversity of the Lower East Side." What's that look like? A sort of French-Asian-American fusion, like a soy-poached chicken with bok choy, or smoked duck breast with a dried fruit compote. Very cool, and very yummy.
Thelma on Clinton, 29A Clinton Street (between East Houston and Stanton streets); 212-979-8471.
Photo: Courtesy of Thelma on Clinton.

**Taquitoria**
If the only time you’ve ever actually had a taquito is off one of those little rollers at 7-Eleven, prepare to be delighted. With these little Mexican meat roll-ups, you pick a filling, pick a cheese, eat, and repeat, as they're five for $9. Consider it a simple and delicious cheap eat.
Taquitoria, 168 Ludlow Street (at Stanton Street); 212-780-0121.
Photo: Courtesy of Taquitoria.

**Fung Tu**
Here you’ll find extremely high-end Chinese-American food from Jonathan Wu, a chef whose last stop was at Per Se — so, there's a bit of a French twist, as well. To wit, we recommend trying the crowd favorite smoked, fried dates stuffed with duck. Feeling noncommittal? The $65 six-course tasting menu is a nice way to sample a bit of everything that makes this spot so interesting.
Fung Tu, 22 Orchard Street (between Hester and Canal streets); 212-219-8785.
Photo: Courtesy of Fung Tu.

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43 New Drugstore Products We're Totally Obsessed With

December 22, 2016, 7:05 am

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If this year's barrage of new drugstore launches can tell us anything, it's that 2016 is going to be a great year for affordable beauty. Mass brands have upped the ante in nearly every category, and we're seeing a host of innovative products that aren't just reasonably priced, but seriously deliver in quality, too. Ahead, we’ve rounded up the new drugstore products our editors are already hooked on.

Whether you're a liner pro, or cat-eye novice, this new offering from Almay will make defining your eyes easy.
**Almay** Pen Eyeliner, $8.49, available at drugstores in January 2017.

Lightly feather this creamy eyebrow pencil through your brow hairs, then blend out the color with the handy built-in brush. Voilà — big, bold brows for less than a fiver.
**Catrice** Eyebrow Stylist, $3.99, available at Ulta Beauty.

Maybelline's new lipsticks are some of the most impressive drugstore lip colors we have tried. Why? The matte formula offers opaque, rich pigment while still feeling creamy and balm-like on the lips. Plus, the line includes 20 deep, neutral, and bright colors — there's even an on-trend black shade — which means you'll have plenty of options to choose from.
**Maybelline** Loaded Bolds Lipstick in Coffee Addiction, $7.49, available at Ulta Beauty.

Last month, two new hues joined E.L.F.'s Gotta Glow Lip Tint lineup: Perfect Peach and Perfect Berry. Like the brand's original lip tint, these moisturizing balms offer a sheer wash of color perfect for those no-makeup makeup days.
**E.L.F.** Gotta Glow Lip Tint, $6, available at E.L.F.

Demi Lovato designed this palette, which includes just about every shade you'd ever need to create a natural or smoky eye look. The lighter shades even double as highlighters, and the darker ones can be used as eyeliners when wet.
**New York Color** Lovatics By Demi, $6.99, available at Target.

**— PAID —**
For a high-impact look, we love this lip paint — a super-shiny hybrid between a gloss and a liquid lipstick. Featuring a cushion applicator, the creamy formula goes on smooth and is ultra pigmented to give you incredible, bright color.
**Maybelline**, $9.99, available at Maybelline

This spring, we dare you to nix your go-to black liner in favor of a shade with a lil' more punch. This one delivers an opaque periwinkle color that looks incredible traced along the upper lashline.
**Wet n Wild** Megaliner Liquid Eyeliner in A Case Of Blue, $3.99, available at Wet n Wild.

Sonia Kashuk partnered with artist Dana Louise Kirkpatrick to create a radiant powder that looks just as beautiful on the skin as it does in the compact.
**Sonia Kashuk** Knock Out Beauty Skin Glow, $19.99, available at Target.

These creamy lipsticks prove that you don't have to sacrifice pigment for moisture. One swipe of the bullet onto bare lips provides rich color — but you can also blot it out with your fingers for a more natural-looking stain.
**Rimmel London** The Only One Lipstick in Under My Spell, $5.99, available at Ulta.

If you're willing to break the rules, this palette will be the most versatile tool in your kit. Brush on the colors separately to contour your face, swirl them together to create a sun-kissed bronzer, or take them to your eyes for the prettiest natural smoky eye ever.
**Iman Cosmetics** Luxury Contour Trio, $16, available at Iman Cosmetics.

CoverGirl's new baked blushes don't just look like cool moon rocks — they also impart a subtle radiance when dusted onto the apples of the cheeks.
**COVERGIRL** Tru Blend Blush in Medium Rose, $9.99, available at Ulta.

Neutrogena released a daytime version of its popular Hydro Boost Gel Cream. It boasts the same lightweight hydration, but adds a little SPF into the mix for added protection. (We still recommend smoothing a dedicated sunscreen on top of it.)
**Neutrogena** Hydro Boost Water Gel With Sunscreen Broad Spectrum SPF 15, $18.99, available at Neutrogena.

We've been itching (literally) for Eucerin to release its own in-shower moisturizer. The slick lotion can be rubbed on in the shower and rinsed off before hopping out. The result is thoroughly hydrated skin and no sticky residue.
**Eucerin** In-Shower Moisturizer Body Lotion, $10.99, available at Target.

The cool-toned contouring half of this palette is ideal for sculpting the face while the sheer, pearly highlighter half provides a glowy, lit-from-within effect.
**L'Oréal** Infallible Pro-Contour Contour & Highlight Palette, $12.99, available at Drugstore.com.

This new brush from Wet n Wild has super-soft, synthetic hairs that pick up just the right amount of product. Unfortunately, it's sold out at the moment but Wet n Wild assured us that a new stock will be available in early April.
**Wet n Wild** Contour Brush, $0.99, available at Wet n Wild.

Essie did a little crowdsourcing and asked its fans which discontinued nail colors they’d like to see again. The result? The Retro Revival Collection. Our favorite of the bunch is Starry Starry Night: a beautiful shimmery navy that at one point was being sold for over $250 on eBay!
**Essie** Retro Revival Collection in Starry Starry Night, $8.50, available at Essie.

For those of you who wear waterproof makeup but still want the gentle effect of using a micellar water to remove it, this formula is the way to go. Simply give the bottle a shake, and sweep the liquid onto your face using a cotton pad to remove a day’s worth of foundation, concealer, and even waterproof mascara.
**Garnier** Micellar Cleansing Water All-In-1 Makeup Remover and Cleanser, $8.99, available at Garnier.

Cushion compacts continue to rule in 2016, and this mass-market version is a really nice alternative to the pricier department-store ones. It feels light and creamy, and gives a natural finish to the skin, but be warned: If you’re looking for full coverage, you’ll need a concealer. It doesn’t hide much and has a limited shade range.
**Physicians Formula** Mineral Wear Talc-Free All-In-1 ABC Cushion Foundation SPF 50, $16.95, available at Physicians Formula.

Dove is launching a super-hydrating, dry oil-infused formula that gently cleanses the skin without stripping it of any moisture.
**Dove** Dry Oil Moisture Body Wash, $6.99, available in March at CVS; **Dove** Dry Oil Moisture Body Bar, $3.79, available in March at CVS.

Finally! A drugstore contour kit that pays off in texture and pigment. This trio comes with a contour shade (which you can also use as a bronzer), blush, and highlighter. The best part? It’s the perfect size for throwing into your makeup bag for weekend getaways.
**Maybelline** FaceStudio Master Contour, $12.99, available at Ulta.

In all our years in the beauty industry, the words “matte” and “gloss” have never gone together. So when we first laid eyes on these lip products, we were...perplexed. We tried them out, expecting them to be glorified liquid lipsticks, but we were so wrong. “Matte Gloss” is the perfect way to describe these lippies: The finish is matte, and yet the texture remains buttery and flexible on our lips all day.
**L'Oréal** Infallible Pro Matte Gloss in Shanghai Scarlet, $9.99, available at Ulta.

Here's a fancy-feeling cleansing balm that won’t break the bank. Scoop a bit of it into your hands and massage it onto dry skin to gently remove stubborn makeup and daily grime.
**E.L.F.** Hydrating Gel Melt Cleanser, $10, available at E.L.F..

This palette includes just about every shade you could possibly need to create a myriad of different eye looks. Plus, we think the packaging rivals that of a lot of the high-end palettes in our makeup collections.
**Milani** Everyday Eyes Powder Eyeshadow Collection in Plum Basics, $9.99, available at CVS.

Nyx has always killed it when it comes to blushes, and the brand’s latest offering is no exception. This ombré blush comes in eight shades that are pigmented but easy to blend.
**Nyx** Ombré Blush in Insta Flame, $10, available in February at Nyx.

These matte lipsticks have a unique gel-like texture that stays put all day and doesn’t feel drying, like many similar formulas.
**Revlon** Ultra HD Matte Lip Color, $8.99, available at Ulta.

Those of you who love Dickinson’s original alcohol-free toner will adore the brand's newest launch, which throws aloe vera and vitamin E into the mix.
**Dickinson's** Hydrating Toner, $5.97, available at Walmart.

At last, some bright colors from our natural friends at Burt’s Bees. We love the shade Sunset Cruise for an everyday look and Magenta Rush when we want something bolder. And isn’t the packaging badass? We love the fact that it’s made from recycled materials!
**Burt's Bees** Lipstick, $9, available at Burt's Bees.

We like to think of this foundation as a “lively matte” — one that controls oil without making our skin look flat, like so many other matte foundations do. It glides on like a dream, and you can blend it in with a brush, sponge, or your fingers, in a matter of seconds. Oh, and did we mention it doesn’t cling to dry patches?
**Maybelline** Dream Velvet Soft-Matte Hydrating Foundation, $10.99, available at Drugstore.com.

We flipped out when we heard Pixi was launching more skin-care goodies in the coming year. As devoted fans of the brand’s cult-classic toner Glow Tonic, we were eager to get our hands on the entire Glow line. These peel pads are by far our favorite item. Once a week, sweep a pad over your face, neck, and décolletage, and then rinse off with water to reveal brighter skin and eradicate dry patches.
**Pixi** Glow Peel Pads, $22, available at Pixi.

This alcohol-free hairspray holds our curls and waves in place without making them feel dry or crunchy.
**Pantene** Airspray Alcohol Free Hairspray, $5.99, available at Drugstore.com.

Although we can’t say we’ve experienced any “lash-boosting” since using this product, we can attest to its efficacy as a kick-ass liner. The felt tip is loaded with product, meaning you won’t have to go over your line multiple times to get highly pigmented, long-lasting color.
**Physicians Formula** Eye Booster 2-In-1 Lash Boosting Ergonomic Felt-Tip Eyeliner, $11.95, available at Physicians Formula.

This moisturizer is light enough to use in the mornings (just remember to apply SPF after), but nourishing enough to use overnight. Plus, because of its whipped texture and coconut scent, it’s heavenly to apply.
**Yes To** Coconut Ultra Hydrating Facial Soufflé Moisturizer, $14.99, available at Yes To.

We especially love using this essence during the winter because it contains vitamin C to boost radiance when we're looking ultra-dull and hyaluronic acid to hydrate the skin when it's crazy-dry.
**Lumene** Bright Now Vitamin C Hyaluronic Essence, $25.99, available at CVS.

Another category in which Nyx kills it: lipsticks. This new addition to the brand's lip lineup gives a smooth punch of matte color, without the annoying dryness that often accompanies this type of formula.
**Nyx** Full Throttle Lipstick in Con Artist, $6.99, available at Ulta.

Although this foundation claims to offer sheer to medium coverage, we think it gives a lot more than that. A few dabs with the sponge are enough to cover your entire face and leave a beautiful, luminous glow.
**L'Oréal** True Match Lumi Cushion Foundation, $13.99, available at Ulta.

When we say this foams, we mean it: It *really* foams. Like, "poured Champagne into a glass and there’s foam everywhere" kind of foam. It’s not only fun to use, but a great gentle exfoliant for sensitive skin.
**Bioré** Baking Soda Cleansing Scrub, $8.49, available at Ulta.

The benefits of beer for the hair have been documented on this site before — brew actually works wonders to strengthen our tresses and add shine. Bröö has taken this concept one step further and created a line of craft beer-based hair products. Our favorite is its moisturizing conditioner, which is formulated specially for dry, damaged hair (a.k.a., ours).
**Bröö** Moisturizing Conditioner, $7.49, available at Target.

This lightweight, yet super-nourishing oil serum is both a great leave-in conditioner and perfect for smoothing flyaways.
**L'Oréal** Advanced Haircare Extraordinary Oil Lustrous Oil Serum, $6.99, available at L'Oréal.

OPI has launched a collection inspired by Hello Kitty (who, apparently, isn't actually a cat). We love the shade My Pal Joey, a beautiful royal blue that looks lovely on the nails and toes.
**OPI** Nail Lacquer in My Pal Joey, $9.50, available at Ulta.

Anyone who’s tried ColorStay knows that the foundation has no pump, which makes wasting product and creating a huge mess a common occurrence. But the brand has launched a new and improved version of the beloved foundation that not only has a higher SPF, but revamped packaging that — you guessed it — finally has a pump.
**Revlon** ColorStay Makeup for Combination/Oily Skin, $12.99, available at Revlon.

These eyeshadow singles are a joy to use because of their creamy texture and intense pigment. We just wish there were more colors to choose from!
**Essence** Mono Eyeshadow, $2.99, available at Ulta.

If you ask us, these chubby lip pencils are some of the most under-appreciated lippies in the drugstore. We love them because of their smooth and creamy formulation, so we were super-excited to hear that Neutrogena is expanding the color range.
**Neutrogena** MoistureSmooth Color Stick in Pink Nude, $8.99, available at Ulta.

Target is launching its own private polish line, which includes 38 shades. The best part? Each color’s name references reality TV in a hilarious way.
**Defy & Inspire** Wear Resistant Nail Lacquer in Mom the Manager, $7.49, available Jan. 17 at Target.

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Sex scenes, we've seen a few. The first times that seldom bear resemblance to anyone's real first time. The quick-my-wife-is-out-of-town humpfests that turn us on and off at the same time. The perfect lighting and unrealistic, synchronized orgasms. They make it all look so easy, don't they?

Not that we're complaining. A great cinematic sex scene can really get us going, even if it involves positions straight out of Cirque du Soleil. Who doesn't feel a little warm when "Take My Breath Away" comes on? Who else believes that Michael Douglas must be able to make a woman (or Matt Damon) orgasm from 10 feet away?

Next time you and bae are looking for a little sexual inspiration, consider consulting one of these steamy scenes. Try not to pull a muscle.

Indochine (1992)

Our Uber driver would not stand for this. By the way, Vincent Perez's character also has an affair with Éliane's (Catherine Deneuve) adopted Vietnamese daughter, Camille. What's French for super-messy?

Video: Courtesy of Bac Films.

A Perfect Murder(1998)

Captain Fantastic, indeed. Anyone else desperate for Viggo Mortensen to help them out with a cappuccino?

Video: Courtesy of Warner Bros.

Chloe (2009)

Julianne Moore plays a doctor who suspects her husband of having an affair. The only reasonable course of action is to hire a call girl (Amanda Seyfried) to test his faithfulness, and then have sex with her, too.

Video: Courtesy of Sony Pictures Classics.

Alfie(2004)

In which Jude Law and Nia Long copulate on a pool table, conveniently ignoring the fact that she's his best friend's girl, and that it's impossible to walk away from this without a nasty case of felt burn.

Video: Courtesy of Paramount Pictures.

Laurel Canyon(2002)

Nothing says awkward (but still kinda hot) like making out in the pool with your future mother-in-law and her boyfriend. Allow Kate Beckinsale, Frances McDormand, and Alessandro Nivola to show you how it's done.

Video: Courtesy of Sony Pictures Classics.

The Pillow Book (1996)

Guys, this one is really NSFW. Ewan McGregor's notorious willy has a starring role in his sex scenes with leading lady Vivian Wu. Consider yourself warned... and a little tempted, right?

Video: Courtesy of Lionsgate Films.

Risky Business(1983)

If you could not follow Rebecca De Mornay and Tom Cruise's lead on the G train during rush hour, that'd be great.

Video: Courtesy of Warner Bros.

Taking Lives(2004)

Look away, Brad. Watching Ethan Hawke force Angelina Jolie to suck on his fingers might be a little unsettling.

Video: Courtesy of Warner Bros. Pictures.

Derailed (2005)

This extramarital tryst between Clive Owen and Jennifer Aniston soon goes very, very badly. Still, there's something about the wet hair and soggy shirts that makes their foreplay fun to watch.

Video: Courtesy of The Weinstein Company.

The Unbearable Lightness of Being(1988)

Though there's no shortage of sex scenes in this film adaptation of Milan Kundera's novel, it's this interaction between Juliette Binoche and Lena Olin (as Tereza and Sabina, respectively) that feels the most intimate and sensual.

Video: Courtesy of Orion Pictures.

Swimfan (2002)

When your stalker accidentally drops the L word during swimming pool sex... and you already have a lovely girlfriend. Awkward. Take it away, Erika Christensen and Jesse Bradford.

Video: Courtesy of 20th Century Fox.

Incendiary (2008)

This otherwise heart-wrenching drama includes this saucy striptease, which proves that inviting someone over for fish fingers is hotter than it sounds. Alas, you only get a snippet of the action between Michelle Williams and Ewan McGregor in this clip.

Video: Courtesy of THINKFilm.

Crimson Peak(2015)

Think Taylor Swift will watch Tom Hiddleston's spicy sex scene (complete with a bare bum) with Mia Wasikowska in this gothic thriller and wonder where things went wrong? The action gets underway at about the 4-minute mark.

Video: Courtesy of Universal Pictures.

Kill Your Darlings (2013)

As one YouTube commenter hilariously noted, "10 points to Gryffindor." Former Harry Potter star Daniel Radcliffe plays Beat poet Allen Ginsberg in this drama featuring one pretty intense love scene.

Video: Courtesy of Sony Pictures Classics.

The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo(2011)

Rooney Mara's Lisbeth Salander basically jumps Mikael Blomkvist's (Daniel Craig) bones in this saucy scene. Let's hear it for girls on top.

Video: Courtesy of Columbia/MGM.

Undertow(2009)

Also known as Contracorriente, this Peruvian film captures the clandestine relationship between a married fisherman with a baby on the way and the dreamy artist he can't resist.

Video: Courtesy of Wolfe Releasing.

Southpaw(2015)

When Jake Gyllenhaal and Rachel McAdams talk about two rounds, they're not really talking about boxing. Hot.

Video: Courtesy of The Weinstein Company.

Nina Takes a Lover(1994)

Ladder sex can be risky. Then again, so is cheating on your husband with a tall, dark, and handsome photographer.

Video: Courtesy of Columbia TriStar Pictures.

The Matrix Reloaded (2003)

Neo (Keanu Reeves) and Trinity (Carrie-Anne Moss) say it best when they say nothing at all.

Video: Courtesy of Warner Bros.

Out of Sight (1998)

If you like your conversation with a little more action, you'll love this sex scene between bank robber Jack (George Clooney) and U.S. Marshal Karen (Jennifer Lopez).

Photo: Courtesy of Universal Pictures.

Revolutionary Road (2008)

When they're not squabbling and bemoaning their suburban existence, Frank and April Wheeler (dynamic duo Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet) manage to squeeze in some hot sex on the kitchen counter.

Video: Courtesy of Paramount Vantage.

Out of Time (2003)

Denzel Washington and Sanaa Lathan prove that you don't have to take your clothes off to have a good time (oh no). You just need a strong back and a willingness to suffer a splinter or two.

Video: Courtesy of MGM.

Legends of the Fall (1994)

The hair. The bum. The name Tristan. Just overlook the fact that Julia Ormond (Susannah) went on to play Brad Pitt's daughter in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button.

Video: Courtesy of TriStar Pictures.

Marie Antoinette (2006)

We definitely would have paid more attention in world history class if we'd known how steamy Marie Antoinette's (Kirsten Dunst) sex life was. And yes, Jamie Dornan's Axel von Fersen is infinitely sexier than Christian Grey.

Video: Courtesy of Columbia Pictures.

Troy (2004)

There's a thin line between love and hate. Briseis' (Rose Byrne) attempt to kill Achilles (Brad Pitt) results in the two making sweet, gentle love.

Video: Courtesy of Warner Bros.

The Hunger(1983)

In the 1995 documentary The Celluloid Closet, Susan Sarandon said the script originally called for her character to be drunk before having sex with Catherine Deneuve's character. But, being Sarandon, she asked to have the script changed so she would only drink one glass of wine beforehand.

"You wouldn't have to get drunk to bed Catherine Deneuve," Sarandon says, in the doc. Clearly.

Video: Courtesy of MGM/UA Entertainment.

My Beautiful Laundrette(1985)

The sex scene between Daniel Day-Lewis and Gordon Warnecke is both comical — given the unsuspecting presence of the latter's uncle — and erotic.

Video: Courtesy Orion Classics.

Top Gun(1986)

It's cheesy, perhaps, but the sex scene between Tom Cruise and Kelly McGillis still makes us weak in the knees. You can't beat electric-blue lighting and synth beats.

Video: Courtesy Paramount Pictures.

The Lover(1992)

The sex scenes between Jane March (as the Young Girl) and Tony Leung Ka-fai (as the Chinese Man) were rumored to have been real, rather than simulated. March later dismissed the claims, but that doesn't take away from their steaminess.

Video: Courtesy of Fox Pathé Europa.

Set It Off(1996)

If you want to be more than friends, follow Jada Pinkett-Smith and Blair Underwood's lead and bust out the full-body massage complete with oil and a chain necklace.

Video: Courtesy of New Line Cinema.

Stealing Beauty(1996)

What's lovely about this scene is its sheer coming-of-age quality. Innocence is contrasted with desire, and Mazzy Star hums dreamily in the background.

Video: Courtesy 20th Century Fox.

Bound(1996)

Jennifer Tilly and Gina Gershon have two memorable sex scenes in this noir-style thriller. Pity Joe Pantoliano has to interrupt one of them.

Video: Courtesy Gramercy Pictures.

Kama Sutra(1997)

You can't name a film after the quintessential guide to love-making and have it be dull. This Mira Nair film definitely lives up to its sexy name.

Video: Courtesy Trimark Pictures.

Dangerous Beauty(1998)

Rufus Sewell and Catherine McCormack's love scenes in this obscure historical drama about a courtesan and her lover still hold up nearly 20 years later.

Video: Courtesy Warner Bros.

A Walk on the Moon(1999)

God bless Viggo Mortensen and his commitment to performing cunnilingus on-screen.

Video: Courtesy Miramax.

Cruel Intentions(1999)

Making love to the tune of Counting Crows? Sounds weird, but it is actually perfect and a totally romantic soundtrack for those quiet, quick, afternoon delights.

Video: Courtesy Columbia Pictures.

Love & Basketball(2000)

Everyone should lose their virginity with Maxwell playing in the background. Omar Epps and Sanaa Lathan perfectly capture those first-time jitters and still keep it sensual.

Video: Courtesy New Line Cinema.

Y Tu Mamá También(2001)

This is both the plot's literal and figurative climax. The tension between Gael García Bernal and Diego Luna peaks thanks to their mutual attraction to the effortlessly sensual Maribel Verdú. Sex, in this case, is a tool for personal growth rather than primal instinct. Get a hold of the full movie to enjoy; this scene is too hot for YouTube to handle.

Video: Courtesy IFC FIlms.

Mulholland Drive(2001)

The problem with a straight man filming a lesbian sex scene is that it often feels exploitative. But Naomi Watts and Laura Harring's chemistry is both tender and incredibly erotic. There is love, but also a whole helluva lot of lust.

Video: Courtesy Universal Pictures.

Sex and Lucia(2001)

This very NSFW clip brings new meaning to the term "mud mask." Go and rent the whole film; half of this Spanish drama starring Paz Vega is devoted to seriously steamy sex scenes.

Video: Courtesy of Palm Pictures.

8 Mile(2002)

This isn't a sexy movie. But the in-your-face, raw desire between Eminem and Brittany Murphy is still hot as hell.

Video: Courtesy Universal Pictures.

The Dreamers(2003)

If we could, we'd embed the entire movie here, because it's one big sex scene. Instead, here's a compilation of the most important moments in a movie of self-discovery through sex.

Video: Courtesy Fox Searchlight Pictures.

Atonement(2007)

This brief moment is enough to doom the characters' lives. Briony's nosiness, jealousy, and naivety ruin the passion that's been building between Cecilia and Robbie. Their entire relationship thrives off this scene. It's their rock as much as it's their demise. Despite all of this, the intensity of their desire is palpable.

Video: Courtesy Focus Features.

The Duchess(2008)

Keira Knightley's Duchess of Devonshire is only accustomed to the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am overtures of her husband. Lady Bess Foster (Hayley Atwell), who happens to be sleeping with the Duke, convinces the Duchess to take on a lover of her own by showing her just how sensual intercourse can be. What are friends for?

Video: Courtesy of Pathe Distribution.

Vicky Cristina Barcelona (2008)

The threesome scene gets all the glory, but Scarlett Johansson and Javier Bardem's frantic kissing is just as hypnotic. Just try to forget that Woody Allen was in the room.

Video: Courtesy of MGM.

Black Swan(2010)

Fun fact: This scene comes on an hour and nine minutes — a.k.a. 69 minutes — into the film. Aside from that, just uttering the phrase "Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis in bed together" brings to mind the naughtiest of thoughts. Sex and danger make for perilous but exciting partners; this scene is a testament to that.

Video: Courtesy of Fox Searchlight Pictures.

Blue Valentine(2010)

Though this movie is anything but romantic, the sexual chemistry (when applicable) is on fire. It's unfortunate that couldn't save their relationship, but it is a testament to the incredible talents of Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling.

Video: Courtesy The Weinstein Company.

Free Fall(2013)

These two German cops can't resist getting it on, even though one of them is living with his pregnant girlfriend. Warning: may inspire you to take up running.

Video: Courtesy Edition Salzgeber.

The Spectacular Now(2013)

Forget that Miles Teller and Shailene Woodley now play brother and sister. As first-time lovers, they toe the line between awkwardness and intimacy in a beautiful, realistic-feeling way.

Video: Courtesy A24.

The Danish Girl(2015)

Before Einar (Eddie Redmayne) transitions into Lili, his lovemaking with wife Gerda (Alicia Vikander) sensually explores gender roles in the bedroom.

Video: Courtesy of Focus Features.

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The 16 Greatest Hair Brushes Of All Time

December 22, 2016, 7:15 am

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When was the last time you thought about your hair brush? While easy to overlook in favor of the latest hair products or color inspirations, choosing the right brush is one of the most important things you can do for your 'do.

Selecting one that's optimal for your hair type will give you the best results — like less breakage and more good hair days. And there are tons of styling hacks that the right brush can deliver with a simple swipe. Translation: Have the right tools on your bathroom sink, and you'll get better results in the morning — without heat or products. Have we convinced you yet? Excellent. Now, let's get started.

Picking the right brush is no easy task, so we called in reinforcements. Walking us through classic staples, new innovations, and everything in-between is red carpet hairstylist Ryan Richman. He works with Ashley Tisdale, Lorde, and Sarah Hyland — and is the man behind our beach-wave tutorial. Ahead, you'll find his expert breakdown on which brushes you need in your life, how to use the ones you already own, and so much more.

**The Thermal Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** If you love a weekly blowout, but want to cut down for your budget, this thermal round brush will get you by. Great for thick, coarse, fine, and even curly hair, the thermal ceramic barrel mimics the results of a fancy blowout. Thanks to the size of the base, infrared heat, and negative ions, your hair will be smooth and loaded with volume in a shorter amount of time.
**Best For:** Adding volume and lift to any style and texture. You'll cut down on drying and styling time with this two-in-one product.
**Amika** Blowout Babe Thermal Brush, $100, available at Sephora.

**The Tangle Teezer**
**Hair Type:** Medium to thick for detangling, medium to fine for volume
**When To Use It:** On the more robust side of the detangling-brush spectrum, the Tangle Teezer is best suited for getting knots out of thick hair, since its plastic bristles are super-firm. But most stylists use it for more than that: Medium to fine hair benefits from a light scalp massage as the last step in styling, which creates serious fullness.
**Best For:** Building volume on dry, fine, or medium hair; detangling thick, full hair while wet or dry. Don't use with heat (the bristles could melt).
**Tangle Teezer**, $15.00, available at Sephora

**The Extension Brush/Wig Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** Don't let the name fool you: Extension-removal brushes have many other uses. "This brush is amazing and was my favorite for years," Richman says. The sharp, metal bristles don't have plastic balls at the ends, which means they detangle even the worst knots, easily. But the *real* glory of this brush is in styling — you can comb through natural or iron-created curls and waves to soften them without pulling out the texture. Translation: You can take barrel curls from pageant to cool without ruining the shape.
**Best For:** Detangling and styling the lengths of dry hair. Don't use on the roots or with heat (that metal would get hot).
**Sheila Stotts**, $28.00, available at Sheila Stotts

**The Metal Round Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** The easiest round brush to use, this one moves through hair easily and quickly since the sparse bristles create less tension than their boar counterparts. "The metal base heats up like an iron, which means this brush helps to tame thick hair," Richman says. "It takes the bulk out of thick hair and makes it smooth."
**Best For:** This brush is great for heat-styling on wet or dry hair. The additional heat it delivers also helps dry your strands faster. But be careful — overdo it and you could damage weak or fine hair.
**Sephora**, $20.00, available at Sephora

**The Plastic Vent Brush**
Hair Type: Fine hair and short cuts (no longer than a bob)
**When To Use It:** While the vent brush was very popular in the '90s, it takes a backseat to most brushes today — at least in the hairstylist community. It is, however, still great for styling short cuts, especially pixies, since its wide bristles detangle and style without making hair fluffy or poufy.
**Best For:** Styling wet or dry hair, and detangling during a blowdry.
**Goody**, $5.99, available at Kmart

**The Boar-Bristle Brush**
Hair Type: Fine to medium hair
**When To Use It:** Marcia Brady brushed her hair 100 times before bed to make it shiny and healthy, and while we don't recommend going to such great lengths, she was on to something: Natural boar bristles help stimulate the scalp, distributing oils through the hair while detangling. Boar is also the key to getting the soft, brushed-out texture of vintage waves (à la Grace Kelly).
**Best For:** Styling dry hair.
**Mason Pearson**, $110.00, available at Beauty.com

**The Scalp Brush**
**Hair Type:** Thick, curly, and any type that tangles easily
**When To Use It:** This "shampoo brush," as it's sometimes called, is used during a shower to gently massage shampoo into the roots. It allows you to get a deep clean without the knots and tangles that can accompany a vigorous shampoo application with your hands. Plus, you can use it to break up dry curls (similarly to the extension brush) and detangle without removing curly or wavy texture.
**Best For:** Massaging shampoo into roots, and detangling wet or dry hair.
**s-heart-s**, $71.00, available at Travel Beauty

**The Boar Round Brush**
Hair Type: Fine to medium
**When To Use It:** Richman warns that this round brush is, by far, the most difficult one to use during a blowdry, since its dense bristles create a good amount of tension and pull on the hair. But once you master it, you'll get smooth results that look natural. It's great for adding volume, defining layers on long hair, and achieving a professional-looking at-home blowout.
**Best For:** Best used with a blowdryer on wet or damp hair.
**Ibiza**, $48.00, available at Nordstrom

**The Teasing Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** Do yourself a favor and ditch the plastic teasing comb under your sink. "A good teasing brush has different levels of staggered boar bristles," Richman says. This arrangement allows you to get the best volume. Gently backcomb, and then brush over the hair for a smooth finish.
**Best For:** Building volume on dry hair.
**Marilyn**, $16.00, available at Ulta Beauty

**The Mixed-Bristle Paddle Brush**
**Hair Type:** Medium to thick
**When To Use It:** The boar-and-nylon-mixture paddle brush is a mainstay in every stylist's bag. Why? The nylon bristles easily comb through hair, while the boar bristles distribute oils and create a soft, brushed-out texture.
**Best For:** Styling hair dry, with no heat.
**Sonia Kashuk**, $15.99, available at Target

**The Plastic Paddle Brush**
Hair Type: Fine, wavy, and curly hair
**When To Use It:** This large brush covers a good amount of surface area to detangle quickly. Curly and wavy hair can benefit from the wide bristles, which will tame frizz without breaking up the hair's natural pattern.
**Best For:** Detangling wet or dry hair, with heat or without.
**Denman**, $17.60, available at Folica

**The Wet Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** Does your hair tend to get really knotted in the shower? "This is...just a really simple cushion brush that's very effective at detangling without any pain," Richman says. It's not ideal for grooming or styling, but it will loosen tangles very easily, he adds.
**Best For:** Detangling wet or dry hair.
**The Wet Brush** Earth Collection Brush, $15.99, available at The Wet Brush.

**The Boar Paddle Brush**
**Hair Type:** Fine to medium, long
**When To Use It:** "An all-boar paddle brush is great for someone with long hair who wrap-dries their hair," Richman says. Wrap-drying is the technique in which you blowdry the hair close to the scalp, instead of lifting it and pulling it away from the head. This provides exceptionally smooth results. But the boar bristles are best suited for medium to thin strands, as only nylon bristles can properly get through thick hair.
**Best For:** An ultra-smooth and sleek blowout.
**Wigo** Cushion Boar Bristle Wood Brush, $24.99, available at Ulta Beauty.

**The Mixed-Bristle Round Brush**
**Hair Type:** Medium to thick
**When To Use It:** The nylon in this combo brush makes creating a blowout much easier than it would be with a full boar-bristle brush. "The nylon bristles help to get through the hair a little better," Richman says. "Having the nylon mixed in makes it really good for thick hair." Expect a softer texture than you'd get with a metal barrel.
**Best For:** DIY blowouts.
**Spornette**, $16.00, available at Birchbox

**The Denman Brush**
**Hair Type:** Medium, thick, and curly
**When To Use It:** This brush is a true hit-or-miss among the natural-hair community. Some love it for its detangling abilities, while others claim it adds more frizz to their manes. Conveniently, you can add or remove rows depending on your length. Once you find the best number for you, you'll be able to style your hair like a dream.
**Best For:** Wet detangling and defining curls.
**Denman** Classic Styling Brush, $12.59, available at Sally Beauty.

**The Makeup Brush**
**Hair Type:** Any type
**When To Use It:** No, this isn't some sort of mistake, but rather a pro trick that *does* actually warrant the use of a makeup brush specifically designated for your 'do. Hear us out: When it comes to smooth, shiny styles there's nothing better to calm flyaways and evenly coat hair with hairspray than a fluffy face brush. Simply mist it with hairspray and brush over hair. Et voila! The perfect application of product for smooth locks.
**Best For:** Taming flyaways.
**Elf** Blush Brush, $3, available at Elf.

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This Space Jam Capsule Is Peak '90s (In The Best Possible Way)

December 22, 2016, 7:30 am

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Update: Forever21's Space Jam capsule is now available! Go forth and shop, both in stores and online.

This story was originally published on December 16, 2016.

The fact that Space Jam turned 20 (yes, 20!) in 2016 means that this occasion can and will be commemorated with merch. First, Michael Jordan's Brand Jordan released a special capsule for the film's actual anniversary in November. Urban Outfitters also has its own range of T-shirts and pins featuring our favorite Looney Tunes. Now, Forever 21 announces it, too, wants in on the Jam.

The fast-fashion retailer designed an 11-piece sportswear collection in honor of Space Jam' s big 2-0, set to debut in store and online on December 22. Created in collaboration with Warner Brothers Consumer Products and Freeze, Forever 21 leaned into the nostalgic theme by bringing back beloved characters like Bugs Bunny, Lola Bunny, Sylvester, Tweety, among others on sleeveless T-shirts (with on-trend lace-up fronts), acid-wash sweatshirts, and faux jerseys. Get ready to introduce the "Tune Squad" and "Dunk Devil" back into your vocabulary, as some of the most memorable phrases from the film also found their way into the capsule.

"With all of our collaborations, we seek partners who we know our customers will be inspired by and will love," a Forever 21 rep told Refinery29. "Even after 20 years, Space Jam is a movie that people still enjoy watching with new generations discovering it for the first time. Developing the Space Jam collection felt natural and like a perfect, fun fit for Forever 21."

Though Forever 21 markets itself for "all ages, genders, and sizes," as Linda Chang, vice president of merchandising, told Racked in 2015, it's a brand very much associated with teenagers and mall culture. Still, the 31-year-old brand lived through the '90s and understands the power of nostalgia. "We're a collective group of ‘80s and ‘90s babies paying homage to the movies, shows and brands we grew up watching," the retailer's rep told us. "With recent ‘90s trends, Space Jam was a no-brainer for us."

Over the years, Forever 21 has released a series of limited-run pieces inspired by beloved franchises and brands meant to inspire some throwback heart-tugging, such as capsules with Disney Pixar, Star Wars, and Barbie. "As one of the most iconic and recognized animations in the world, Looney Tunes appeals to a broad demographic and we think new audiences will react positively," the rep said. Plus, the Space Jam fandom has proven to be strong: Fans are willing to shell out for memorabilia.

It's a tough call as to which specific styles will resonate the most with customers, but the retailer made sure to include a range of characters in the hopes that all Space Jam fans would find something that fits their #TBT needs. And just like that, we've got our outfits completely picked out to go see that rumored sequel.

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Dax Shepard Thought Kristen Bell Was Strange When They Met

December 22, 2016, 7:30 am

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Based on how they interact today, one might assume that Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell are annoying love-at-first-sight types. Remember when Shepard surprised his wife with sloths? And how they refused to get married until DOMA was struck down? (They married in 2013 in what was — and we could have predicted this — the cutest wedding ever.) The couple has always verged on too cute to be true.

But things were not always so blissful — once upon a time, Dax Shepard thought Kristen Bell was...strange. The Parenthood actor told Good Housekeeping that he was initially suspicious of Bell's optimism.

"When I met her and her friends, I was suspicious of their unbridled happiness,” the actor said. “I thought, ‘Something stinks here; they’re in a cult.'”

Which, to be fair, is kind of how I feel about the two of them now. Like, really? You're a couple in Hollywood — shouldn't you be busy breaking up on Snapchat or subtweeting each other?

But the duo is quite open about their long road to romantic bliss. Apparently, it wasn't all smiles. In the same interview, Shepard and Bell share how they've managed to cultivate such a lovely relationship despite some pretty intimidating obstacles, like Shepard's history as an addict. They attribute their healthy coupledom to therapy.

"There were hurdles, things she didn't trust about me, things I didn't trust about her. I just kept going back to, 'This person has the thing I want, and I have to figure out how we can exist peacefully .' So we started [seeing a therapist together] right away," Shepard said.

Bell added, "You do better in the gym with a trainer; you don't figure out how to cook without reading a recipe. Therapy is not something to be embarrassed about."

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