Anyone who loves Halloween knows that deciding who you'll dress as is the easy part, but executing the look you picture in your head is another story. Take Marilyn Monroe, for example. It seems easy, but even if you have an exact replica of her iconic white dress, there are still so many subtle details that go into making the look believable. You'll need red lipstick and matching nail polish — plus a flick of liquid liner — but the piéce de résistance is the perfectly-coiffed platinum hairdo.
The female icons of the '50s were glamorous, which means the decade makes for a great jumping-off point if you want a costume with a flashy, elegant feeling. Ahead, we've rounded up some of the greats, like Audrey Hepburn and Josephine Baker, to serve as inspiration for a major Halloween beauty moment. Whether you decide to use old-school hot rollers, a wig, or any other tool or product, you'll find the spark to get you started, ahead.
Eartha Kitt
Beyond being a singer, actress, dancer, comedian, and activist in the '50s, Eartha Kitt is well-known for her raspy voice. (You know her as the villainous Yzma in Disney's The Emperor's New Groove.) As a beauty icon, she continues to inspire women everywhere to go for the big chop.Photo: Central Press/Getty Images.
Dorothy Dandridge
You can't get much more glamorous than Dorothy Dandridge. She starred in Carmen Jones, a 1954 film depiction of WWII, with her short curly haircut and a fitted, off-the-shoulder midi dress. Photo: Donaldson Collection/Getty Images.
Elizabeth Taylor
Arguably the most iconic face in Hollywood cinema during the '50s, Elizabeth Taylor has an appeal that transcends generations. Her classic brunette bob, flipped softly at the ends, is in style once again. Photo: Silver Screen Collection/Getty Images.
Grace Kelly
If you have blonde hair, or have a good blonde wig, then grab some hair gel, brush it back, add a rounded curl at the ear (and a tiara if you have one), and go as Grace Kelly. Photo: Pictorial Parade/Hulton Archive/Getty Images.
So, a white halter-style dress is a start, but the classic pin-up hairdo is also a must for a good Marilyn Monroe impression. Photo: Alfred Eisenstaedt/Pix Inc./The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images.
Audrey Hepburn
Whether you're channeling a Breakfast at Tiffany'sHepburn, with pearls and gloves, or her more rhythmic side in Funny Face, attention should be paid to her old-Hollywood hair, complete with feathered baby bangs.Photo: Hulton Archive/Getty Images.
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October 10th is World Mental Health Day, a day when people around the world work to raise awareness and support for mental health issues. While it’s helpful for everyone to share their experiences, celebrities have a unique platform, should they choose to use it. According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), one of the most effective ways to fight mental health stigma is to hear one person’s lived experience — and while this can certainly come from friends and family members, celebrities can instantly reach millions of people when they step forward.
Over the past several years, more and more celebrities have spoken out about their experiences with mental health, from opening up about their diagnoses to sharing how they practice self-care. Here are eight of them.
Selena Gomez
For years, Selena Gomez has been open about her mental health. “I’ve had a lot of issues with depression and anxiety, and I’ve been very vocal about it, but it’s not something I feel I’ll ever overcome," she told Harper's Bazaar in 2018. “There won’t be a day when I’m like, 'Here I am in a pretty dress — I won!' I think it’s a battle I’m gonna have to face for the rest of my life, and I’m okay with that because I know that I’m choosing myself over anything else." Photo: Theo Wargo/Getty Images.
Demi Lovato
In 2011, Demi Lovato revealed that she'd been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and she's been open about her treatment ever since. “If you know someone or if you’re dealing with it yourself, just know that it is possible to live well,” she told People in 2016. “I’m living proof of that.”
She added, “[My treatment team is] there for me at any moment of the day and will be there to support me throughout my recovery. That relationship is ongoing — it’s not something where you see a therapist once or you see your psychiatrist once, it’s something you maintain to make sure that you want to live with mental illness. You have to take care of yourself.”Photo: Steve Granitz/WireImage.
Jonathan Van Ness
Earlier this year, Jonathan Van Ness spoke to the Trevor Project about his depression and anxiety. “Depression is not as easy as saying, ‘Just find your joy and you’re going to become happy.’ That was never my experience," he said. "When we’re identified fully with our depression, it will say, ‘You have no joy, you have no way out.’ There will be a negative, internal critic in our mind that we need to be able to dissociate from and pull ourselves away from.”
He added that having people to confide in (both a therapist and loved ones) is important. “When we’re able to share with someone who we do feel safe with, we can realize that these things that are happening to us don’t make us unloveable and aren’t anything to have as a huge secret and don’t make our future dark and dreary," he said. "Actually, we have a really gorgeous future and we deserve love and safety."Photo: Randy Holmes/ABC/Getty Images.
Chrissy Teigen
Chrissy Teigen opened up about her experience with postpartum depression and anxiety in a 2017 essay for Glamour. “[I] just didn’t think it could happen to me,” she wrote. “I have a great life. I have all the help I could need: John, my mother (who lives with us), a nanny. But postpartum does not discriminate. I couldn’t control it. And that’s part of the reason it took me so long to speak up: I felt selfish, icky, and weird saying aloud that I’m struggling. Sometimes I still do."
She added, "I’m speaking up now because I want people to know it can happen to anybody and I don’t want people who have it to feel embarrassed or to feel alone. I also don’t want to pretend like I know everything about postpartum depression, because it can be different for everybody. But one thing I do know is that — for me —just merely being open about it helps.”Photo: David Livingston/Getty Images.
Lizzo
Earlier this year, Lizzo talked about her depression in an Instagram post. "I'm depressed and there's no one I can talk to because there's nothing anyone can do about it. Life hurts," she wrote.
In an interview with People published after the post, Lizzo shared that her depression got so bad, she almost quit music after releasing her hit, "Truth Hurts."
“I practice self-love. I look in the mirror and say, ‘I love you. You’re beautiful. You can do anything.’ Tell yourself that on your happy days so that you have the strength to tell yourself that on your darker days,” she said. “Reaching out to people when you’re depressed is really hard; I would shut myself away from friends and family. So I’ve been working on communicating with the people who love me.”Photo: Emily Assiran/Getty Images.
Halsey
In 2015, Halsey shared that she has bipolar disorder, and she's continued talking about it. “I’ve been committed twice since [I became] Halsey, and no one’s known about it. But I’m not ashamed of talking about it now," she told Rolling Stone earlier this year. “It’s been my choice. I’ve said to [my manager], ‘Hey, I’m not going to do anything bad right now, but I’m getting to the point where I’m scared that I might, so I need to go figure this out.’ It’s still happening in my body. I just know when to get in front of it.” Photo: Dave Benett/Getty Images.
"One of my psychiatrists [diagnosed me]. He was always saying before this big meltdown, 'You're probably bipolar or borderline, we're just going to have to figure it out," he told Marc Maron in 2017. "It’s so hard and like, lame, but once you actually do it and go through the [Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills] book and you’re like, ‘I’m gonna use this skill’ or like hold ice or take a cold shower or listen to your favorite song really loud — it sounds fucking lame and annoying, but when you do it, it actually kind of works."
Camila Mendes
In 2017, Riverdale star Camila Mendes posted on Instagram that she was in recovery for an eating disorder. "I've struggled with bulimia," she later told Self in 2018. "It happened a little bit in high school and again when I was in college. Then it came back when I started working in this industry with fittings all the time and watching myself on camera. I had such an emotional relationship with food and anxiety about everything I put into my body."
She added, "I went to a therapist, and she recommended a nutritionist as well, and seeing both of them changed my life. So much of the anxiety I had about food went away when I started learning more about nutrition."Photo: Jerod Harris/Getty Images.If you are thinking about suicide or self-harm, please call theNational Suicide Prevention Lifelineat 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or the Suicide Crisis Line at 1-800-784-2433.
If you are experiencing an emotional or mental health crisis and are in need of crisis support, please call the Crisis Call Center’s 24-hour hotline at 1-800-273-8255.
If you are struggling with an eating disorder and are in need of support, please call the National Eating Disorders Association Helpline at 1-800-931-2237. For a 24-hour crisis line, text “NEDA” to 741741.
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We keep our makeup collections stocked with waterproof formulas year-round — nobody wants to deal with melting mascara or smudged eyeliner while hitting the Halloween-themed pub crawl or watching a tear-jerking holiday movie marathon after Thanksgiving dinner. But as reliable as waterproof formulas can be, there is the harsh reality of getting them off.
Tugging at your mascara with makeup wipe after makeup wipe is a wasteful shortcut to irritated skin, and washing your face at night only to wake up with raccoon eyes is just frustrating. You need a cleanser that will really get the job done — and luckily, there are products that work to wash away every bit of long-wear and even waterproof makeup.
From oil-based cleansers to eco-friendly towels, we rounded up the best waterproof makeup removers, ahead — so that you can live your best life in budge-proof makeup without ever having to rub your face off like you're scratching a lottery ticket.
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DHC Deep Cleansing Oil
There's a reason one of these cleansing oils is sold every 10 seconds worldwide. According to reviews, people love how effectively it removes everything (from waterproof makeup to full-coverage foundation). Although this product has got serious cleansing power, it's still super gentle and leaves behind zero residue.
DHC Deep Cleansing Oil, $, available at Ulta Beauty
Some makeup removers can leave the skin feeling stripped dry, but that's the last thing you need to worry about with cleansing balms. This one removes all traces of water-resistant formulas and even sunscreen from the skin, while leaving it nourished and soothed with fruit extracts and lightweight oils like marula seed.
Drunk Elephant Slaai™ Makeup-Melting Butter Cleanser, $, available at Sephora
Why have a big bottle of micellar water taking up space in your bathroom cabinet when you can have it in your makeup removal wipes instead? Micellar water works like a magnet to attract and wipe away dirt, oil, and makeup like magic; these do the same in wipe form.
Garnier Micellar Waterproof Makeup Removing Towelettes, $, available at Ulta Beauty
Makeup EraserThe Original MakeUp Eraser Makeup Remover Cloth
If you want a more eco-friendly option, the classic Makeup Eraser promises to get the job done with nothing more than a reusable towel that can be used for up to three to five years. Just add warm water and wipe away your makeup with the soft cloth, which won't ever pull at the skin.
Makeup Eraser The Original MakeUp Eraser Makeup Remover Cloth, $, available at Sephora
SmashboxIt's A Wrap! Waterproof Makeup Remover
The last thing you need at the end of a long day is to fight to get your makeup off. That's why Smashbox created this heavy-duty liquid makeup remover that promises to sweep away any and all waterproof formulas just like that, so you can get to bed faster.
Smashbox It's A Wrap! Waterproof Makeup Remover, $, available at Smashbox
AlmayWipe It Never Happened Eye Makeup Remover Pads
These round, fragrance-free wipes remove eye makeup efficiently, yet gently. One pad gets the job done, and with 120 pads safely contained in a travel-friendly tub, you can basically toss it in your purse everywhere you go.
Almay Wipe It Never Happened Eye Makeup Remover Pads, $, available at Target
First Aid BeautyHello Fab Coconut Micellar Makeup Melter
Heavy on the coconut, with both coconut oil and water packed inside, this gel-like makeup remover melts away makeup in the gentlest way possible, so you can wash away waterproof mascara without irritating your eyes.
First Aid Beauty Hello Fab Coconut Micellar Makeup Melter, $, available at Sephora
GlossierMilky Oil
If your skin is in need of some TLC, this formula heals and moisturizes sensitive areas with vitamins and root extracts. It also has the dual power of micellar water and a weightless oil to dissolve makeup without taking your skin's natural moisture with it.
Glossier Milky Oil, $, available at GlossierBareMineralsInstant Waterproof Eye Makeup Remover
Oily skin types will love this soothing, cucumber-infused liquid eye makeup remover, which takes everything off without leaving any greasy residue behind.
Bare Minerals Instant Waterproof Eye Makeup Remover, $, available at Bare Minerals
Make Up For EverSens’Eyes - Waterproof Sensitive Eye Cleanser
If you have sensitive eyes, this creamy, ultra-gentle remover — which contains honey extract to leave skin super soft — is for you.
Make Up For Ever Sens’Eyes - Waterproof Sensitive Eye Cleanser, $, available at Sephora
KloraneWaterproof Eye Make-Up Remover With Soothing Cornflower
Rest in peace to all the eyelashes we've lost to makeup removal over the years. This formula, which is perfect for sensitive eyes, dissolves your makeup on contact without rubbing — a unique feature that resulted in the brand's clinical trials showing a 75% decrease in eyelash loss after two weeks of daily use.
Klorane Waterproof Eye Make-Up Remover With Soothing Cornflower, $, available at Ulta Beauty
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However, while we’ve been out combing Amazon for the next big thing, Orolay quietly became a legit brand — complete with high-end product photography, a vague trefoil logo (nothing to see here, Adidas!), and a host of new puffy-coat styles in the vein of the techy original. What was once an anonymous entity in a sea of outerwear options has evolved into a full-fledged design operation in the business of making covetable and competitively-priced outerwear. A recent scan of their dedicated Amazon shop yielded a ton of on-point winter coats. So if you’re ready to do some browsing in consideration of this upcoming winter’s new puffer, peep Orolay’s newest designs — and prepare to start another viral fashion phenomenon.
At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission.We were taken by the cool color-blocking on this sportier puffer, which comes complete with an adjustable hood and the brand’s signature down fill.
Orolay Color Blocked Down Jacket, $, available at AmazonA subtle sleeve pocket makes this simple and streamlined topper a great option for dashing out the door on a quick walk or errand. (There’s one lone review so far, but it’s glowing: “I’m very happy with this coat so far. It fits just right, giving a shape to my body that’s flattering while also leaving room to layer under it and be comfortable when I sit down. Definitely recommend this, will buy again!”)
Orolay Mid Length Hood Down Jacket, $, available at AmazonThis hooded, knee-skimming style has cozy thumbholes and a 90% down fill for a super-insulated winter fit. “For the price, [this coat] is well worth the money,” said reviewer Talia. “I love the details, such as the soft cuffs with thumb holes and the decorative back bottom buttons. The coat is both slimming, and looks expensive.”
Orolay Down Jacket Coat Mid-Length, $, available at AmazonAn elastic belt creates a cool cinched waistline on this sleek and streamlined down-filled puffer.
Orolay Cotton-Padded Jacket with Waist Belt Coat, $, available at AmazonThe oversized pockets on this down-filled hooded coat recall the original Orolay design that took the internet by storm last year.
Orolay Down Jacket With Multi-Pocket Design, $, available at AmazonStrategically placed quilting gives this slim, a-line style an elegant and elongated shape. The hood is removable for days where you don’t need the extra protection. “I love this coat. It’s warm, but not bulky at all,” claimed Amazon user AEMW. “I like the fact that the hood is removable and also, that the side pockets snap closed — no more lost gloves!”
Orolay Thickened Puffer Down Jacket, $, available at AmazonA contrast inner lining is the design touch we didn’t know we needed on this cozy, rectangular style. Ginormous pockets made carrying a separate handbag almost unnecessary. (Almost.) Amazon user Patricia raved: “Love this coat. Perfect fit. Looks so warm and sure it will be. Love the big front pockets. Love the decorative zippers on the sleeves.”
Orolay Mid-Length Down Jacket with Removable Fur Hood, $, available at AmazonA heavy-duty iteration with a faux-fur hood that adjusts in case of inclement weather. Pockets on the upper and lower portions of this down-filled puffer mean you can squirrel away anything you need to keep close by.
Orolay Mid Length Down Coat With Hood, $, available at AmazonAnother belted style, this time with a functional, grommet-studded design, gets an added dose of warmth thanks to a faux fur-lined hood and a dense down filling.
Orolay Short Down Coat with Removable Elastic Belt, $, available at AmazonFavorite style alert! We love the shorter hemline, belted waist, and nipped-in cuffs on this hooded coat. (We just can’t decide between the white and the navy blue.) Another reviewer agrees with us: “I’m in LOVE with this coat! Looks beautiful on.”
Orolay Short Hooded Coat with Removable Belt, $, available at Amazon
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We know what you're thinking: For being October, it's still pretty darn warm, so it makes perfect sense to put off your fall hair appointment. It's okay to wait on locking down your fresh cut (although the raddest new color trends have already arrived), because most of the au courant hairstyles for fall 2019 are easily achievable for those who plan to milk a grow out through early November.
Actually, according to top celebrity hair pros, the looks that are going to dominate the new season are mostly fresh takes on summer's favorite styles, like the messy updo and low bun, just accessorized with a pre-fall spin. Ahead, check out all the looks that you can wear now, straight through whenever you draw line at true fall, and still be totally on-trend.
A Statement Headband
The headband trend started during last season's Fashion Week and has held through summer — and now it's all over Instagram. According to celebrity hairstylist Laura Polko, the statement accessory will continue to trend for fall.
Stylist tip: “As always, I love a headband — the chunkier the better," Polko tells us. "The best part is that you can stock up on a bunch of cute ones without spending too much." Some of her favorites styles, like this brand-new leopard-print one, are only $9 at Target.This orange one by Lele Sadoughi practically screams October.
Curtain Bangs
Been avoiding a bang trim? Don't sweat it, just look to Kirsten Dunst for styling inspo. She just proved the versatility of a low-maintenance curtain bang, wearing the style in three different ways: straight down, in a ponytail, and accented with velvet bow.
Stylist tip: Hair pro Linda de Zeeuw, stylist out of NYC's Rob Peetoom Salon, tells us the long curtain fringe is on-trend for fall because it's a low-commitment cut. "Wispy curtain bangs are a nice way of changing up your hairstyle, without cutting your ends short or changing your shape," she explains.You can see how Camila Cabello rocks her (permed) curls with a long curtain bang that almost acts as a built-in accessory.
Stylist tip: “Even if your scrunchie is a neutral color, the texture can elevate a look," says Polko. "It really ties together a simple look, like a white top and jeans." The best part about the scrunchie trend is that it's truly a high-low shopping experience. While there's a time and place for a luxurious $30 silk scrunchie, you can grab a 10-pack of velvet bands in a rainbow of colors at Target for $3.50, too.
The Elevated Topknot
Celebrity hairstylist Nai'vasha recently gave actress Logan Browning this structural bun she calls, "the curly topknot." It's further proof that updos can be simple and maintain the integrity of your curls.
Stylist tip: "Messy curls and ringlets that aren't too polished are cool," says Mia Emilio, a stylist at NYC's Devachen Salon. "This is an easy, messy, but still polished style that still lets your curls be the statement."If you wear your hair in a protective style, like Willow Smith, consider tying your braids or locs in a ponytail at the top of your head, and accenting the ends with gold hoops.Celebrity stylist Lacy Redway shows us all how to make the topknot less slick and smoothed on actress Zazie Beetz. Instead, the stylist opted for full and soft all over.
The Claw-Clip Bun
Celebrity stylist Cash Lawless loves the ease and effortless look of the claw-clip bun, which he refers to as, “nothing hair."
Stylist tip: By "nothing" he means that the clip allows for any hair texture to be tossed up and secured in this laid-back look that feels fresh and will look different on everyone. Plus the clip itself is cheap, a fun '90s throwback. Need further convincing? Kaia Gerber is a fan.Bella Hadid wears her black claw clip with a sleek updo and a deep side-part, letting her face be the focal point from the front, and the clip shine in profile.On rising star Isabela Moner, hair pro Chad Wood styled a low bun at the nape of her neck, then secured it with a metallic claw clip. It's an easy trick that allows long, grown-out layers to be swooped to one side in the chicest way.Like this post? There's more. Get tons of beauty tips, tutorials, and inspiration on the Refinery29 Pinterest page — we'll see you there!
Floral Accents
exampleexample A Silk Scarf
“Silk scarves with hair down is super chic but I also like to incorporate them as an added touch for a top knot or low braid. I also love a half up half down top knot with a scarf.
“When it comes to scarves, I prefer to go with a pattern. The right silk scarf can elevate a look and really ties a simple black top and jeans together.”
“Stacking or criss-crossing scünci’s newest jeweled bobby’s in the back of the head gives an added touch or elegance with low effort. It’s an elevated slightly undone look.”
My love-hate relationship with apparel runs deep. On the one hand, I love fashion (I am a fashion writer, after all). But on the other hand, there are still many mornings when I wake up, stare blindly at my closet, and somehow arrive at the same, tired conclusion: I have nothing to wear. Or, perhaps even worse: My wardrobe doesn’t excite me. And while some may use these moments as an opportunity to peruse their favorite online retailers, budget- and/or sustainably minded shoppers (like yours truly) may feel like their options for a spruced-up wardrobe are limited.
Thankfully, Haverdash offers up the perfect opportunity to bring some much-needed spark and variety to your closet. If you've been thinking about trying a clothing rental service but haven't pulled the trigger yet because of the price or selection, consider this: Haverdash is just $59 a month, and lets you rent three styles of everyday clothing, rather than just looks for special occasions. Wear your items once or multiple times, then return them for new options (rotations are unlimited during the month).
You’re able to select pieces that easily weave a dash of trend, bold color, or print into your daily wardrobe — whether you need a jacket to tie together your summer-to-fall transitional outfits or a work-appropriate dress that can take you from the office to happy hour.
Ahead, we’re rounding up our fall essentials from Haverdash — all of which will help you get the most mileage out of your wardrobe.
Tie-Sleeve Midi Dress Not only is this midi length seasonally appropriate, it works just as well for business meetings as it does for Sunday brunch.
re:named Tie Sleeve Abstract Midi Dress, $, available at HaverdashKnit-Sleeve Denim Jacket This unconventional approach to the classic jean jacket is just the right amount of playful and unexpected. The vibrant knit pattern adds both color and texture, making it a must-have for any outfits that need a little something extra.
Flying Tomato Knit Sleeve Denim Jacket, $, available at HaverdashCorduroy Shirt Jacket Between the slightly rugged feel of the corduroy fabric and the cognac hue that practically screams, “The leaves are changing colors,” this is without a doubt the quintessential fall item.
Willow & Clay Corduroy Shirt Jacket, $, available at HaverdashPeasant Blouse We love a good white top, but no autumn wardrobe is complete without an upgraded version that adds a breezy, loose-fitting element that will go with literally everything. Style it with some jeans and ankle boots for a casual day of running errands, or dress it up with a leather miniskirt and patterned tights for a night out.
Mustard Seed V Bib Peasant Blouse, $, available at HaverdashV-Neck Tiered Dress We can see it now: wearing this just-dressy-enough number and frolicking through the apple orchards with a straw basket in hand. Keep it chic with backless mules or comfy with a pair of white sneakers.
Moon River Deep V-Neck Tiered Dress, $, available at HaverdashFaux-Suede Shirtdress Introducing the ultimate layer-able dress. Naturally, it works on its own, but throw on a deconstructed denim jacket or a plush teddy coat, and you’ve got entirely new looks to work with.
BB Dakota Faux Suede In Heaven Shirt Dress, $, available at HaverdashStriped Sweater This sweater achieves the perfect balance of comfortable and trendy. Plus, the colorful, bold stripes create a pattern that works well on everyone.
Crescent Textured Stripe Adaline Sweater, $, available at HaverdashCargo Pants These pants are low-key enough to wear around the house, but can be instantly dressed up with some heels, a crop top, and a leather jacket — and the cinched waist adds an unexpected element to your usual go-to pair.
Jealous Tomato Belted Olive Jogger Pants, $, available at HaverdashBlack Patterned Miniskirt For those of you who don’t experience the seasons, this miniskirt will work year-round. For the rest, pair it with sheer black tights and over-the-knee boots to stay warm.
Jealous Tomato Embroidered Mini Skirt, $, available at HaverdashPlaid Coat The mother of all fall must-haves: the plaid coat. Even if you’re wearing sweats underneath, you’re guaranteed to look 100 times more chic with this luxe coat layered on top.
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It used to take a Superbowl-sized wardrobe malfunction to get the inside scoop on which stars were hiding nipple piercings under their red-carpet gowns. But according to a top celebrity piercer, there are far more stars with pierced nipples than we could possibly imagine. “If they’re done properly, they will be very minimal and most people won’t even notice,” Brian Keith Thompson told Refinery29 (while gamely answering just about every question a person could have on the subject).
But nipple piercings have been freed, so to speak. In the past few years, celebs haven’t exactly hid the most private of their piercings. Thanks to paper-thin shirts, pap strolls, Instagram, and a new wave of body confidence, stars like Kendall Jenner and Bella Hadid are exposing the edgiest of accessories with the frequency of an outfit change — no scandal required.
Ahead, see which stars are exposing their piercings with pride. Prepare yourself: These looks are so cool, they may just spark barbell dreams of your own.
Noah Cyrus
As far as tattoos go, Noah Cyrus has followed in her sister Miley's footsteps. But piercings? Noah is blazing her own trail and just got her first nipple piercing this week. While paying a visit to celebrity tattoo artist JonBoy, Noah enlisted piercer Robbie Milian at the Moxy Hotel in New York to pierce both of her nipples. Noah, along with Milian, broke the news on Instagram. "A normal monday night in new york," she wrote. "Tattoos and boobie piercings (didnt wana say tittys n set anyone off )."
Kendall Jenner
Jenner admitted to Page Six that, yes, she has a nipple piercing. She says she got hers after her younger sister Kylie, and that her barbell came as a result of a temporary rebellious phase. "Having my nipple pierced isn't really something I make a big deal of, but I think people are obsessed with the topic because it seems so unexpected of me," Kendall explained on her app in 2015. "Before I even decided to go for it, I just liked showing my nipples through some of my outfits; there's something understated, yet sexy about it."Photo: Pascal Le Segretain/amfAR/Getty Images.
Kylie Jenner
Jenner's nipple piercing isn't new, but unlike her big sister, she rarely shows off the jewelry. The 22-year-old hinted at a nipple piercing on Snapchat in 2015, but it wasn't until a year later that she confirmed the body jewelry in a photo for her Kylie Jenner Shop merch.Photo: Jackson Lee/GC Images.
Chiara Ferragni
When it comes to edgy trends, Europeans always seem one step ahead of the rest of us. So, it shouldn't come as a surprise that Italian cool girl Ferragni sports a dainty nipple piercing.
Bella Hadid
The model revealed her incog piercing in 2015 at the 95th Anniversary Party for Vogue magazine, thanks to a black halter dress that caged her décolletage in black mesh.Photo: Dominique Charriau/WireImage.
Candice Swanepoel
Two things revealed by Swanepoel when modeling this look: She has a killer strut (duh) and girlfriend rocks a nipple piercing.Photo: AP Photo/Antonio Calanni.
Amber Rose
Not even Rose’s giant Moschino cell phone case, made to look like household cleaner, can distract from her two nipple piercings, which take center stage behind a second-skin dress.
Paris Jackson
Things that the Standing Rock activist and actress j’adores: peace, tattoos, and double nipple piercings.Photo: Dominique Charriau/WireImage.
Christina Milian
How do you one up your mom when she get a “God is Love” tattoo? If you have a reality show and are Christina Milian, you get a nipple piercing on camera, natch.Photo: MediaPunch/REX/Shutterstock.
Keke Palmer
Anyone who follows Palmer on social media knows that the star does her own thing. Case in point: She posted a picture of this nipple-exposing outfit on Instagram (nudity policy be damned), which reveals a typically-hidden piercing.
Rihanna
Bad Gal RiRi’s sheer sparkly gown worn to a CFDA event in 2014 left little to the imagination: It fully exposed a nipple piercing (well, and nipples, too).Photo: Randy Brooke/Getty Images.
Kristen Stewart
Part of what makes Stewart the ultimate cool girl is her mystique. The private star can’t be found on social media and typically uses a “less is more” approach when answering interview questions. It also doesn’t hurt that Stewart has an elusive nipple piercing, something that’s is so rarely captured, that it was last photographed in 2010.Photo: Ian Gavan/Getty Images for Burberry.
Rooney Mara
Mara got her right nipple and eyebrow pierced when preparing for her role as Lisbeth Salander in The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo. "It was actually not that painful," she told Allure in 2011. "Everyone thinks that would be the most painful...It just felt like a good one to get — a necessary one to get." Mara removed her eyebrow ring after filming, the publication reported. But the nipple ring, she kept. "It's not something I want to ever get re-pierced," she says. “So I'm going to keep it in."Photo: SUZANNE CORDEIRO/AFP/Getty Images.
Janet Jackson
Sure, America may have lost its mind when Janet’s nipple ring was exposed during a Super Bowl performance. But while everyone else was freaking out, we couldn’t stop thinking, “How cool is that sun-shaped jewelry?”Photo: Donald Miralle/Getty Images.
Bella Thorne
Thorne showed off a new nipple piercing in a Snapchat photo back in 2017. Although it's not as if the body modification came without warning: She tweeted a teaser just a few days before.Photo: Maarten de Boer/Getty Images Portrait.
Christina Aguilera
In a Instagram post showing off a new ear piercing, Xtina uploaded a "piercing road map" that broke down the 11 she got before it. While the list didn't include her belly button ("too overplayed," she explained), Aguilera did confirm she has her right nipple pierced. "Forgot how much I love getting pierced....so euphoric for me...wonder what else I should get done again," the caption read. Maybe that means she'll spring for the left one next?Photo: Volpe/X17agency.com.
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We have a machinist from New Jersey to thank for the invention of modern-day glitter. In 1934, Henry Ruschmann devised a way to crush up plastic to produce large quantities of the shiny stuff. He created a manufacturing company — Meadowbrook Glitter — to double down on his brainchild and now, decades later, that crushed up shiny stuff is everywhere in makeup aisles, from lipglosses to eyeliners, and most definitely eyeshadows.
But there is one big downside of wearing glittery eyeshadow: That shit gets everywhere. Thankfully, some brands have come to realize that we definitely don't want to be wiping glitter out of our hair, bathroom tiles, and clothes every day, and have opted for improved technology and things like eyeshadow creams and gels.
We can't thank them enough. Ahead, check out our favorite foolproof glitter shadows that won't be haunting you and all of your belongings days after wearing it.
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ColourPop Disco Lady
Put away the glitter glue, because you won't need it with this gel. Sheer it out with a few dabs of your finger for some major shine, or pile it on for a metallic foiled look.
Just try and tear yourself away from the mirror after swiping on this unique eye shimmer, which has a mix of crystal powders and metallic-coated pearls that reflects light like nobody's business. The pigmented jelly goes on like a gel but dries down to a mess-free powder finish.
Kaja Moon Crystal Sparkling Eye Pigment, $, available at Sephora
Stila Glitter & Glow Liquid Eye Shadow
This high-impact shadow won a Refinery29 Beauty Innovator Award for a reason: The long-wearing formula is loaded with fine glitter that dries down to a budge-proof finish. (Drag queens love it, too, and they know their stuff.)
Stila Glitter & Glow Liquid Eye Shadow, $, available at Sephora
Hourglass Scattered Light Glitter Eye Shadow
Ever since debuting at Sephora, this Hourglass glitter eyeshadow is never not selling out. With its fine glitter texture and finish that allows you to blend different shades together on your eyelids, fans have dubbed this a potted version of that beloved Stila liquid shadow, above.
Hourglass Scattered Light Glitter Eye Shadow, $, available at Sephora
Tom Ford Cream Color For Eyes
Leave it to Tom Ford to formulate an array of smooth cream shadows in ultra-pigmented metallic shades like deep bronze and sea-inspired blue that make the steep $46 price tag seem not that unreasonable.
Now that we've raved about RMS Beauty's natural-finish Living Luminizer highlighter, it's time you meet the brand's glossy eye polish, which comes in both metallic and satin finishes.
Pat McGrath Mothership V Eyeshadow Palette - Bronze Seduction
If you love glitter and you're looking to splurge, this palette is right up your alley. As seen on Cardi B, Amandla Stenberg, and SZA at the 2018 VMAs, Pat McGrath's palette includes 10 richly-pigmented shades that seriously don't budge.
Pat McGrath Mothership V Eyeshadow Palette - Bronze Seduction, $, available at Sephora
Urban Decay Heavy Metal Glitter Eyeliner
There's a shade in Urban Decay's collection of glitter liners for everyone, whether you're looking for silver, purple, pink, or gold. We love wearing it solo or layering it over the entire lid for a more graphic effect.
Urban Decay Heavy Metal Glitter Eyeliner in Glam Rock, $, available at Ulta Beauty
Touch In Sol Metallist Liquid Foil & Glitter Eye Shadow Duo
This versatile eyeshadow duo features a metallic liquid shadow on one end, and a tacky chunky glitter on the other.
Touch In Sol Metallist Liquid Foil & Glitter Eye Shadow Duo, $, available at Sephora
Lemonhead LA Houdinin Highlite Spacepaste
Hate loose glitter with a burning passion? Try Lemonhead's Space Paste instead. They're loaded with a mix of fine and chunky particles and once they're set, they're not transferring onto anything.
Lemonhead LA Houdinin Highlite Spacepaste, $, available at Lemonhead LA
Wet n Wild Color Icon Glitter Single
We like to think of this glitter gel as a gateway drug into more intense glitters. It'll set you back just $1 and comes in five wearable shades. There's one caveat, though: Unlike some of the other shadows in this roundup, this one doesn't last too long on its own, so we suggest laying a primer down underneath to improve wear-time.
Wet n Wild Color Icon Glitter Single, $, available at Wet n Wild
Revlon PhotoReady Eye Art
Not sure how intense you want to go? Reach for one of Revlon's new PhotoReady Eye Arts. The double-sided tubes hold a metallic liquid shadow on one end and a glittery gel on the other. Both of the shades can be worn solo or mixed and matched for custom looks.
Revlon Revlon PhotoReady Eye Art Lid+Line+Lash, $, available at Target
E.L.F. Cosmetics Pop of Glitter Gel
One swipe of this e.l.f. gel provides a sheer veil of sparkle, but two or three will take you into high-shine territory. Just make sure to let each layer dry before going in for more.
e.l.f. Cosmetics Pop of Glitter Gel, $, available at e.l.f. Cosmetics
Flesh Beauty Fleshpot Eye & Cheek Gloss in Disco Nap
Prefer to take the subtle route when it comes to makeup? Slather this featherlight Flesh gloss onto your lids, your cheekbones — hell — anywhere you want a sexy flash of shimmer. It will make you gleam, but not in a disco-ball way.
Flesh Beauty Fleshpot, $, available at Flesh Beauty
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I am THE original HBIC. I do appearances all over the country, and they want to hear me call myself the HBIC, so I’m still going to rock with that. I made that one up, but I like to say I’m the original because there’s a lot of other women that want to call themselves the HBIC and I’m totally fine with that. Honestly, I don’t hem and haw over the names. If people want to call me Tiffany, that’s perfect. If people want to call me New York, that’s just as fine because there’s a nostalgia and there’s an embrace that I will always have for that name. Truth be told that name helped me get to where I am today.
I think it’s so funny that a lot of people wonder where I’ve been [since the last season of New York Goes To Hollywood] but I’ve never stopped working. I’m always doing gigs or hosting or doing appearances or working loosely on other projects.
But to be clear: I never really, really, really went away.
TIFFANY POLLARD
When I began reality, I feel like I bought a certain type of energy that now we tend to contrive when we think about television. I think television used to be very stuffy, very, “I have to look perfect, be perfect and have the perfect answer.” I think when I stepped on the scene, I released a lot of that type of tension. It was like, You know what? Forget that. This is a reality show for me. It’s okay to be yourself. Cry if you feel it! If you don’t have the perfect answer, it’s okay to say “I don’t know.” So it was taking a lot of the stuffiness out of what we used to [think] television was. That’s how I approached reality and it worked for me. It later worked for a lot of other people too.
But it’s funny because I don’t really pursue and push really hard for the reality stuff. I’m not going to lie, I turn down reality shows if I feel like it’s redundant, something I’ve done before, or something that just doesn’t fit my image right now. But to be clear: I never really, really, really went away.
I’m truly a homebody. I still like to visit my family. I love to cook. I’ve always had this thing with myself where I’m like, “Tiff, you can’t remove the things that you loved before you were on television.” A lot of people don’t know this, [but] when I first got recognized, I suffered anxiety from people coming up to me because I wasn’t ready for that much fame all at once. For me, it was very important to still maintain a normal lifestyle. I’m always going to have that integrated into my life no matter what I do or no matter how big I get.
And while all of that is very true, it feels amazing to come back with season 2 for it to be at VH1. I feel like season 2 felt so natural in comparison to season 1 when I was learning the ropes. And that now I have arrived, I really know how to host and conduct an interview correctly.
My favorite part of the Brunch With Tiffany is when I would greet the guest and there was that initial, “I don’t know what to expect from you.” But then there’s this organic thing that occurs when they give me their trust and I give them my undivided attention. You see this magic start to happen in the interview where we almost feel like we’ve known each other for the longest [time]. I noticed that with every person that has come on the show, and it was just like this thing where I started to fall in love. I’m like, “Oh my goodness, I’m hooked.”
I love that the youth knows who I am because of social media. I can’t believe it when I see them use gifs of me on Flavor of Love. It’s so surreal because that show was over 11 years ago. It keeps me current and the youth respect me. I’m constantly like “Wow, they want to see more of me,” and it’s an amazing feeling.
Out of them all, “Bye Pumpkin” is my favorite New York meme. I remembered that moment and that was the hardest thing I’ve ever lived through in my life. I can remember it like it was yesterday when I see that particular meme. That one is etched into my mind forever. I could be 80 years old, and I’ll still remember that moment for the rest of my life.
Looking ahead for New York in 2020, I have a few reality programs coming out that I’ll be featured in. I get into motivational speaking as well, so you’ll see me do more of that in 2020, for sure. But what I also ultimately love to do is “Brunch with Tiffany.” It’s definitely the right place for my energy right now. I love to host and I also love to conduct interviews because I’m not really big into the doctored thing.
Every single guest that came on my platform to have brunch with me, there was a mutual respect because I didn’t make anything up. They were there to tell their side of the story, and I think, personally, that’s how all interviews should be conducted. I like to get the information straight from the horse’s mouth.
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This statistic is not intended to hurl you into an existential crisis (though hurl you it might), but rather to alert you to the fact that we interact with screens way more than we think — so we should be aware of how they impact our health and what we can do to practice screen time in the safest way. Like self-care, but make it techie.
Enter: dark mode, an interface that uses a dark color scheme instead of light and can help reduce eye fatigue, glare, and blue light. These days, you’d be hard-pressed to find an app or device that doesn’t offer it.
“With people spending most of their waking hours on screens, constant exposure to blue light is taking a toll on eyes and health,” says Justin Barrett, CEO Healthe, a company that creates eye safe technology. “The high-energy blue light emitted by our screens has been linked to several visual symptoms categorized by the eye care community as digital eye strain or computer vision syndrome, as well as disruption of circadian rhythm (our body clock). Sleep disruption is also a serious concern, especially among children and adolescents, who are more likely to be sensitive to its consequences like persistent fatigue, poor appetite, and sleep disorders. We should be cautious about the potential long-term effects and accumulated exposure to LED-lit displays.”
Barrett says using a blue light filter like ZAGG VisionGuard for phones and tablets or wearing glasses with a blue light filter covering a range up to 455nm can protect against the effects of blue light. But another easy way to limit blue light exposure is to enable on dark mode on your devices. Ahead, here’s how to do it. (Also, it might save battery life!)
iPhone, iPad & Mac
For Mac, you can only opt into dark mode if you have macOS Mojave. Within System Preferences, go to General and then change Appearance to dark.
For iPhone and iPad (if you have iOS 13), go to Settings > Display & Brightness > Dark.
Google Pixel
Go to Quick Settings and activate Dark theme. You can also go to Settings > Battery and switch on Battery Saver, which conserves your battery by switching to dark mode for apps like YouTube and News.
And last week, Google rolled out dark mode for Google Calendar on Android, which you can turn on by going to Settings > General > Theme.
Instagram
If you’ve enabled dark mode on your iPhone (which you can do if you’ve updated to iOS 13) or on Android (if you have Android 10), you’ll automatically have dark mode on Instagram. It’s that easy!
Twitter
On Twitter, it’s as easy as clicking on your profile logo at the top of your screen and switching on Dark Mode, which is available on mobile and desktop. Users can now choose between three different themes: Light, Dim, and Lights Out. You can also opt to use Automatic Dark Mode on iOS, which allows you to automatically switch to Dim or Lights Out mode each night and then switch back every morning.
Facebook Messenger
Simply click on your profile icon, turn on Dark Mode, and the whole display turns black. While Facebook’s general website and app don’t have dark theme options, you can download a Chrome extension for this.
YouTube
On both mobile and desktop, you can click on your profile icon and scroll down until you see Dark theme. Switch it on, and voila! Perfect for watching videos in the dark.
There are also apps like f.lux , which adapts your computer’s display to the time of day — that means no more getting blinded by the bright light of your computer at midnight.
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Bella Hadid is one of the most famous models in the world right now, but there's still a lot that fans don't know about the 23-year-old. Sure, we've seen inside her fridge and follow her hair changes, but even something as public as her tattoos have flown under the radar.
Yes, Hadid has tattoos, albeit not many of them. Just like her best friend Kendall Jenner, Hadid tends to keep her ink really small — practically undetectable — and she only has three tats so far. Still, while Hadid doesn't have a massive collection (nothing near as big as Hailey Bieber's 19 and Dakota Johnson's 10), her designs are totally worth tracking down, which is exactly what we did.
Check out Hadid's tiny tattoo collection, ahead.Hadid appears to have paid her first visit to celebrity tattoo artist JonBoy in January 2017, a favorite of Jenner and Bieber. There, she got a tiny tattoo of a wing on her right ankle.She added a second wing to the opposite side of her ankle on the same day. No one knows exactly why Hadid gravitated towards the angelic design for her first ink experience, but fans are aware of the model's love for winged creatures. For example, one of her frequently-used emojis is the blue butterfly, which is even seen in her Instagram bio. About six months later, Hadid returned to JonBoy at Bang Bang Studio to get a tiny rose tattooed on the back of her left arm. Again, no one knows the symbolism behind the flower tattoo, but there's no doubt the dainty design is a good one.
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Refinery29 is partnering with Girls Who Code for the #MarchForSisterhood on International Day of the Girl. This is the first-ever all-digital global march. Come back each day this week to learn about why different young women are participating, and join us as we #MarchForSisterhood on any of your social media channels this Friday, October 11, 2019.
I’ve never had a typical college day. As an Executive Director and college student, my days involve talking to reporters, running to the student union for assignments, calling my coworkers, attending class, and then flying out for business trips. I direct the organization Student Voice, a nonprofit that empowers young people to take ownership of their education. We run five programs that train and equip high school students with the tools they need to make change in their communities. I’ve been involved with Student Voice since I was 16 — I won’t get my Bachelors’s Degree until next year, yet I’ve already had a six-year career.
This all began my junior year of high school after watching the Corridor of Shame, a documentary that highlights inequities in South Carolina Schools. I grew up in Title I schools, but moved to a wealthier neighboring district before my sophomore year began. I quickly noticed how vastly different my school experiences were, despite my new school being just miles away. I became obsessed with understanding the gross inequity that existed in my state. South Carolina isn’t a large state, but the way that education policy is written and schools are operated causes education experiences to vary wildly across zip codes. Some schools have Apple TVs in every classroom and provide students with opportunities to travel across the country each year. Other schools lack the most basic resources a school needs to stay open — teachers,textbooks,desks, and everything in between.
I started connecting with students from across South Carolina. Together we fought for recognition of student voices around the big funding questions playing out at the state legislature. In one campaign, students in Lexington District 4, a rural and underfunded district of the state, fought to secure $25 million in a bond referendum that would fund their school. But I wasn’t done yet; in a surprising plot twist in my very type-A existence, I decided to take a gap year.
During my year “off”, I traveled to 20 states, meeting over 3,000 students, and visiting 32 schools to talk with young people about their experiences in school. I went to conferences, I read and met with teachers and decision-makers to learn as much as I could. I witnessed how many schools were lacking the financial resources to provide students with the resources they deserve. Students continually cited their desire to have access to modern technology.
An issue I heard about often, and still hear about, is the lack of opportunities in science, technology, and math for young women. Young women are interested in STEM fields but are told, both directly and indirectly, that these fields are not meant for them, but instead for their male classmates. We often discuss how to close the gender pay gap and the gap in the amount of women in STEM fields, but fail to discuss how young girls’ experiences in schools set the foundation for what they perceive their potential futures in STEM to be.
I’m marching for sisterhood for all of the incredible girls I’ve met throughout my career thus far, and all those I will meet. Everyone deserves access to technology that will open the world to them. As long as inequity persists and the gender gap in tech remains, we’ll march.
Merrit Jones is a third-year student at the University of North Carolina – Chapel Hill and executive director of Student Voice, a student-run nonprofit dedicated to strengthening the student movement by empowering high schoolers to take action on the issues that most affect their education.
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The moment when summer transitions to fall is notoriously difficult to dress for, but we like to think of it as an opportunity — when else can you wear crisp blouses and printed co-ords without a heavy coat? This special time calls for special pieces, and luckily for us, Macy's has a new collab that fits the bill: Becca Tilley x Bar III, courtesy of style influencer Becca Tilley.
Browse six of our favorite pieces ahead, as seen on Shopping Wednesdays, our weekly Instagram Stories series. Fall won’t stick around forever, but rest assured — these staples will carry on seamlessly into the colder months.Fall is all about pivoting to darker hues. A black top with a face-framing square neckline and gorgeously gathered shoulders more than does the trick.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Puff-Sleeve Bodysuit, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Faux-Leather Mini Skirt, $, available at Macy'sFind your match with this checkered suit set. It’s a bold look any way you style it — either with the double-breasted blazer buttoned or worn open.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Powersuit Gingham Blazer, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Powersuit Gingham Belted Shorts, $, available at Macy'sKnee-high boots > bare legs? As it's styled here, this silky midi makes a persuasive argument for the former.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Zebra-Print Volume Sleeve Sweater, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Satin Midi Skirt, $, available at Macy'sWith a longline cut and fluoro mock-neck knit underneath, this suit is anything but corporate.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Plaid Double-Breasted Blazer, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Plaid Tapered Pants, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Cowl-Neck Sweater, $, available at Macy'sSharp suiting is all the rage this fall, and this pink topper offers the right amount of fun and drama.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Double-Breasted Duster Coat, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Square-Neck Pullover Sweater, $, available at Macy's
Becca Tilley x Bar III Pleated Faux-Leather Pants, $, available at Macy'sWhen it comes to this souped-up iteration of the white oxford shirt, "strong shoulders" is quite the understatement.
Becca Tilley x Bar III Victorian Puff-Sleeve Top, $, available at Macy's
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Sure, we can't exactly promote spending $11,000 on a 3D-printed head like Jared Leto did for the Met Gala, but we can suggest some easier-to-manage costume ideas that still spell Fashion with a capital F.
Ahead, check out 6 fashun-forward Halloween costumes that are sure to get you that best-dressed award at every soiree come October 31st.
Jared Leto at the Met Gala (& More Severed Heads)
Gucci's FW18 runway show presented a handful of strange objects including, but not limited to dragons, snakes and chameleons.
But of all the accessories carried throughout the show, the models carrying life-like replicas of their own heads were by far the most memorable of the night.
Oh, and then Gucci spokesman, Jared Leto, recreated his head for the 2019 Met Gala red carpet... a task that apparently cost him around $11,000 (casual).
Topshop Festival Diamante Chain Bra, $, available at Topshop
Zara Satin Dress, $, available at ZaraTape a printed picture of your face until this mask, attach it to a ball (and for extra credit, throw on a wig!) and you're good to go. Best of all, no need to spend $11,000.
Blick Creativity Street Pulp Masks, $, available at Blick
Naomi Campbell & Kate Moss Eating Ramen
There's no model/BFF duo more synonymous with fashion than Kate Moss and Naomi Campbell. So, of course, we're dying to spend a night in their shoes.
To nail their looks, we suggest going full 90s model off duty, a.k.a. low-rise jeans, a simple camisole and, naturally, a to-go cup of ramen and a Coca Cola can.
Coca-Cola Coca-Cola 12 Fl Oz Cans, $, available at Target
RE/DONE Originals High Rise Stove Pipe Jeans, $, available at Need Supply
#GanniGirl
There's no combo more tied to Scandinavian style than a poofy, pastel dress and a pair of chunky sneakers. And while the number of brands coming out of Denmark continues to rise, none can quite compete with cult-classic label Ganni and their infamous #GanniGirls.
Ganni Cotton Silk Maxi Dress, $, available at Ganni
New Balance Grey US Made 990 V5 Sneakers, $, available at SSENSEChic accessory or adult candy bag?
50th Anniversary #MYCALVIN Campaign
It may have only come out 3 days ago, but Calvin Klein's 50th anniversary #MYCALVIN campaign — starring newlyweds Hailey and Justin Bieber, Kendall Jenner, ASAP Rocky, Shawn Mendes, Troye Sivan and more — is already the most talked about Halloween costume of the season.
Calvin Klein Modern Cotton Bralette, $, available at Calvin Klein
Calvin Klein Cotton Stretch 3 Pack Low Rise Trunk, $, available at Calvin Klein
Calvin Klein Black Wash Denim Trucker Jacket, $, available at Calvin Klein
Viktor & Rolf Memes
"Go F*ck Yourself", "Sorry I'm Late I Didn't Want To Come", "NO" — these are just a few of the uber-relatable messages that avant garde brand, Viktor & Rolf sent down their spring 2019 couture runway in Paris. To turn the viral gowns into Halloween costume infamy, grab any princess-like gown in your closet (or on the shelves of Spirit Halloween) and cut 'n' paste your sassy phrase of choice.
Vickyben Tulle Prom Formal Evening Homecoming Dress Ball Gown, $, available at Amazon
Amazon Iron-On Conversation Hearts, $, available at Amazon
Me & My Big Ideas Alphabet & Numbers, Uppercase, $, available at Michaels
The J.Lo Jungle Dress
It's been nearly 20 years since J.Lo made history on the Grammy's red carpet donning a green Versace dress that sparked the creation of Google images.
In honor of the upcoming 20-year anniversary, the Grammy-winning artist surprised MFW show-goers by modeling the dress at Versace's Spring 2020 show last month.
Since it's top of mind — not that we ever stopped obsessing over it — we predict that die-hard JLo fans will gravitate toward this costume even more than usual this year.
Forplay Love Don't Cost a Thing International Superstar Costume, $, available at Amazon
ASOS DESIGN Notorious Strappy Heeled Sandals, $, available at ASOS
Topshop Pearl Emerald Headband, $, available at Topshop
Nothing's scarier than a last-minute costume scramble. Click on over to Spooky Town now and shop our editors' curated collection of Halloween outfits and accessories. We even included some tasty treats!
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Amazon is essentially an IRL version of Ariel's treasure trove, famously detailed in her The Little Mermaid number, "Part Of Your World." Only instead of a cavernous hole 1000 leagues under the sea, all that "neat" stuff is housed on digital shelves across the web. And, instead of useless, "whozits," "whatzits," and, "thingamabobs," Amazon's best booty is a collection of secret weapon stuff that we never knew we needed and now we that we have it, simply can't live without — a collection we've come to call, the hidden gems.
Since this particular online product ocean runs deep, we decided to poll an in-the-know pool of online-shopping mermaids across the country for their absolute favorite buys. From fashion to tech, beauty, travel, home decor, and health and wellness, the hidden gems' list ahead covers products so unique that you may be entirely surprised to find they were snagged off Amazon. Scroll on to shop our secret treasure trove of Amazon's hidden gems and become a part of a world filled with baby products that are actual magic, face oils, lint rollers the size of mops, trendy boots to ruffle dresses for fall, plus totes galore. And spread the good goods for our next round of Amazon hidden gems — we'd love to know what treasures you've tried, tested, and approved.
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Why It's A Hidden Gem: The "Hello Fall" from the same candle brand was actually sold out on Amazon, so I checked out some of the other available seasonal scents and settled on the "Leaves" option. It's amazing. Smells just like a crisp fall day/my mom has just baked a fresh apple pie/the window is open and there's a bonfire going on outside/autumn incarnate.
Sweet Water Decor Leaves, Natural Soy-Wax Candle, $, available at Amazon
How She Discovered It: "Cruising the web for an under-$50, top-rated slouchy sweater I could wear with and layer over just about anything."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "The quality of this sweater is surprisingly high for the low price. Plus, it feels more unique than picking up this season's version from Zara or H&M along with everyone else. It's kinda like my grandma made it or my mom wore...but chic."
futurino Cable-Twist Long Boyfriend Cardigan, $, available at Amazon
How She Discovered It: "While mindlessly scrolling through the Amazon app after a couple glasses of wine."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "If you work at an office sitting at your desk for hours on end, then investing in a body massager will change. your. life. I love how this one gets right into my neck and shoulders to eliminate knots and tension. I swear, it’s almost as good as a real massage. Plus, it's a best seller with nearly 3,000 reviews!"
Naipo Shiatsu Back and Neck Massager, $, available at Amazon
How She Discovered It: "My secret vice: the #founditonamazon hashtag."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It’s the perfect transitional dress, and obviously meant to be worn solo during the warmer months. When the temperature starts to drop, I’ll layer it over a turtleneck and jeans — the print isn’t too summery, so it won’t look out of season."
Mitilly Ruffled Swing Dress, $, available at Amazon
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Their Restore Eye Serum is the best eye product I've tried because it doesn't clump into white spots on my skin, unlike others."
akar skin Natural Nutrient Boost Eye Serum, $, available at Amazon
How She Discovered It: "Searching for a time marker water bottle to help me drink more water."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I’ve been looking for ways to drink more water and I found several water bottles that have a time tracker so you remember to drink every hour. It’s been a fun game to stay hydrated. My fiancé calls it the power hour of your thirties. The bottle is cute, lightweight and I love the wrist strap. What really sold it for me is the straw because it makes it much easier to drink and doesn’t feel as much like a chore."
Giotto Leakproof BPA-Free Water Bottle (32oz), $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
How She Discovered It: "Last year I decided I wanted to make the switch to a clean, aluminum-free deodorant and was trying out different brands to see what worked the best."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I got attached to this product for a few reasons. First, because it actually works (it passed the ultimate test when I used it while out on a run in early August). I also love that there are no added fragrances, phthalates, dyes, aluminums, or parabens. Lastly, the brand's packaging is made with at least 50% post-consumer recycled plastics so I feel like I'm making a more responsible choice not only for my body, but for the environment."
Own Beauty Own Beauty Deoderant, $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
How She Discovered It: "I have been using this foot cream for years."
Why It’s A Hidden Gem: "Cracked, dry feet are the worst, but this product WORKS. That's my short review but there are thousands of other positive reviews that go into way more detail."
O'Keeffe's Foot Cream, $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
Lauren, 27 How She Discovered It: "I was searching for new snakeskin stamped boots for the fall."
Why It’s A Hidden Gem: "I had my eye on the Sam Edelman Walden snakeskin boots but they're $170. I was so happy to find a similar pair in stock online."
Carlos by Carlos Santana Snakeskin Ankle Boots (Vegan), $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
How She Discovered It: "I have always been afraid to use oil on my skin, but I recently learned about the benefits of rosehip oil from an Instagram influencer I follow, @healthyskinglows."
Why It’s A Hidden Gem: "Radha Beauty's rosehip oil was the best high-quality, cold-pressed oil I found when I researched different options. I love that Radha sells a wide variety of other oils on Amazon too and that I can have it delivered within one day via Amazon Prime."
Radha Beauty Organic Rosehip Oil, $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
How She Discovered It: "My mom's friends were all talking about it."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "One of the biggest causes of interrupted sleep for babies (and parents!) is flailing arms and legs that wake them up. The Magic Merlin is an enchanted little suit that keeps babies' arms and legs gently weighed down, while also keeping them warm — no need for a blanket. It’s a Godsend for new, sleep-deprived parents!"
Baby Merlin Magic Sleepsuit, $, available at Amazon*September Hidden Gem
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for ways to be more sustainable! And save money."
Why It’s A Hidden Gem: "It’s there to blot your makeup, dry your eyes, use to hold a subway rail, etc."
Hankytex Floral Handkerchiefs, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Perfume Bottle Shaped AirPods Case
Vanessa, 26
How She Discovered It: "Looking for something to differentiate my air-pods from everyone else."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Cute and special design for an affordable price."
UR Sunshine Perfume Bottle Shape AirPods Case, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Volume & Curl Super Waterproof Mascara
Sarah, 27
How She Discovered It: "Japanese makeup and skincare top 10 lists on a whole bunch of different makeup blogs I follow all gave this particular brand glowing reviews, so I had to check it out."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I have a fraught history with mascara, especially waterproof formulas. Drugstore mascara wands get gunky really fast and don't give me an even application. Higher-end brands aren't much better, plus they're exorbitantly expensive. Mascara removal sucks too. Those Almay pads people swear by? That Lancome forumla? They're both oily as hell and I end up having to rub pretty hard to get my eye makeup off. BUT! This Heroine Make stuff? Comes off with a swipe of Pond's and lasts all day. The price is right, too. Bless up."
Heroine Make Volume & Curl Super Waterproof Mascara, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Portable Aluminum Alloy iPhone Fan
Vicky, 26
How She Discovered It: "I was going to an outdoor rave during a heat wave and I was desperate."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's compact and such a knick-knack that you'd likely only be able to find online."
TOPUSER Portable Aluminum Alloy iPhone Fan, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
BAGGU Duck Bag Canvas Tote
Cristina, 38
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for a new tote bag."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I love everything about it, the size, color and pattern, the material and the fact that as a tote bag, it's more robust and you can close it, so things don't drop out. It also comes in so many cool themes. "
Baggu Duck Bag Canvas Tote, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Anntrue BPA-Free Collapsible Water Bottle
Emily, 33
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for a water bottle to bring on my honeymoon, and I was thrilled to find a collapsable option."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I hate burning through single-use plastic bottles, but most reusables are too bulky for my lifestyle. This is so easy to compress and pop into my bucket bag on my way out."
Anntrue Collapsible BPA-Free Water Bottle, 18oz, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Missha Aqua Sun Gel SPF 50
Serena, 25
How She Discovered It: "My coworker gave me her 12 step skincare routine and this is by far one of my favorite recommendations."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I used to associate SPF with sticky, slimy and something that would clog my pores. But leaving the house without SPF on my face makes me feel like having intercourse without a condom. UNPROTECTED. This sunscreen feels almost like a serum that sinks right into the skin and doesn't smell like I just made out with a life guard."
Missha All Around Safe Block Aqua Sun SPF 50, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Gel Swirl Memory Foam Topper
Laura, 25
How She Discovered It: "Last year, I started having difficulty falling asleep due to stress. When I started waking up with back pain, I began searching on Amazon for memory foam mattress toppers because I knew it would be a cheaper alternative to buying a new mattress. Plus, the mattress I already had was good - it just needed some improvement."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This topper transformed my mattress into a marshmallowy oasis. I've never slept so comfortably!"
DreamFoam Bedding 2" Gel Swirl Memory Foam Topper, Made in USA, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Baleaf High-Waist Compression Shorts
Nicole, 23
How She Discovered It: "I wanted biker shorts from Girlfriend Collective but all the black ones were sold out all the time so I turned to Amazon."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "They are possibly the best running/yoga shorts I own."
Baleaf High-Waist Compression Shorts, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
AvarelleAcne Absorbing Cover Patch
Katie, 25
How She Discovered It: "Surfing Amazon's indie-beauty scene."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "As one reviewer said it best, these little patches are 'miracle workers.' Coming from someone with sensitive skin prone to additional flareups from using harsher acne-related formulas, this absolute hidden gem of a product caused no irritation whatsoever and actually soothed my skin while clearing up my blemish overnight. I'm a believer."
Avarelle Acne Absorbing Cover Patch, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Fancy That Cat Key Ring
Steph, 27
How She Discovered It: "I kept getting served chic keyring targeted ads, so I took to Amazon to find a cheaper alternative."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Not only is this minimalist keyring chic and cat-shaped, but it's also an under $10 guarantee that I won't lose my keys...again. Oh, and it also comes in a lightning bolt shape that I ordered as a flashy backup (incase of misplacement emergencies)."
Fancy That Brass Key Ring, 3.35 inches, Cat, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Turkish Towel Bundle
Susie, 28
How She Discovered It: "Searching for top-rated towels that weren't going to cost an arm and a leg."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Aside from loving the blue and white stripe style of this 100% Turkish cotton set, the bundle itself breaks down to under $10 per luxe pool-sized towel."
Chakir Turkish Linens 100% Turkish Cotton Cabana Towels, 4-Pack, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Ionic Hair Straightener Brush
Julia, 25
How She Discovered It: "Prime Day Lightening Deal."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I bought this because I recently went up to a coworker and asked what the occasion for her blowout was. She then told me she just quickly used a heat brush that morning. Her hair looked amazing so I took advantage of Prime Day and bought this one. I am truly shocked with how well it works. I now use it almost every morning instead of a regular brush and it makes me just look that much more put together!"
GLAMFIELDS Ionic Hair Straightener Brush, $, available at Amazon*August Hidden Gem
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I feel like the best Amazon finds are pieces that don't try and do too much, and this minimalist tote is a perfect example of that. I get so many compliments on how elegant it looks and no one can ever believe it's a faux leather bag that I snagged for under $20."
Hoxis Soft Pu Leather Small Tote, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Makeup Sponge Blender Set
Kellie, 32
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for an alternative to the Beauty Blender, and these were highly reviewed and so cheap, I just had to try them."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Under $2 a sponge vs $20 for the beauty blender and I like it better! I went back to the beauty blender for a day when I ran out of these sponges and I didn’t like it anymore! I’m never spending $20 on a sponge again!"
Getter Makeup Sponge Blender Set (7), $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
French Linen & Cotton Blend Sheets
Mimi, 26
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for linen sheets but all the high-end brand companies sell for $4-500 and up. I've had my sheets for a couple months now and they just get softer and softer. I love them!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "There's nothing like falling into a bed that you're never too hot or too cold in. But usually that comes at a cost. These are the same price as my nice Pottery Barn sheets but the quality will last me a lifetime."
DAPU French Linen & Long-Staple Cotton Blend Sheet Set, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Lint Roller Mop
Libby, 28
How She Discovered It: "Hilary Rhoda's Instagram (her husband is a neat-freak)."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I mean, it's a giant lint roller! Enough said! It's especially helpful on my cowhide rug (vs. dealing with it getting sucked into vacuum) and it takes half the time to de-lint my coats/sweaters. I love it so much — by far my favorite Amazon purchase!"
Ilife Resuable Lint Roller Mop, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Scalp Massager & Exfoliating Dandruff Brush
Loreto, 20
How She Discovered It: "On one of my late night Amazon rabbit holes."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I was looking for a dandruff solution when I came upon this gem. All the other options seemed to only work for a couple of weeks before the silicon brushes would break, so I took a chance on this brush and it’s completely changed my life! Every time I wash my hair and use this brush my scalp feels so clean, and it does a better job than my fingers ever will, plus it’s helped remove my dandruff almost to nothing. I truly appreciate this product."
Zyllion Scalp Massager Dandruff Brush, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Oversized White Linen Shirt
Liz, 28
How She Discovered It: "An entire afternoon spent Googling cheap white linen shirts that could double as a beach coverup."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Based off the few but glowing reviews, under $30 price tag, and Prime shipping eligibility, I ended up ordering this white linen button down in an XXL size for coverup duty — it was my best impulse purchase to date (well-made, accurately sized, light, breezy, and oh-so-soft). I sported it overtop my swimsuit paired with a white-cotton hat all weekend long, answering all 'where did you get that?!' commenters with a shock-and-awe-inspiring 'for $27 bucks on Amazon' reply."
Minibee Oversized Cotton Linen Blouse, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
100% Pure Hyaluronic Acid
Carey, 47
How She Discovered It: "Searching on Amazon."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I add three drops of this to my expensive serums and creams and it extends the life and adds moisture. Lasts forever and is inexpensive. Game changer!"
Watts 100% Pure Hyaluronic Acid, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Rechargeable Bug-Zapper Rackets
Maria, 37
How She Discovered It: "At a friend's house upstate."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "My best friend has newborn twins and likes to keep the windows open to enjoy the nice fresh air breeze. This fly zapper-racket came in handy when the flies came in since Raid and other sprays are not an option around the babies. Plus it was fun to use in a sort of twisted low-stakes sporting kind of way."
ZAP IT! Rechargeable Mosquito, Fly Killer & Bug Zapper Racket, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
36-Pack Of Assorted Velvet Scrunchies
Kara, 24
How She Discovered It: "My heart skipped a beat when I came across this scrunchie gold mine on 'Recommended For You' page. (What can I say? Amazon knows me very well.)"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Not only do you now have a scrunchie for every outfit, you can theoretically go a full month (plus about an extra week) without repeating a. single. one. Plus, at $14, each one comes out to less than 50 cents each. (!!)"
Chloven Velvet Hair Scrunchies (45-Pc Set), $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
SofSole Instant Sneaker Cleaner
Steph, 30
How She Discovered It: "I’m having a white sneaker moment, almost everyday. When my #1 shoe spot stopped carrying my favorite cleaner, I knew Amazon would be the place to find it."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "After I clean my shoes with Sof Sole people legit say, ‘Oh! New sneaks?’ Every time!”
Sof Sole Instant Cleaner Foaming Stain Remover, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Reusable Storage Bags
Megan, 29
How She Discovered It: "Searching for a sustainable alternative to plastic ziplock baggies...a pack of those things used to fly off my cabinet shelves like hotcakes."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "These eco-friendly storage solutions aren't only ideal for saving leftovers and snacks, but they're also perfect pouches for keeping everything from loose change to vitamins and makeup essentials organized inside a chaotic purse or gym bag."
Rezip Lay-Flat Leakproof Reusable Storage Bag 5-Pack (Multi C, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Sheer Soft Cup Bra
Jacqui, 31
How She Discovered It: "I took a punt one day cause I was Googling mesh bras and stumbled upon this one. I am never not wearing this bra."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It is literally the best bra known to man, super cheap and the best material ever."
Gossard Women's Glossies Sheer Bra, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
All-Day Liquid Eyeliner
Karina, 25
How She Discovered It: "Before I started working in beauty, I heavily researched every makeup purchase I made, whether I was shopping at the drugstore or Sephora. This Maybelline liquid eyeliner pen was one of my earlier purchases, but years later, I keep coming back to it because it's just that good. Plus, if I ever forgot to pack my eyeliner when traveling, I'll always know it's a solid pick for an emergency shopping trip."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It can be intimidating at first, but once you get the hang of it, a felt-tip liquid eyeliner is like the little black dress of beauty products. It makes a chic, clean statement worn by itself, but also compliments virtually any eyeshadow look you're going for. And as the name aptly points out, the tip is super precise, which allows me to create a barely-there wing or go more dramatic with the shape. In other words, it's the perfect drugstore liquid eyeliner."
Maybelline Eyestudio Master Precise All Day Liquid Eyeliner, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Water Pick Flosser
Carol, 29
How She Discovered It: "Searching for alternative floss solutions to help me step up my dental hygiene game. "
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I've always had gum sensitivity issues and normal string floss used to cause irritation issues so I never wanted to do it. Which is where this alternative water flosser came into play, not only am I flossing more often with little to no bleeding or gum pain but I also feel like I am giving my teeth the dental professional treatment."
Waterpik Water Flosser (Electric Oral Irrigator For Teeth), $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Velvet Tufted Headboard
Rebecca, 23
How She Discovered It: "I really wanted an Anthropologie channel tufted bed when I moved into my first apartment, but I also wanted to stay within my budget so I tried to find a similar look elsewhere. I looked on several home furniture sites until I decided to give Amazon a go. I found this adjustable headboard right away and it looks just as good as the $700+ ones I had wanted earlier."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "There were so many cute color options (I went with the light blue, but I loved the blush as well), it was easy to attach to my bed, it's very sturdy, and I got the look I wanted for my room for a really great price."
Modway Keira Channel Tufted Velvet Headboard, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Ice Roller
Stephanie, 37
How She Discovered It: "The girls in my office found these for a Palm Springs' bachelorette weekend to use as hangover remedies."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "They loved them so much that we ended up stocking them in our office freezer for 3PM pick me ups and early morning meetings! Game changer in 45 seconds — also helpful for feeling refreshed if you have to head straight from the office to after-work plans."
esarora Ice Roller For Face & Eye, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Silk Fringe Handbag
Melissa, 32
How She Discovered It: "I wanted the Cult Gaia mini fringe bag for a wedding in Mexico, but couldn't pay the $300+ price for it so I researched small fringe bags on Amazon and found one similar."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I have a lot of trips this summer and don't like traveling with anything too expensive, so this bag is perfect."
Bokpld Angelous Silk Weave Handbag, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Dermaplaning Razors
Freya, 43
How She Discovered It: "I was intrigued by Dermaplaning (an exfoliating treatment that will remove peach fuzz & dead skin with a very sharp razor/scalpel) & was looking into those cheap Tinkle razors that I kept hearing about. Well they sucked. I ended up investing in some very expensive Dermaplaning razors ($35!) & although they worked well, I wasn't feeling the price, especially since the razor needs to be sharp so it's best to use a new one every other Dermaplaning session. I ended up browsing Amazon for a cheaper alternative (as you do) & I came across these razors from the brand KAI for less than $5 for 5! I immediately placed an order & had them in my grabby little hands two days later! "
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "These Dermaplaning razors are incredibly high quality & sharp AF! They're made from stainless steel & the handle is coated, which makes them comfortable to hold & allows you to get a really good grip. But most importantly, they do a fabulous job of exfoliating & removing any & all unwanted facial hair (without any irritation, when done correctly, if course), leaving my skin feeling insanely soft & smooth! Plus my skin care products absorb 100 times better after using them. These are the BEST Dermaplaning razors I've ever used & I pray that they're never discontinued."
Kai Razor Beauty Guard, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Ceramic Lip Ashtray
Cait, 30
How She Discovered It: "Last year, I started noticing funky, sculptural ashtrays seemed to suddenly be everywhere (thanks legalization!) and I wanted to buy one. I have a weird obsession with lip motifs and saw something similar to this somewhere else, but for much more money. I searched around and couldn't believe how inexpensive this one was. It looks very high quality IRL!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It definitely adds a little extra oomph to my coffee table. Even if you don't smoke, it's perfect for storing jewelry or other odds and ends in, and it's a great conversation piece."
Loghot Ceramic Lip Ashtray, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Platform Bed Frame
Reid, 23
How She Discovered It: "I had a lot of requirements for what I wanted in a bed for my apartment. I needed a bed that didn't require a box spring, tall enough that I could put bins under the bed for storage, and had holes for attaching my headboard. I didn't like the look of the frames that unfold, and needed a frame with wooden slats to make my foam mattress last longer."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This frame hit every requirement I had and then some. I got the 18" frame (there's also a 14" version) so its super tall and I was able to stack my bins and suitcases underneath. I have never had an easier piece of furniture to put together. It took me and a friend all of 10 minutes to assemble, and it's so sturdy."
Zinus Lorrick Quick Snap 18 Inch Platform Bed Frame, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Black High-Waist Leggings
Casey, 36
How She Discovered It: "Trial & error + lots of Amazon comments section trolling."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This pair of leggings passes the see-through squat test in flying colors. No underwear showing here! They are super matte and on the thicker side which I like. I also like how high they are on the waist for indoor cycling so everything stays comfortably in place. Bonus: lots of pockets which is a take it or leave it for me personally but a bonus for runners etc."
Dragon Fit Compression Leggings, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Anti-Chafing Thigh Bands
Kelly, 33
How She Discovered It: "I just typed in "thigh savers" into the search bar."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I don't have to cry every time I wear a dress now. The rub is gone!!"
Bandelettes Elastic Anti-Chafing Thigh Bands, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Cute Cheap Sunglasses
Marissa, 39
How She Discovered It: "In a Refinery29 story that I researched and wrote. Hi, hello, yes, I work here."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I have finally accepted that I'm a serial loser of sunglasses. After my favorite pair of Céline sunnies — that I owned all of one (!) year — disappeared into thin air, I said, never again. No longer will I spend money on an item that I can't trust myself to keep track of even if said item is perched on my head. These cat-eye sunnies are cheap and light. The lens quality is meh but they are so cute and fit every face that tries them on — even my own little head, as exhibited in this selfie with Amazon shades. If/when I lose these sunglasses I will buy another pair and feel good that the person who finds them will hopefully enjoy them too.
Gifiore Retro Cateye Sunglasses, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Travel Makeup Case
Rebecca, 29
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for a travel make up bag and a friend recommended this one."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I love the print, it's the perfect size and it keeps my make up safe (due to hard outside) and organized. It's also reasonably priced and makes for a great gift for girlfriends, family,. etc. "
Palm Trees & Pineapples Travel Makeup Case, $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Cotton Ruffle Socks
Ruby, 31
How She Discovered It: "I was browsing for interesting socks, like always! And am always on the hunt for high-cotton blends that don't feel cheapy."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I mostly wear loafers and oxfords, which I love pairing with skirts or cropped pants and kooky socks or colorful socks, and this six-pack of cute ankle socks was a no-brainer!"
MCool Mary Ankle Ruffle Socks (6 Pack), $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Retro '90s High-Cut One-Piece
Amanda, 28
How She Discovered It: "Read about it on Apple News."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I've been looking for the perfect high-cut/low-back swimsuit and never expected the one I finally like the most was from Amazon. And I looked at a lot and tried A LOT on. That's probably how this one found me. The algorithm knew I was on the hunt! The quality and fit are spot on and it looks cute paired with denim shorts too.
Dixperfect Retro High Cut Low Back One Piece, $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Diamond Wedding Ring
Kristyn, 29
How She Discovered It: "So this is a similar style ring - I can't find my exact ring. But, it was given to me on Christmas eve when I got engaged :) My main stone is 1.6 ctw "very good" quality diamond and i think was around 4k he never told me the exact amount."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "My husband and I both really enjoy deal shopping — it's one of our pastimes haha so he knew I'd have no issues with him getting a great deal on my ring — I just wanted to be married! It's an antique-style setting and really fits my style so I immediately fell in love with it. Once we got it appraised it was valued at a lot more than he paid — like 7k more! It came with an appraisal certificate that was already more than he paid but we took it to a reputable jeweler who went NUTS for it and appraised it even higher. Jewelers especially often ask me if its a family heirloom because they say it's beautifully crafted. I love it so much i choose to wear it on my right hand because I don't want a band taking any attention away from the details on the sides."
Dazzling Rock 10K-Gold 1CT Diamond Ring Set With Matching Band, $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
White Marble Ring-Holder
Sarah, 30
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for something on trend and unique to display my many rings. Something that was also stylish and looks good on my vanity."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This is one of those items that you didn't know you needed until you had one. I absolutely love that its made of solid marble. It feels good to hold and is an affordable way to add some marble accent to my home. I use it everyday to hold my engagement ring when I'm not wearing it. I've also gifted this many friends and they all loved it! It's a small and lovely gift that I've given for engagement parties, bridal showers, coworkers, etc."
Craft Monkees White Carrara Marble Ring Holder, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Selfie Tripod
Claire, 27
How She Discovered It: "Through my own research!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This tripod has changed my life and my social content game! There's no shame in snapping an outfit pic with a tripod when you live alone, and it also lets me make funny videos that bring me SO much joy!"
Fugetek Selfie Stick & Tripod, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Pearl Hairclips
Sasha, 29
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for cute, cheap hair clips after seeing an influencer wearing them."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Hair clips are all over Instagram right now and these are the perfect detail to get the look for an affordable price."
Hithop Artificial Pearl Barrettes, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Wig Tape
Katherine, 34
How She Discovered It: "Years ago when I was a fashion assistant, the stylist I was assisting used it on a photo shoot to keep shirts and makeshift hems in place."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This wig tape is cheaper, stronger, and more reliable than the traditional 'fashion tape.' Works like a charm to make sure blouses don't gape and garments stay in the right place when there's lots of movement on set. It's great for swim shoots too. It's one of my many secret weapons I keep stocked in my styling kit."
Vapon Topstick Clear Hairpiece Tape (1 Roll), $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Face-Mask Collection
Sally, 26
How She Discovered It: "Browsing around!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Less than 2 dollars per sheet mask. Plus they feel amazing after putting them in the fridge for a couple minutes."
Dermal Collagen Essence Full-Face Sheet Mask Set (24-Pack), $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Organic Cotton Maxi Pads
Andrea, 37
How She Discovered It: "I went to Amazon and typed in, 'organic cotton maxi pads,' and voila."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I wanted organic cotton pads that don't have any scent or extra chemicals. I also think they're more comfortable than that sort of plastic-y texture that can give me rash and just be plain gross. These are 100% organic, USDA-certified, non-GMO, and made in the USA without the use of toxins, pesticides, or synthetic chemicals. Also, I know I am a grown woman and like, who gives an F, but there is something appealing about getting a package of maxi pads delivered discreetly to your door than carrying it home in a flimsy see-through bag. Now that I know I like these, I ordered an economy pack so I don't have to worry about it for a while."
Rael Certified Organic Cotton Menstrual Pads, Pack of 2, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Cute Portable Mini Vacuum
Rebecca, 28
How She Discovered It: "I discovered it in the shuk while I was living in Tel Aviv. When I moved to NY I needed one for my new apartment so I searched on Amazon and voila! Now every person who comes to our apartment asks where it's from and we give them out as gifts. We probably have at least 5 of them stocked in our closet right now."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's just so useful! We keep it on our coffee table and use it at least once a night after we eat by the tv or have company over."
HONBAY Mini Table Dust Vaccum, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Heartburn Relief & Sleep Support Gummies
Tina, 30
How She Discovered It: "Found it on Amazon after searching for nighttime acid reflex / sleeping aid."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I suffer from both acid reflux and have a hard time falling asleep and this product seems to help a lot with both!"
Alka Seltzer Heartburn Relief + Sleep Support Gummies (Pack of 2), $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Glamorous Swimsuit
Colette, 28
How She Discovered It: "I spent longer than I'd like to admit looking for a cute black one piece. I read a ton of reviews and finally landed on this one."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Bathing suits are my least favorite thing to buy, but this one checks all the boxes. It's well made, comfortable, cost only $25 but looks at least twice as expensive, and most importantly I feel really good in it. It's the only bathing suit I want to wear for the rest of eternity."
Tempt Me One Piece Ruched Monokini Swimwear, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Soft Shag Rug
Colleen, 28
How She Discovered It: "I spent weeks looking for a blush colored rug that was high quality and fit my budget and finally stumbled upon this lovely rug!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's so soft, fluffy, and pretty and keeps my feet cozy and safe from my freezing hardwood floors. And you can't beat the price for such a large and high quality rug."
Safavieh California Premium Shag Area Rug (4' x 6'), $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Oribe Après Beach Wave & Shine Spray
Cara, 35
How She Discovered It: "I actually think it might have been through a Refinery beauty article."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's more of an expensive gem than a hidden gem, this stuff ain't cheap. But after trying so many other products, this is the one that really works. A lot of people pay top dollar to be in the Oribe good hair club, but, for me, snagging it off Amazon makes it feel a bit more budget because of those Prime shipping perks!"
Oribe Apres Beach Wave and Shine Spray, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Affordable Formal Dress
Arianna, 27
How She Discovered It: "I was going to a black tie wedding and didn't want to spend a lot of money on a dress, and I had an Amazon gift card so...I googled formal dresses on Amazon and found one with rave reviews. A lot of girls mentioned using it as a bridesmaid dress!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I only paid $40 for it, I got a lot of compliments on it AND have turned multiple people onto the same dress, so a lot of my friends own it as well."
Ever Pretty One Shoulder Long Dress, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
A Trendy Down Jacket
Ashleigh, 28
How She Discovered It: "On a social media feed."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It is the best winter coat I have ever had. It's warm enough for the cold winters and trendy enough for my hip Brooklyn neighborhood. I own the grey one and always get so many compliments on it. My first response is always 'Thanks! I got it on Amazon!'"
Orolay Women's Down Jacket , $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Portable Picnic Blanket
Sotheara, 25
How She Discovered It: "I was in need of a picnic blanket to protect my clothes from wet grass. Even on sunny days, I find that the grass is always damp enough to stain my clothes."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's tarp on one side and soft on the other. AND it turns into a crossbody for easy transportation. It also has some weight to it so it won't blow away when you're seaside. It makes outdoor picnics with my friends and family the perfect experience."
Oniva Outdoor Picnic Blanket Tote, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
#OldCeline-Esque Alphabet Pendant
Melissa, 38
How She Discovered It: "Googling: Phoebe Philo Old Celine Alphabet Letter Charm"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I wanted the Philo-era Céline alphabet charm since it came out a few years ago but it was just out of grasp in price, even for an item I knew I'd wear all the time. After Phoebe left and you could no longer buy it in stores my thirst for the necklace became insatiable. When hunting down my letter with the good intention of buying it from a resale site like eBay, or Vestaire, Amazon's witchy ways served up this *cough* very similar product. Since it was only $15, I talked myself into this naughty purchase reasoning that it was out of production. Anyway, it looks much better in person than in this photo and everyone including my friend who owns the real thing thinks it's Céline, until I guiltily tell them it's from Amazon."
Focal Look 18k Gold Plated Alphabet Jewelry Initial Necklace, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Travel Pack
Anna, 28
How She Discovered It: "Browsing through Amazon."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I travel all the time and I hate checking a bag. I am a strong believer of backpacking over rolling luggage and I was thrilled when I found this gem. It's the perfect carry on size, has so many pockets/compartments and is super cute in yellow. I always recommend it to people, especially those traveling to multiple countries!"
WASING Internal Frame Backpack with Rain Cover, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Weighted Blanket
Emily, 32
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for a weighted blanket and found it."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I was thrilled to find a weighted blanket under $100 in a cute color that matches my current bedroom scheme (I always have blue sheets, it helps me feel calm). I got the 48x72" 15 lbs blanket. The guide is pretty spot-on, in that it's perfect for one person (it won't cover your whole bed and it's really not supposed to at that size). The weight isn't overwhelmingly heavy and the bamboo fabric is soft, and breathable so I don't feel suffocated."
YnM Cooling Weighted Blanket, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Foldable Storage Bins
Kandyl, 23
How She Discovered It: "Randomly searching."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It’s made organizing my closet so much easier!"
DECOMOMO Foldable Storage Bin, Set of 3 (Large), $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
Unrefined Shea Butter
Mimi, 26
How She Discovered It: "Friend recommended."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It’s a perfect for moisturizer hair and body. ."
Better Shea Butter Unrefined Ivory Shea Butter, $, available at Amazon*June Hidden Gem
Jelly Sandals
Amelia, 31
How She Discovered It: "Daydreaming about re-owning a pair of these nostalgic sandals in adulthood, and knew the one place that where I would find such a random treasure...Amazon."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Like a lot of my friends, I've watched jelly sandals come in and out of style more than once. I'm ready for the next resurgence, and at $9.99, this is a fashion experiment that I can definitely afford to take!"
SNJ Retro Jelly Sandals, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Facial Cleansing Oil
Sasha, 31
How She Discovered It: "Got deep into the cleansing oil craze and went down an Amazon Prime rabbit hole to find the best buy."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This stuff is seriously just as good if not better than the Josie Maran one. It's bigger, less expensive, and I can order it to my doorstep next-day with Prime. My skin has never looked better and it's such a nourishing replacement for the harsher foaming washes I was using before that would dry out and irritate my skin."
DHC Deep Cleansing Oil, 6.7 fl. oz., $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Fresh Orchid Bouquet
Sarah, 39
How She Discovered It: "Searching for fresh flowers that were Prime eligible."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I had no idea Amazon sent fresh flowers. I’ve had good luck with KaBloom but the one time the flowers weren’t up to par, I called amazon and they sent a replacement. Bouquet which was beautiful."
KaBloom White Dendrobium Orchids With Vase (10 stems), $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Leather Passport Holder
Amanda, 27
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for a Christmas gift that I could give to all of my aunts."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It looks and feels great, and the marbled motif is very pretty. Because all of my family will be traveling for my wedding next year, this was a cute and fun way to thank the girls in our group."
Leminimo Leather Marble Passport Holder, $, available at Amazon*July Hidden Gem
COSRX Acne Master Patch
Christina, 23
How She Discovered It: "Reddit - r/skincare!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It heals a problem pimple overnight, not even kidding. Pop it onto a popped zit and in the morning... it will have sucked all of the infection out!!! It's a lifesaver. Also this 3-pack deal is such a good price for what you get."
CosRx Acne Pimple Master Patch (3 Pack), $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Lotion Self-Applicator
Bee, 28
How She Discovered It: "A coworker."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Nothing screams single life more than not being able to lotion your back."
Aquasentials Easy Lotion Applicator, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Mini Succulent Diffuser
Lou, 28
How She Discovered It: "During an internet deep-dive, searching for all things succulent themed."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I, unfortunately, am a green-thumbless millennial living in the fabulous age of Plant Queens — so, this little essential oil, reed diffuser that's shaped like a succulent is the perfect solution for a stylish desk accessory that I cannot kill."
Round A’round Cactus Room Diffuser, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Cooling Under-Eye Masks
Anna, 28
How She Discovered It: "Searching for allergy season essentials."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "These cooling gel strips are honestly my spring through summer life-savors when allergy season kicks in and my under-eyes start looking like something out of a zombie movie."
Skyn Iceland Hydro Cool Firming Eye Gels, 8 count, $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Handmade Rattan Clutch
Becky, 33
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for a round rattan bag (after just getting back from Paris and wanting every Parisian's I passed on the street) across a bunch of different websites, high and low. When I came on to Amazon, this bag was recommended to me in my rattan search and I ended up buying this instead. "
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It looks exactly like the more expensive versions!! I've worn it for 2 weddings and out a couple of times and it's very sturdy and easy to wear. You can't tell the difference between this and one that costs over $100."
Via Moi Round Rattan Shoulder Bag , $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Nose Wipes
Michelle, 36
How She Discovered It: "Facebook mom group."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "The name says it all. Boogie wipes have been a savior for my toddler's ENDLESS runny nose. The saline wipes very gently removes all the extra buildup from everyday sniffles. It also has soothing ingredients like aloe, chamomile, and vitamin e. I also use these myself and on the dog's tears. Good for cleaning off dirt too. Basically they're a catch all for gross stuff. Make sure you don't buy the grape scent and stick to unscented."
Boogie Wipes Unscented Soft Natural Saline Wet Tissues (Pack of 3), $, available at Amazon*April Hidden Gem
Flocked Blending Sponge
Leanne, 45
How She Discovered It: "Trial and error."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I like this blending sponge much more than the Beauty Blender. The shape is more comfortable for me to hold and apply and I prefer the texture. It's easy to clean and lasts."
Jane Iredale Flocked Sponge, 0.07 oz., $, available at Amazing Cosmetics*March Hidden Gem
Noise-Cancelling Headphones
Sam, 30
How She Discovered It: "From a friend."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Commuting with bluetooth headphones has always been critical for me, but these headphones take it a step further with noise cancelling technology. Whether I'm on the subway or a plane, I never have to worry about being agitated by the people around me."
Bose QuietControl 30 Wireless Headphones, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
LED-Light Baseball Cap
Mia, 31
How She Discovered It: "Amazon search: 'dog poop solutions.'"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I bought this as a present for my dad. He always walks our dog at night and the backyard and neighborhood is awfully dark. It's hard to hold a flashlight AND pick up dog poop, so this hat offers a very special solution. Dad loved it and so did Skippy."
UltraKey Hands-Free LED Light Baseball Cap , $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Soft Long-Sleeve Tee
Rose, 30
How She Discovered It: "I was browsing through Amazon and saw it."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It’s SUCH a good quality shirt for every day. It’s super soft and I wear it practically every day with leggings and it never stretches out or wears."
Amazon Essentials Women's Long-Sleeve T-Shirt, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Rap Coloring & Activity Book
Gabby, 29
How She Discovered It: "Through brute force and will power searching."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It was a Christmas gift for my fiancee. She's extremely Type A and has a hard time sitting still to watch a movie / TV, so this helps her settle down and watch with me."
Shea Serrano Bun B's Rapper Coloring and Activity Book, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Affordable Formal Clutch
Samantha, 32
How She Discovered It: "Looking for an evening bag for a wedding. "
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "The pictures don’t do it justice. It looks even better in person and I got a ton of compliments on it. I was having a hard time finding a bag that was relatively inexpensive and cute as a lot of evening bags tend to feel like they’re for prom. This one fit the bill and holds the essentials (key, phone, credit card, lipstick). "
P&R Triangle Rhinestone Clutch, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Crab-Shaped Multi-Tool Set
Alice, 24
How She Discovered It: "It was a gift."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This is one of the most random gifts I've ever received but I love it! I'm from Maryland and when I moved to NYC my mom gave me this little guy. I actually keep it on my desk at work and it comes in handy. I've also now gifted it a few times. There's other animals to choose from too."
Kikkerland Beechwood Crab Multi Tool, $, available at Amazon
Linen Jumpsuit
Franny, 29
How She Discovered It: "Searching for a stylish and flattering jumpsuit that I wouldn't feel so stitched up inside."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I love its breezy linen material and loose-fit/wide-leg style, perfect for layering this spring. And it came in a solid range of plus sizes!"
Yeokou Linen Wide Leg Jumpsuit, $, available at Amazon
A Padded Headband
Jen, 32
How She Discovered It: "I wanted a padded headband but wasn't sure about committing to the trend so I didn't want to spend too much."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It took a moment to get it — maybe about two weeks — so I was relieved when it came. In the end it was exactly what I wanted. It was good quality and packaged nicely and even came with a note from the seller based in the UK. I have a smaller head and it fits perfectly atop. It's exactly the look I was going for."
Pritties UK Black Satin Padded Headband, $, available at Amazon
Wooden Mosaic Puzzle
Linda, 28
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for the perfect baby gift for one of my most stylish (and picky) friends....something that the babe wouldn't grow out of, wasn't plastic, and looked one-of-a-kind."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This soft rainbow-colored block puzzle not only works as a special toy for the babe-to-be, but also as a beautiful decor accent in my friend's home too."
Grimm Mosaic Square Wooden Building Blocks, $, available at Amazon
Cozy Llama Slippers
Eva, 16
How She Discovered It: "I got them as birthday present."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "They are so cute (I mean come on, just look at them) and they're so comfy. For such a low price, they are good quality, the sizes are accurate, and best of all, they deliver to Ireland!"
Slumber Hut Novelty Llama Slippers, $, available at Amazon
Over-The-Knee Boots
Sheridan, 26
How She Discovered It: "I ordered these boots myself after watching a few YouTube video reviews. I will scour the internet for hours watching video reviews. These boots received nothing but great product reviews and recommendations."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I’m a personal style consultant. I had a client that wanted my recommendations for Black OTK boots that were comfortable, stylish and wouldn’t break the bank. These boots are spot-on and a dupe for any luxury designer OTK boot."
Kaitlyn Pan Microsuede High Heel Over The Knee Boots, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Pink Dinosaur Purse
Liz, 28
How She Discovered It: "I was searching for the perfect Valentine's Day gift for my roomie."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This mini-crossbody bag perfectly encapsulates her dual-personality and style traits: one part novelty-funny, the other part cute-chic. Also, just look at it."
MILATA Dinosaur Cross Body Bag, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Expert Kitchen Knife
Patricia, 28
How She Discovered It: "Google research."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I come from a family of high quality cooks/chefs, knives are the most important kitchen tool. Got this knife for my mom for Xmas and it is now one of her favorite knives."
DALSTRONG Japanese High-Carbon Sheath, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
All-Natural Charcoal Facial Cleanser
Katrina, 33
How She Discovered It: "A friend with beautiful skin."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's not that expensive and I've really noticed a difference in my skin."
Destiny Boutique Charcoal Facial Detox, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Stylish Coffee Table
Corrie, 27
How She Discovered It: "I was looking for coffee tables."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It holds a lot of stuff which is really useful in my tiny apartment. I can store things in it for my living room where I am lacking storage. It is also very clean and neat looking. The style goes perfectly with my west elm couch and looks much higher end than it is. "
ClosetMaid Rectangular Wood Coffee Table with Storage Shelves, $, available at Amazon*March Hidden Gem
Wooden Embroidery Hoops
Emily, 35
How She Discovered It: "I was instructed to purchase these for an embroidery workshop that I was organizing at my previous job."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "Sewing is like, the most ancient technology! And here are the tools for it, available in just a few clicks, at one of the world's most progressive shopping platforms."
Darice Wooden Embroidery Hoops, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
A Sonic Face Exfoliator
Caroline, 26
How She Discovered It: "Multiple friends recommended it, and after a quick search I found it was available on Prime."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I have pretty sensitive skin, so many rougher exfoliants or scrubs tend to tear it up — but now I can use my gentler cream and oil cleansers and still reap exfoliating benefits, thanks to the soft bristles and sonic vibrations. It's also really cute and I like to keep my bathroom shelf looking good because it's the kind of little joy that makes me happy."
Foreo Luna Mini 2 Facial Cleansing Brush, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
A Bacon Tuxedo Puzzle
Laurie, 28
How She Discovered It: "My boyfriend at the time only had two interests, bacon and puzzles. This is what I gave him for Valentine's Day."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "'Bacon Tuxedo' is the greatest phrase I ever heard and still is to this day."
Accoutrements Bacon Tuxedo Puzzle, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
A Cat-Shaped Chopstick Plate
Kate, 27
How She Discovered It: "Amazon searched, 'Cat Spoon Rest'"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "This is a chopstick rest plate, but I bought it for my mother to use as a coffee-stirring spoon rest. For my entire life she wakes up every morning, makes her coffee, stirs in sugar and cream, and leaves the spoon on the counter. It would then drip and leave a dried coffee blotch stain. For her birthday I decided to resolve this problem by making the solution super cute — this utensil rest resembles our childhood pet Calico cat, Molly. I upped the ante with this adorable cat-related spoon for her to stir her coffee with. She loved the gifts and to this day, whenever I visit my parents, their countertops are coffee-stain free."
Decole "HAPPY CAT DAY" CHOPSTICK REST PLATE, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
Plush Throw Blanket
Lizzy, 30
How She Discovered It: "Searching for large blankets to use while watching TV."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "It's the perfect size that covers my entire body, and it's super warm and cozy"
Tache Home Fashion Faux Fur with Sherpa Throw Blanket, $, available at Amazon*February Hidden Gem
A Hotdog Toaster
Sarah, 28
How She Discovered It: "Pretty sure I searched 'hot dogs pretty' in the Amazon search bar."
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "My little sister was super in to Instagramming food at the time (a la 'Food in the Air') and was on a specialty hot dog kick. I got her this toaster, along with a hot dog cookbook called 'WEINERS GONE WILD,' to step up her game."
Maxi-Matic Hot Dog Toaster Machine, 2-Slice, $, available at Amazon*May Hidden Gem
Elegant Evening Dress
Arianna, 27
How She Discovered It: "I was going to a black tie wedding and didn't want to spend a lot of money on a dress, and I had an Amazon gift card so...I googled formal dresses on Amazon and found one with rave reviews. A lot of girls mentioned using it as a bridesmaid dress!"
Why It's A Hidden Gem: "I only paid $40 for it, I got a lot of compliments on it AND have turned multiple people onto the same dress, so a lot of my friends own it as well."
MUXXN Elegant Mermaid Evening Dress, $, available at Amazon
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The best part about getting dressed this time of year is that you can wear just about anything in your closet. You're no longer limited to the most lightweight floral maxi dress you own because you'll sweat through anything else (paired with sneakers, because you'll slide right out of sandals). The cooler temps mean you can throw on the vintage jeans you haven't worn since May, paired with any blouse and your favorite peep-toe mules or slides. The only thing that might need an update is your toenail polish.
For most of us, that means taking a cotton ball and polish remover to our chipping polish — be it the white or baby blue you loved in July — and popping on a more autumnal shade. If you're not sure what that should be, the seasoned nail pros break down the best pedicure shades for fall 2019, ahead.
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Creamy Taupe
When it comes to the first pedicure of the season, sometimes subtle shades feel refreshing. "Barely-there nude pedicures were extremely popular in L.A. this summer," says nail pro and Olive & June founder Sarah Gibson Tuttle. "The shade RP from our fall collection is the perfect way to transition from pale pinks and whites to slightly darker, taupe shades."
Olive & June Olive and June Nail Polish in RP, $, available at Olive & June
Amethyst
When you want something romantic, but pink feels too soft, a glossy amethyst purple is the move. Essie global educator Rita Remark says one of her favorite polishes in the category is Violet Baroque by YSL. "It has these gorgeous blackened jewel tones perfect for the season," she says.
Yves Saint Laurent Beauty YSL La Laque Couture Nail Polish in Violet Baroque, $, available at Barneys New York
OPI Infinite Shine OPI Nail Polish in Things I’ve Seen in Aber-green, $, available at Ulta Beauty
Burnt Orange
According to nail pro and Jin Soon founder Jin Soon Choi and editorial manicurist Betina Goldstein, orange will be trending for fall. "This polish, called Koi, is the perfect transitional shade because it's not too bright, and shares shade similarity to the autumn leaves," Choi says.
We've heard predictions that red-wine burgundy will be a big manicure trend (Kaley Cuoco just endorsed it), so it's no surprise that the color will be seen on toenails, too. "Nars Chinatown is classic, sophisticated burgundy — the perfect shade for matching manicures and pedicures," says Choi.
Navy Blue
The best part about a shiny navy-blue pedi is that it looks great on every skin tone, which is one of the reasons it will be trendy this fall, Choi tells us. The other reason is that the deeper jewel tone feels moody and chic, but more dimensional than black.
OPI Blue Infinite Shine Collection, $, available at Ulta Beauty
Slate Gray
A soft, creamy gray will be on trend for fingernails, and darker slate gray will be the pedicure to match. "I love this CND Asphalt shade for a dark-gray pedicure," says Choi. "It's a little unexpected — a grunge or hipster vibe — but also feels sleek and sophisticated at the same time."
CND Vinylux Long Wear Nail Polish, $, available at Target
Black Ink
Remark tells us that you can't go wrong with a full-shine black pedi for fall. "I love a black pedicure because it's bold, but will also work with whatever you're wearing," she explains. "Essie's Licorice is a glossy patent-leather black that's perfect."
Essie essie Nail Polish in Licorice, $, available at AmazonLike this post? There's more. Get tons of beauty tips, tutorials, and inspiration on the Refinery29 Pinterest page — we'll see you there!- Deep Violet. Blackened jewel tones are perfect for the season. "violet baroque" by YSL
- Ivory. Skintone matching nudes can wash you out. You want to reach for something with contrast, ivory does the trick! "lighten the mood" by essie
- Deep rad. A dark red is the quintessential cool weather hue for nails. "rashida" by ZOYA
- Magenta. Take your summer neon pink and add some depth and some purple and you have a perfect autumn bright for pedi's. "no. 86" by cote
—essie’s Global Lead Educator, Rita Remark
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As an industry, beauty is leaning further and further into the “personalized.” That said, Black women have been historically underserved in this realm, particularly when it comes to hair and skin care. That’s precisely why Birchbox and Unbothered, R29’s editorial destination for Black millennial women, teamed up to go directly to the source and find out what Black consumers actually need. The result: two specially curated beauty kits.
R29’s insights team first collected data from focus groups and surveys of more than 1,500 Black women. Then, Birchbox and the Unbothered team used these insights to guide the direction of the “It’s Your Crown” Hair Kit and “Stay Radiant” Skin Kit (both $38) to give consumers exactly what they said they’re looking for: an efficient way of discovering top-shelf hair and skin products — while supporting businesses developed by Black beauty and grooming professionals. Across both kits, 50% of products are from are from Black-founded or Black-owned brands, while the Black, queer illustrator-designer Loveis Wise was commissioned to create the product cards included in each box.
This partnership marks Birchbox’s ongoing effort to build a more inclusive assortment by investing in Black-owned brands; Birchbox is in discussion with these brands, and in particular the ones developed by Black beauty and grooming professionals, on partnership opportunities in 2020.
So at every stage, this collaboration can truly be called “consumer-first.” And it’s one that fully — and finally — meets its intended audience’s needs. To find out more about the collab, click here.
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Whether you're blessed with naturally voluminous lashes or not, a set of lengthy or dramatic falsies can add a ton of glamour to any makeup look in a matter of seconds. But despite the growing number of people adding false lashes to their beauty routines, the common misconception surrounding them is that they're difficult to apply or look too obvious.
There are, however, lots of different types of false lashes that can be tailored to exactly what you're looking for, whether it's something super-natural or the total opposite. It's all about picking the right pair and knowing how to apply them. Wondering where to start? We've rounded up the best false lashes and a few tips on how to wear them, ahead.
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For Long Wear: Lashify Starter Kits
If you're a fan of extensions, but don't always have time to go to the salon, this DIY customized kit was made for you. Somewhere between lash extensions and faux individuals, these last for a whole week. If that's not enticing enough, celebrity makeup artists have raved about how natural they look, since they actually go underneath your natural lashes.
For Natural-Looking Volume: NARS Numéro 6 Eyelashes
NARS has a great option for those looking to add some heft to their lashes without weighing them down. Trace some lash glue (we like Duo's Dark Lash Adhesive) along the band of the lash, and wait for 20 to 30 seconds until the glue becomes tacky. Then place the lash on your eyelid as close to your lashline as possible, and voilà, instant volume.
If you're after a fluttery, flattering look, these falsies will do the trick. With a lighter layer of lashes on the inner corner, the subtle fanning effect offers up a natural look that's full and sexy.
Eylure Texture No. 117, $, available at Ulta Beauty
For Intense Fullness: Ardell Double Up #203 Black False Eyelashes
"Although [these] lashes are dramatic, the band is thin, so they are comfortable," says professional makeup artist Ricky Wilson. "I trim them from the outside and they look beautiful for a stronger lash."
Pro tip: If your lashes start lifting throughout the day, grab a tube of mascara and dot on a tiny glob of the product, which acts as a temporary bond, to your false lashes, then press your false lashes and natural lashes together. This will keep your falsies from falling off before you get home.
Ardell Double Up #203 Black False Eyelashes, $, available at beauty plus salon
For Influencer-Level Lashes: House of Lashes Iconic Lite
For days when you're feeling extra, IG-famous brand House of Lashes has you covered. These dramatic strips have been featured in the tutorials of vloggers like Desi Perkins, Carli Bybel, and Karen Sarahi Gonzalez (a.k.a iluvsarahii).
House of Lashes Iconic Lite, $, available at House of Lashes
For Sparse Lashes: Alcone Company False Eyelashes
Makeup artist Elisa Flowers recommends Alcone's 386 lashes for those looking for a minimal yet feathery effect. "The delicate strip has thin clusters of lashes spaced evenly apart," she says. "[It's] perfect for applying to the finest of eyelashes."
Alcone Alcone Company False Eyelashes, $, available at Alcone Company
For Lashes That Look Real: EyLure Naturalites Natural Volume Eyelashes
So lightweight and natural-looking, by the time someone comments on how full your lashes look, you'll forget you even had them on. Bonus: You can score three pairs for under $10.
Eylure EyLure Naturalites Natural Volume Eyelashes, $, available at Target
For Subtle Definition: Sephora Luxe False Lash
For those looking for a hassle-free approach to falsies, individuals are definitely the way to go; if you lose a cluster or two, it won't ruin your look. Wilson likes using a mixture of short and medium lengths directly on his clients' natural hairs because they blend seamlessly while providing wispy volume.
For The Opposite Of Subtle Definition: Huda Beauty Faux Mink Lash Collection
There's nothing about "faux mink" that sounds remotely subtle, and we love it. And although the falsies look unnatural, the texture of the lashes are nearly undetectable from your real ones — they're that soft.
Huda Beauty Faux Mink Lash Collection, $, available at SephoraIf you want to play somewhere between subtle and mega drama, these medium volume lashes are the perfect middle ground. And there's even an added bonus of an eyeliner effect, in the event that you haven't mastered the cat-eye just yet.
Blinking Beauté Premier Silk Lash Collection, $, available at SephoraFor Major Drama:
Velour's cruelty-free mink lashes are also staples in Wilson's kit. "I normally use these for clients who don't mind a heavy lash for a very special occasion," he says.
Velour Lashes Rich And Fluffy, $, available at Velour Lashes
For Major Drama: Kiss Lash Couture Triple Push-Up, Teddy
Think of this as a push-up bra for your eyes. This collection brings you the design of three lashes all in one so that you get volume, length, and curl — and it probably costs less than your go-to Seamless order.
Kiss Lash Couture Triple Push-Up, Teddy, $, available at Ulta Beauty
For Adding Length: MAC Cosmetics 33 Lash
Flowers loves MAC's 33 lashes because the tapered clusters bring attention to the center of the eye. And because of the clear band, they're nearly undetectable on the lid.
MAC Cosmetics 33 Lash, $, available at MAC Cosmetics
For Making The Eyes Look Larger: Trish McEvoy Lashes
"Half lashes are a nice alternative to a full strip of eyelashes," says Flowers. Simply place them toward the outer corners for an eye-opening effect.
Trish McEvoy Lashes, $, available at Neiman MarcusFor Control Freaks
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Fall is one of those extreme-festive seasons that overwhelms the senses (sights, tastes, and smells all included). And because smell is the strongest of all the senses, it's tough to live our best autumn lives engulfed in a cloud of over-the-top fragrances. To avoid that fate this year, we hunted down the top-rated candles filled with only the softest and coziest fall scents — NOT the ones that smell like a PSL fever dream.
The glowing glass votives ahead hold only reviewer nose-approved autumn aromas, from falling leaves to wood fires and sophisticated (subtle!) pumpkin spices. Don't live in fear of the season's infamous scent explosions — instead, celebrate all the evocative sweater-wearing, red wine-sipping, and apple-picking notes it has to offer.
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A top-rated bestseller on Anthropologie, this seasonal stunner from Capri Blue will make your space smell like a mix of green apples, fir, pine needles, white birch, cedar, vetiver, and musk. As one reviewer says, "Smells like I have a real wood fire going with a fresh cut tree in my house!"
Capri Blue Anthropologie Blue Fir & Firewood Jar Candle, $, available at Anthropologie
Handmade in France, this luxury candle infuses the enticing scents of fire, iron, black raspberry, wood, and papyrus — resulting in an aroma that one reviewer describes as, "one of those fragrances that you come back and keep sniffing...This smells like the woods and a campfire but also it smells high end - maybe it is what a rich person would smell like if they went camping - in any event it is woody, smokey, fresh and earthy all at the same time...you must smell in person, it's like nothing else."
Byredo Apocalyptic scented candle, $, available at Net-A-Porter
"This is my favorite candle scent ever! It smells amazing and instantly cozies up any space," one rave reviewer says of this bestselling amber votive filled with hand-poured, sweet clementine and creamy honey-scented wax.
Cost Plus World Market Clementine Honey Apothecary Jar Candle, $, available at Cost Plus World Market
It totes a premium price tag, but with 4.7 out of 5 stars on Bloomingdales this spicy autumn scent in a hand-blown and amber-tinted glass container is worth the seasonal investment. As one reviewer gushed: "This is one of my all time favorite candles from Diptyque. It has a really nice woody, spice scent that is beautiful in autumn and winter. I really like the beautiful colored glass of the bigger jars, makes it even more special when its out on display. I find that even when the candle isn't lit you can smell it faintly in a room which I really like."
Diptyque Ambre Scented Candle, Colored Glass Jar, $, available at Bloomingdale's
The praise for this stylish votive — filled with hand-poured soy and coconut wax and scented with an autumnal blend of sandalwood, amber, and moss notes— is lofty. As one reviewer put it: "[I] Cannot say enough good things about this candle. I have raved about it to so many people and absolutely intend to buy more. The scent throw is impressive and the packaging is exceptional. This product is such a great value for money!"
Otherland Rattan Candle, $, available at Otherland
This luxury candle — filled with notes of pine to cedar, ash oak, and birch wood — as one Amazon reviewer frankly put it, "really does smell like a wood fire."
D.S. & Durga Portable Fireplace Candle, $, available at Need Supply
One Anthropologie shopper says the unique blend of scents like balsam fir, fig leaf, and sandalwood has made this candle her new favorite: "I love the quality and how it fills my entire room up with an amazing scent. I'll definitely be buying more!"
Roen Amber Jar Candle, $, available at Anthropologie
From Warm Patchouli to Smoked Amber and Salted Sage, these black-glass votives are filled with scented soy-wax that reviewers call, "Literally the best candle!" from unique-sturdy packaging to overall amazing smell.
Urban Outfitters Parker Collection Candle, $, available at Urban Outfitters
Crafted from soy wax infused with pumpkin and herb fragrance oil, one repeat purchaser describes this candle as a, "Great fall candle," that has, "such a soft pumpkin/spice/warm scent without being overwhelming."
Linnea's Lights Linnea’s Lights Candle, Pumpkin, $, available at Shop Terrain
This frosted-amber candle that reviewer describe as, "masculine and very fall-ish," totes glowing praise from, "The best smelling candle I've ever owned," to, "A great smell that is just right. Not too spicy and not too sweet-floral."
Hearth & Hand with Magnolia Container Candle Frosted Amber, $, available at Target
This hot cider and cinnamon-scented candle is handmade in the U.S. with premium fragrance oils, soy wax, and a cotton wick — it also boasts over 2,000 reviews on Etsy with fall-obsessed customers raving, "I’m so happy I purchased the Hello Fall candle. Smells amazing, just like Fall, and beautiful jar. The shipping was lightning speed, and [the seller] Melissa was super helpful with my questions. I also love that this candle is handmade with soy wax. I can’t wait for Fall!"
SweetWaterDecor Hello Fall Candle 9oz, $, available at Etsy
LAFCO created the pumpkin spice candle to end all pumpkin spice candles — as one reviewer glowingly put it: "The LAFCO Pumpkin Pomander Candle is my go-to candle from October through December. It's fragrance fills our house with the most amazing pumpkin fragrance; it's like I've been baking pumpkin pies 24/7! The fragrance is crisp and does not have a heavy feel as some candle fragrances do. I would highly recommend this candle; it invites happiness and comfort into your home!"
Lafco Pumpkin Pomander Candle 15.5 oz, $, available at Bloomingdale's
According to one happy customer, this candle is beautiful "and smells divine." It's scented with citrusy notes of seagrass and green mandarin with added heather, amber, and sand for that crisp but warm fall feeling.
Oliver Bonas Seagrass & Amber Metallic Scented Candle, $, available at Oliver Bonas
Infused with notes of chai spices, pumpkin, vanilla, amber, resin, and sandalwood, reviewers attest that this fall-essential candle is simply, "amazing." One sensitive-sniffer went so far as to leave the following detailed praise: "When it comes to scented candles, a little can go a long way. It may be that I have a sensitive nose so it is important that a candle complements the mood/atmosphere and not become something distracting. This candle has a lovely and subtle aroma that is relaxing and soothing. I like to use it when I am studying, reading a book, or decompressing after a long week (works even better with a glass of nice red wine). Highly recommended."
Welcome toTravel Diaries, a Refinery29 series where we tag along as real women embark on trips around the world and track theirtravel expenses down to the last cent. Here, we offer a detailed, intimate account of when, where, and how our peers spend their vacation days and disposable income: all the meals, adventures, indulgences, setbacks, and surprises.
This week’s travel diary: A 33-year-old product designer tours Ireland with her boyfriend and his sister on a road trip that starts and ends in Dublin.
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Age: 33 Occupation: Product Designer Salary: $87,500 Travel Companions: Boyfriend, T., and his sister, K. Annual Number Of Vacation Days: 15
Hometown: Los Angeles, CA Trip Location: Ireland (part of a bigger trip that also includes Italy and France) Trip Length): 2 weeks Travel Companion Number of Vacation Days: 0 or 365, however you look at it — he was laid off in January
Transportation Costs: We booked LAX to Dublin for $812.28 (per person, me and my boyfriend T. traveled together on the flight) and were brought to the airport by our friend, J. No charge! We had a layover in Paris for a few hours before getting to Dublin. We didn’t check luggage; carry-ons, always!
In Dublin, we rented a car because we planned on visiting a new city in Ireland every night for five nights. (Well, four cities, because we did Dublin twice.) It was $117 per person (split three ways) before we left for the trip.
From Dublin to Florence (or next destination, not included in this diary), we booked flights for $228.50 per person and had a layover in Amsterdam.
Total: $1,157.78
Accommodations Costs: Our first hotel in Dublin, the Temple Bar Hotel, was $331.58 total; $110.53 per person. Then in Galway, we stayed at the Forster Court Hotel, $155.99 total; $52 per person. In Cork we stayed at Hotel Isaacs, and T. paid for it with Expedia points. In Kilkenny, we stayed at the Kilford Arms Hotel for $107.39 total; $35.79 per person. Then when we returned to Dublin, we stayed at the Abbey Hotel, $153.61 total; $51.20 per person.
Total: $249.52
Miscellaneous pre-vacation spending: Gel manicure: $50 Pedicure: $27 New dresses and shirt: $141 Makeup wipes and travel makeup remover: $8 Roll-up water bottles to refill: $14 “Litter box” and box cutter (I built a makeshift litter box to make it easier on my friend who is taking the cat; it’s a Rubbermaid tote with a hole cut in the top. Almost cut my hand off doing it but it’s so much cleaner for her): $10 Snacks to leave at my cat sitter’s as a treat for her, the sitter: $10 Advil, stomach relief stuff (traveling blows up my stomach): $14 International data: $60 (paid by my nervous father) for 1GB of data and unlimited text messages
Total: $274
Miscellaneous post-vacation spending Cat sitter (it’s my friend who takes her into her own house). It’s a $15 a day but I added a little extra to make it an even number: $250
Car rental extras: fuel, GPS, insurance (charged once we were home in LA): $115 each person.
Total: $365
Day One
6:00 a.m. – It’s my first day off in forever! I’m beyond pumped to have the next two weeks off with no work obligations. I work from Michigan once a month for a week to help my dad, who was recently diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease, so I get “time off” from LA, where I live, but I have to work the whole time so it’s not really a vacation. I get up early, stuff some food in my mouth so I don’t get coffee anxiety, make a Nespresso, and go for a walk with my boyfriend, T. It’s one of our favorite morning rituals. We talk excitedly about the day and our impending flight that night. We are going to road trip around Ireland with his sister K. for five days before touring other parts of Europe to meet T.’s family and do more traveling.
9:00 a.m. – I run around finishing packing. T. had already packed two weeks ago along with his entire family (they’re planners) and I’m more of a relaxed vacationer and packer. I pack my favorite backpack for traveling as full as it can be. I know I won’t wear half of the shit in the bag, but of course, I can’t bring myself to take anything out.
11:00 a.m. – T goes with his friend to see Avenger’s End Game again as I pack up the cat to bring her to my friend’s place for the next two weeks. She loves my kitty and I can’t express how thankful I am that she cares for the cat, in her own home, when I’m away for long trips. Of course, I pay her but the peace of mind is worth any amount of money. My cat gets lonely and crazy when she’s alone too long so this helps.
12:00 p.m. – Sob, I stop procrastinating and bring the cat to my friend’s. I already miss her. I bring along some of my friend’s favorite treats as well and leave them on the counter as a bonus thank you gift. The cat immediately hides under the bed (my friend is at work) and I try to find her for one last pet, but it’s no use. I yell to her that I love her, because I’m insane, and lock her in the apartment. I head home to finish packing.
3:00 p.m. – I unplug everything in the apartment and hide my laptops because I’m that person. K. gets home with our airport ride, our friend J. We pack up the car and fight LA traffic to get to LAX. Our flight isn’t until 9:00 p.m. but we have lounge access and we don’t want J. to have to be in traffic at rush hour on a Friday. We trade airport rides with him for free because all three of us travel a lot. It’s nice!
5:00 p.m. – We’re through TSA (Pre-check! Do it!) and already lounging. T. has a Chase Sapphire Reserve and it includes a Priority Pass that lets him bring a guest to anything the Priority Pass includes, which in this case, is a lounge. We grab drinks and snacks and sit outside on the “balcony” overlooking the international terminal. T.’s brother and his fiancée get to the airport and lounge with us. We are all stoked. It doesn’t feel real! (We’ll meet up with them in Florence after our Ireland trip; they’re going to other cities first.)
6:30 p.m. – T.’s brother and his fiancée have an 8:00 p.m. flight so they want to do real dinner at P.F. Chang’s (also included for free with Priority Pass for up to $30 a person). We all order: I obviously get chicken lettuce wraps and listen to some drama with TSA because an employee of the restaurant apparently badged into the terminal but has not badged out yet though his shift is over. We strain to hear everything going on as the police have shown up, but in the end, they discover the employee is at home and that his badge just must not have worked on the way out. We finish our meal and get our fortune cookies. Mine is “You will soon discover that love is everything.” Oh, really? We all pay for the tip ($20, not included in Priority Pass) and I throw in the last of the cash I have in my purse. Next stop: Europe and euros! $7
9:00 p.m. – We board and settle into our seats. We’re in the last row, which is perfect because it’s two seats instead of three and it reclines really far for a coach seat. I take half a Xanax because I hate flying (but love traveling) and am prescribed it solely for flights. Next stop: layover in Paris! Everything is included in our flight so we don’t spend any money.
Daily Total: $7
Day Two
4:50 p.m. – Landed in Paris! Thank god I took that Xanax because we had maybe one of the most turbulent flights I’ve ever been on. I don’t get motion sickness and even I started to feel sick. We slept a good amount on the flight, however, and I got to rewatch one of my favorite movies, Bridget Jones’s Diary.
6:00 p.m. – We finally made it through customs and re-scanned our bags, which took forever because we had to walk a long way, then an American woman was demanding to speak to a “manager” at security because they wouldn’t let her into our terminal to shop because she didn’t have a ticket for those gates. She was also my age, which is disheartening. Just don’t be a dick, everyone. Our next flight to Dublin isn’t until 9:00 p.m., so we go in search of drinks.
6:30 p.m. – We get Champagne to celebrate arriving in Europe ($20.41 for my glass) and I stop by Ladurée for macarons ($9.45). We have two Ladurées in LA but I heard they’re not as good as in France. Maybe it’s the placebo effect, but they do taste better! We aren’t in the right terminal for the lounge included with T.’s Priority Pass, which is a bummer, but we find comfy seats and park there, reading and eating macarons until we need to board our flight. $29.86
8:00 p.m. – I decide I’m hungry and in need of caffeine, so I stop at Pret A Manger for two cappuccinos, beet chips, and a chickpea, hummus, and feta cup. I record all my purchases in Tripcoin, which is awesome and does conversions (so does my credit card – I have a Chase Sapphire Preferred and I set it up to send me a text message every time an international charge posts). T. doesn’t have a job right now, so I plan to cover as much as I can for him too in terms of small items like cappuccinos, but we split most of all the bigger purchases and use Splitwise to keep track. $16.49
9:00 p.m. – T.’s sister, K., is at the bar in Dublin on WiFi and is impatiently texting us to hurry up and get there because she’s four drinks deep and ready to party. Our flight is slightly delayed, but we finally take off for the short trip to Ireland.
10:15 p.m. – We made it! Good Lord, I have to pee. We have to get to the car rental counter by 11:00 p.m. so we haul ass to get there, but I duck into a bathroom, yelling at T. to go ahead. Afterward, I try to find him in the place I assume he’s at – the off-site car rental – so I start to get on a shuttle. Luckily, the car shuttle driver is very nice and says the counters are still open inside so I should check there first. That would’ve sucked. He walks me in and I find T. finishing up getting our car. I go to the bank ATM while he finishes and I take out a few hundred euros. My credit union covers all ATM fees up to $15 and has great conversion rates, so I’m the designated cash person. I pay a $4 fee, to be reimbursed at the end of the month. We have to add insurance and a GPS to the car, so I will owe more for the car later. The Enterprise employee tells us excitedly that he got us a Skoda, and we don’t know what that is, but we thank him and go find our car.
11:00 p.m. – The Skoda is just a nice, roomy four-door sedan which we have no feelings about either way. T. is the first who is going to attempt to drive on the left side of the road on the right side of the car, and I will admit, my anxiety is pissing him off. I’m a backseat driver who is technically in the driver’s seat (if we were in America) and it’s all a little nerve-wracking. We pay one toll on the way into Dublin. We make it to our hotel, but can’t find the parking lot and there’s people everywhere. We are staying on Temple Street, which was possibly a mistake. I run inside our hotel to grab K. and ask where we should park. We finally find the lot, park, and get to our room. Quick change, and out the door to get drinks and explore the area! $3.40
12:00 a.m. – This street is hopping. We find a bar called Oliver St. John playing live music and I grab the first round of drinks. ($24.38) I got a Guinness. I had to! It’s so packed in the bar, and there are people from so many different countries there. (We know this because the singer calls out approximately 20 countries and people scream back at the mention of every one.) K. and I get very excited when they play the Scottish song 500 Miles by The Proclaimers. We dance, K. gets hit on by nearly every dude there, and T. buys us another round of drinks. K. doesn’t want anymore as she had a head start, but as her big brother, T. insists we do a shot. It is gross. We move onto another bar. $24.38
1:00 a.m. – Next bar playing live music. We meet guys from NYC (who we initially did not want to talk to and told we were from Canada) but they ended up being very nice and one is very interested in K. It turns out he and I technically worked for the same company for a while and discuss mergers. Super exciting Ireland bar talk. The guys buy us all drinks, T. buys them all drinks, K. buys us drinks, we dance more and before we know it, the bar is closing.
2:30 a.m. – T. exchanges numbers with the guys because they’re road-tripping also. We know we won’t see them again. K. and I bolt to the hotel room because we’re starving. There’s no food open late here! Or really, we are just too drunk and lazy to find it. We hit the lobby to buy Pringles and beer and I get a Smirnoff Ice to ice T. because drunk, and I apparently think that joke is still funny 10 years later. We eat the Pringles but 100% don’t need the beer, so it sits unfinished as we get ready for bed and crash. I pay for the stuff because it was definitely all my idea. $23.81
Daily total: $97.94
Day Three
9:00 a.m. – We wake up after a fitful night of sleep. Time changes and drinks. We all shower, get ready, and repack. We debate exploring some of Dublin, but we’ll be back here in a few days so we instead decide to check out to get breakfast and make our way to Galway. We bring our stuff to the car (minus T.’s and K.’s backpacks, which both have their laptops in them) and then wander to find food.
11:00 a.m. – We eat breakfast and it’s pretty amazing. I’m happy to have something besides Pringles and airport food. I get a smoked salmon platter and coffee for both me and T. He also gets a traditional Irish breakfast (beans, blood sausage, the works!) and K. gets fish and chips. Breakfast of champions. $23.75
12:00 p.m. – We pay for parking ($6.80 per person – we’re splitting everything evenly, for the most part, and have a Splitwise group for the three of us). We set the GPS to Galway and T. drives us. K. and I both love My Favorite Murder so we relisten to the Dublin live episode on the way, for theming. We go through a few tolls that I pay for ($4.53) and watch the scenery go by. K. is out and sleeping in the backseat. T., who gets really tired while driving, asks me to drive after a little while. Here we go. It is pretty terrifying at first, but I think it makes me an even better driver having to pay 10,000 percent attention. The worst part? Switching lanes and making sure you’re over far enough. It’s crazy how much driving we do by feel and what we are used to. Both T. and K. are passed out so I drive alone for 1.5 hours, switching to Janelle Monae’s “Dirty Computer” album to keep me entertained. We arrive in Galway! $11.33
2:00 p.m. – A nice woman gives us her parking pass so we don’t need to pay for parking in our lot. We walk to the hotel and check-in. There was a mixup with the reservation so they have to charge us extra for the room. Make sure you note the correct number of people staying in the room! We get up to our room and it seems that a fuse is out, because no lights turn on. I call the front desk, who amaze me when they tell me you put your key in the box by the door to activate the lights! Who knew. Not me. I swear I’ve traveled before, everyone. $13.60
3:00 p.m. – We wander around Galway. I love this city. It’s a cute seaside town. We stop for a Smithwick’s beer. K. passes on the beer, so I just get one for me and T. and a Diet Coke for myself. ($13.28) We continue wandering post-beer and stop in the Galway Cathedral. I put $5.67 in as a donation for all of us to visit the cathedral, and I light a candle for $1.14. I always pay to light a candle in every church I go in – I’m not Catholic, but I really like this. I usually light a candle for my mom, who passed away two years ago from complications of early-onset dementia. The cathedral is beautiful and on our way out, we pay to use the restroom ($1.14). $21.23
5:00 p.m. – We continue wandering by the water and shop a little. I want a wool sweater but it’s $69.90 and it’s a little steep for me. I get a wool hat instead for winter, because LA winters are no joke, lol ($22.40). T. buys a Celtic cross for his mom’s birthday in a week. T. is also set on sending “drunk postcards” so I get some with stamps. ($13.60). We decide we’re hungry and pop in an old bar called 1520 Bar. It’s so cute and I get an amazing chowder ($9.01). We continue wandering and I buy a cappuccino for me and a latte for T. ($6.80). We decide to go back to the hotel to rest for a bit. $51.81
8:00 p.m. – We head back out and go to An Pucan, a bar nearby. We get drinks and sit outside, though it’s a little chilly. I get a Tullamore dew and spiced orange ginger beer, which is too sweet for me ($7.94). We decide we’re starving so we go in search of food, but everyone has stopped serving food already. We just want some garlic bread! (It’s on the menu everywhere in Ireland, including at Subway.) We try three different bars and nearly give up, but a Mexican Chipotle-style place is still open until 10:00 p.m. I effectively get a Chipotle burrito bowl but it’s way better here ($15.19). We go back to the hotel to eat and go to bed watching the Graham Norton Show. Will Smith is on and damn, Will as the Genie in “Aladdin” is goddamn terrifying. $23.13
Daily Total: $144.85
Day Four
9:00 a.m. – Up, pack, go down in search of food. A restaurant across the street called Jungle Cafe is just opening. I get a flat white and a smoked salmon croissant. ($13.60) It is one of the best flat whites I’ve ever had and the smoked salmon is also amazing. T. got overnight oats that are incredible as well. Highly recommend! We plan out our trip for the day at breakfast. We are heading to Cork, but are hitting the Cliffs of Moher on the way. We also find a cute fishing village to stop at called Doolin and a castle called Dunguaire that’s on the way, too. We head to the hotel to grab our things and go. $13.60
9:30 a.m. – We ask the front desk people on our way out where we could possibly watch the second to last episode of Game of Thrones, since it aired the night before in America. They tell us a bar nearby will air it that night at like 9:00 p.m. We’re leaving for Cork so we are bummed we can’t see it, but we figure we’ll find a way. We walk to the car, stopping to grab gum and water on the way, and T. drives us to our first stop, Dunguaire. $6.80
10:00 a.m. – We stop at the castle and it’s beautiful, but not open. I have to pee and contemplate peeing in the bushes. This is pretty typical as I’m in a constant state of having to pee. Everything’s fine, my bladder just hates me and I love water. We stop at a gas station and K. buys a 70% dark chocolate Kit Kat, which is pretty great. We continue to Doolin.
11:00 a.m. – Doolin is such a cute little town! We go into some shops and T. buys a plaque of his last name. He has a very Irish name (including his first and middle) and he’s excited about the plaque. We head out towards the Cliffs of Moher on beautiful one-lane farm roads and luckily no one ever is coming the other way. I’m not sure where we’d go? Into the weeds, I suppose, and hope for no stone walls.
12:00 p.m. – We arrive at the cliffs and pay for entry, though K. is $1 less with her student discount. (She just graduated from the same grad program I went to! So proud!) The booth attendant is so happy and says: “It’s a beautiful day! All Irish boys are happy on a sunny day.” This seems scientifically unprovable, but cute nonetheless. The cliffs are incredible and we do luckily have a beautiful, clear, sunny day. We walk all the way to the end, which takes about an hour, and T. makes me mad with a picture that he takes with K. where he pretends to be falling off the cliff. I told him that he was going to become a statistic and walked away. They were fine, but I was displeased. I’m not really a risk-taker, if you cannot tell. After that, however, he was much more respectful of my cliff’s edge rules (as in, stay far away from it). Of course, as we get to the end of the cliff, I have to pee and almost pee behind a stone wall with MS13 graffiti on it. Instead, we hoof it back to the entrance where there are co-ed bathrooms that work beautifully. Can’t we do this everywhere? $8.69
2:00 p.m. – We head to the car and make our way to Cork. I’m a little verklempt on the ride because we didn’t see a puffin. I had a wish to see a puffin right by me on the cliffs (impossible) and then I was going to put it on Instagram with the caption, “Not now, Irish Puffin,” but alas, no puffins. We are hungry for lunch so stop at a little restaurant called The Good House. It is not only good, but it is also great! What a lovely place. I get fish and chips and espresso ($18.14). We continue onto Cork, passing a toll road on the way ($2.15). $20.29
4:00 p.m. – Finally in Cork. I am not loving being in the car for this long. Today was probably our longest driving day, however. We check-in and T. has once again only put one person on the room reservation, but there is nothing left. This hotel has a salty front desk clerk and we have a room with only two twin beds. We decide T. gets the floor between the beds or if he’s nice, he can share the twin with me. (That probably won’t last long, I don’t like to snuggle at night – too hot!) We spend the next while searching for where to watch GoT in Cork. We find a place that says it’s in Cork but it’s 30 minutes away. Our car is parked for the night so we’re not doing that. We call our salty friend and he claims there’s nothing. K. and I both work in tech and pride ourselves on understanding search and search behavior, but we cannot find any bars showing this show. We give up then T. tells us he found a place. We call to be sure, as he gloats, and they confirm. Off we go to explore and then watch the show at 9:00 p.m.!
4:30 p.m. – I lead us in the wrong direction with my GPS, per usual because it won’t update and I hand it to T. Luckily we all like walking a lot. We’ve been averaging 15,000 steps a day for the past two days. We wander all around Cork, exploring the town. After a bit, we want a drink so we decide to go scope out the bar where they are airing the show. We get the scoop that we need to be in the theater (attached to the bar) early because it fills up and that we can bring food in. The bartender tells us to order take away from the bar and just bring it over but that we should do it by 7:30 p.m. We get a round of drinks. I have a Murphy’s, which is like a Guinness but…I can’t tell you what. It’s just like a Guinness. $9.07
7:30 p.m. – I order dinner at the bar after another drink for T. and a Diet Coke for me. K. is too anxious for the show to drink. I get a burger because it sounds good for dinner, K. gets a shawarma-y bowl, and T. gets a burger as well. K. hops up and goes to scope out the theater, even though it isn’t opening until 8:00 p.m. and she doesn’t return. Either she’s kidnapped or she grabbed us seats early. Our food arrives and we carry it over, finding her in some prime seating at the front. The theater is already packed. Also, by “theater” I mean it’s a tiny comedy club. We settle in for some big screen GoT and dinner. $25.90
9:oo p.m. – After watching an episode of Blue Bloods while we wait for GoT to air (Literally, Sky has it on before GoT. Nothing is weirder), I order two glasses of red wine for the show. It comes on and everyone is completely silent. We were nervous about watching the show in a group (and the place is packed so tightly I’m scared that if there’s a fire, we’re all dead), but everyone is regulating each other and it’s dead silent. However, there’s a bowling alley upstairs? And the TV show sound is only coming out of the projector. It’s awful. Then, the TV shuts down. The crowd revolts. We couldn’t hear the first 15 minutes then it went down. The poor bartender is the only one there and people are losing their shit. We sip our drinks and debate if we should go. Finally, a man comes out and asks if they restart it and fix the speakers, would we be mad? And everyone says (shouts) “NO. PLEASE.” So after 45 minutes, we restart. It’s perfect and loud and got-damn, Dany. You crazy. $13.60
10:45 p.m. – We need to discuss the episode, so we find a Raven-themed bar around the corner that’s about to close at 11:00 p.m. We tell them we’ll drink fast and they’re fine with it as they close around us. I get a Smithwick’s red ale. We discuss theories and head out the door after downing our drinks. $9.07
12:00 a.m. – We land at our hotel after wandering some more and T. falls asleep in the bed with me. We’ll see how this goes.
Daily Total: $107.02
Day Five
8:00 a.m. – T.’s on the floor. He claims I pushed him out of bed, which is entirely possible, but more likely that he was just done in a tiny bed. We shower and get ready while discussing our next move. We debate walking around more of Cork but decide we want to go for a drive and see more of the countryside. We also want to go to Blarney Castle. I buy the tickets on my phone for the Castle. Also, I woke up sick and pissed at every coworker I’ve ever had who came to work sick, past and present. (A lot of people came to work sick last week – why? We have two weeks sick time plus we can work from home whenever we want. You are just an asshole.) $18.11
9:00 a.m. – We chat with the front desk about where we should get breakfast. She is so sweet and very unlike our salty friend from yesterday. We decide to go two doors down to Tara’s Tea Room, which is so cute and delicious. I really want to get smoked salmon again but feel like I need to take a break. I can easily get burnt out on it, but it’s so good! I get poached eggs and toast, but also sneak a lot of bites of T.’s scone with clotted cream. K. gets smoked salmon. I look at it longingly but resist taking a bite when she offers. I also get a cappuccino with my food ($12.45 total with food). We finish up and go get the car out of the parking, which was much more expensive than we expected. We each pay $9.05. Woof. $21.50
10:00 a.m. – On our way to Kilkenny (I’m driving again!), but first, a stop at Blarney Castle. I don’t think any of us expected it to be so wonderful here. The Castle is a huge attraction there once you get past the gates, of course, but it’s also just a ton of beautiful gardens and greenery. There’s walking pathways, little buildings to explore, cafés, and more. We have beautiful weather and we luckily get to the Castle early, so there are no lines to get into the structures. We go right upstairs at the Castle and kiss the Blarney Stone, which is super unsanitary and scary! You have to hang upside-down while a man holds you. We wait in line and are shocked when we see how it works. There’s a bunch of blankets on the ground and a rubber mat for you to lay on, face-up, with your head tilted down towards the castle wall. There are two workers – two men – one who takes your photo with your phone and one who holds your waist as you lean backward and down to kiss the stone. I always thought the stone was more like a Plymouth Rock situation on the ground but no – it’s built into the castle wall and there’s a hole in the ground to let you “down” to where the stone is built into the wall. Imagine if you lay on your back over an open manhole – that’s basically what you’re doing, except not on your stomach, only on your back so you can stretch your back downwards down the hole to kiss the stone that’s opposite the wall you’re laying on. Almost like a backbend? It’s so hard to explain and very scary since you’re like four stories up! There are metal bars about five feet down but I mean… what if you fall!? I’m short, so I could barely reach the stone and I don’t trust the man to grip my waist tight enough as he lowers me down. T. starts a rumor that I “licked” the stone instead, but it’s untrue! I definitely kissed it. (And wiped my mouth with hand sanitizer afterward. The men “clean” the stone after every few people but, ew. Still worth it.)
We explore the grounds for a while, finding a ton of wild garlic that smells delicious. It really is great here. As we are wandering, we see the line to go kiss the stone is now 2 hours long! Get here early, everyone! We get “peckish” as T. likes to say, so I buy us Shamrock and Onion chips from a café there as well as two cappuccinos ($10.14). (The chips taste like sour cream and onion. Less magical.) T. also makes me buy more postcards for the “drunk postcards” we’re “definitely” doing tonight ($3.24). I haven’t told either of them that I feel like garbage yet, so T.’s going to be sad tonight when I refrain from drunken anything. $13.38
12:00 p.m. – We head over to the big shopping area by Blarney Castle in search of gifts for people. I don’t like buying souvenirs for people because most stuff is junk, but certain friends always buy me things while they’re away and I feel obligated. I’d rather just find a gift if I see something I think someone would like! K. and I are also both in the market for a nice claddagh ring, but we don’t find anything we like. We finish shopping and head to the car to get to Kilkenny. K. pays the parking fee.
2:00 p.m. – We arrive in Kilkenny at the cutest hotel that may or may not be haunted. We don’t see any ghosts but the hotel room is at the end of an extremely long, winding hallway (after endless sets of stairs) with no lights and the building is so old. We decide there’s no way the building feels this creepy without ghosts. We pray for a sighting. Or maybe just I do. We get to our hotel room and the door is slightly open but empty. Or is it?
We drop off our stuff for the ghosts and I finally admit to K. and T. that I feel like crap. We walk across the street to the pharmacy, because my pharmacist sister and doctor brother-in-law said I probably have strep throat and should see if they’ll give me antibiotics. I’m so upset I’m sick. I’ve been looking forward to this vacation and break from work, but I’m struggling every time we stop moving. The pharmacist is super hilarious, but tells me it’ll cost me 50 quid to get a doctor’s appointment plus more for the antibiotics when all I need is this antiseptic throat spray, some Emergen-C, and “a lot of hot whiskey.” I buy the Emergen-C and the spray ($15.11) and we go off in search of hot whiskey for me. $15.11
3:00 p.m. – After wandering around and learning about the city, we book a ghost tour for 8:00 p.m ($18.11, per person). We mostly just want it for the walking and history, and this one has good reviews. We sit on the river at a restaurant for hot whiskey (me) and split some sweet potato fries and fried shrimp ($12.45). The hot whiskey is so good – they push cloves into a lemon wedge for the drink, which is quite literally boiling whiskey and water. Amazing! We decide to wander back to the hotel for a bit to relax. $30.56
5:00 p.m. – Even though we’re going to learn about this place for our ghost tour, we decide to walk to get dinner at a very old pub called Kyteler’s Inn. It is so cool and there’s a black cat on the logo, which I love because I have a black cat! The band inside is playing Galway Girl which is one of my favorite songs, so I am extra pumped. K. and I get giant salads because it’s necessary, and T. gets a lamb stew that is borderline life-changing. We also split garlic bread with cheese because balance. I don’t get a drink, but sip some of K.’s beer flight. $19.92
8:00 p.m. – After wandering the city, we end up at our meeting point for the tour. The tour guide is hilarious, but our group is so boring and all American. I ask the tour guide a lot of questions as he takes us around about history and his life since I can tell he is frustrated with no reactions from anyone. We learn about a witch who was living where Kyteler’s Inn is, among other things. I love witches. I had a Sabrina the Teenage Witch obsession in the ’90s. (The new show is so dark. And I don’t like watching teenagers be indignant because I’m 85.) The tour wraps up by Kilkenny Castle, which is so beautiful (minus the history of torture in the dungeon) and we part ways.
10:00 p.m. – We stop at a bar called Matt the Millers for a hot whiskey for me and a beer for T. ($11.88). This bar has moving paintings à la Harry Potter which is pretty cool. We debate going out more, but since I feel like garbage, we head back to the hotel where there’s a band playing in the attached bar. T. gets K. and I baby beers (half-pints) and we sip them as we listen to music. This guy plays Galway Girl as well. We realize we’re hungry again and nothing is open except a little fast food joint across the street called Marble City. We go and get too many fries, and I get chicken fingers with ranch like an 8-year-old ($9.05). I am sick, so I get a pass. We head back to the hotel to eat in our (definitely) haunted room. Still no ghost sightings, but it’s cold and dark and we’re just convinced. $20.93
12:00 a.m. – I break out the Emergen-C and K. swallows an entire packet dry, preemptively. I am horrified and impressed. We call it a night on the least comfortable beds we’ve had this entire time. A literal spring is poking me in the back.
Daily Total: $139.51
Day Six
11:00 a.m. – The one night we have a terrible bed, but don’t set our alarm, we wake up at 11:00 a.m. K. has been up since 8:00 a.m. and we had planned to walk around more, but now we just need to head to Dublin. T. and I feel really guilty that K. didn’t get to explore more, but I’m happy to have some longer rest. I still feel horrible, but the throat spray helps. Jury’s still out on the hot whiskey cure. We pack up for the umpteenth time and head to our car. I’m going to be happy to not be riding in a car once we get to Florence tomorrow.
1:00 p.m. – We arrive in Dublin and cannot find parking near our hotel. We finally park at a mall with a decent overnight rate, but I realize that we have to leave at 3:00 a.m. and there’s no in or out from 12:00 a.m. to 6:00 a.m. That would’ve sucked really hard had I not seen that sign. We decide to just go to our hotel to find out where we can park and move the car later. Our rooms aren’t ready yet, so we leave our bags with the clerks. They tell us about a parking lot around the corner that’s open 24 hours. We’re starving, so we decide to go eat first. We head to a restaurant around the corner that’s inside an old church. It’s creatively called The Church. I get a cajun chicken sandwich that’s okay with a hot whiskey and a cappuccino ($30.55). I’m still trying this cure. $30.55
3:00 p.m. – The car is moved to the correct parking garage. We go back to the hotel to put our luggage in the room and figure out our next moves. We debate doing a Guinness tour or a Jameson tour, but it’s getting late. Instead, we decide to do a walk around the town and go to St. Patrick’s Cathedral “for mom.” (T. and K.’s mom is very Catholic and loves to hear her kids went to a cathedral.)
5:10 p.m. – We make it to St. Patrick’s but it’s closing in 20 minutes. It’s $7.91 for entry (the woman will give us the student rate) but we’d have next to no time there. We decide to do it since we’re too late for a lot of other touristy things in Dublin (so sometimes, maybe you should plan ahead on trips). The church is gorgeous and we walk around admiring everything. There’s a quote on a memorial that I love: “Her life was one of unostentatious piety. Her end was peace.” Ostentatious has been one of my favorite words since Miss Congeniality taught it to me, and alternately, I love thinking of someone’s end as being peaceful. My mom’s end was not, so I consider people lucky to have a peaceful end. Too dark? I’m in a church. It’s allowed.
We are getting rounded up to exit the church as mass begins with an eight-person men’s choir that sounds incredible in the giant sanctuary. Well worth the $7.91! I light a candle for my mom with a euro T. hands me. We leave to explore the park outside. $7.91
6:00 p.m. – K. and I are still on the hunt for Claddagh rings and we find some at a stand in a mall nearby. I get two rings and a pair of earrings with a cool intertwined design. $30.50
6:30 p.m. – Swing by the hotel to drop off our stuff, then grab a quick drink at the hotel bar. There’s a sign saying “Management reserves the right to refuse people in football jerseys” which leaves me questioning what kind of shenanigans happened here, but it’s also Dublin, so. Probably drunk hooligans. K. declines a drink but T. and I have a lager and a Guinness, respectively. I pay. ($16.81) There’s a man outside the bar who is yelling a lot and kicking the garage door across the street from our hotel. We watch him warily, but as we’re from LA, this isn’t unusual so we sip our drinks to the yelling and banging sounds. Ah, peace. $16.81.
7:00 p.m. – We’re a little hungry, but we’re not starving so we find a restaurant bar overlooking the river. We sit down and pick out two apps, as well as wine to drink. We order and the server says: “And what are you having for your meals?” We’re confused, so we just say that’s it! He then proceeds to kick us out saying: “Come on, this is a fancier restaurant. You can’t just have starters and wine.” He’s wearing jeans. “Fancier” must have a different definition in Dublin.
Perturbed, we leave, laughing at the absurdity of the situation. The restaurant was also nearly empty. We were one of four tables, with approximately 10-15 open. Anyway, we go downstairs, newly paranoid that nowhere will let us just split appetizers and drinks. We go to the restaurant below, which is objectively nicer than the one upstairs, and clarify with the hostess that it’s okay to not get meals. She is confused at the question and says: “Yes, of course!” so we head inside. We get anchovy toast (amazing!), heirloom tomatoes with burrata (to die for), and T. decides to try a wild garlic and pea mac and cheese ($11.28 per person for the food). PSA: That is the best mac and cheese I’ve ever had. Incredible. Check out The Woollen Mills if you go to Dublin! T. and I get wine to drink, but K. declines the drink ($14.10 for my drink and T.’s). This place is way better than the jean-wearing snobs upstairs! $25.38
9:00 p.m. – We go back to our hotel and decide to just call it a night. We have to get up at 3:00 a.m. to return the rental and fly to Florence, so we’re pretty wiped. Sorry, Dublin, we didn’t see a whole lot of you, but we’ll be back, I’m sure.
Daily Total: $111.15
Day Seven
3:00 a.m. – It’s so early. We sleepily pack up and stumble to our car that feels even farther away at 3:00 a.m. in the morning. Also, “yelling guy,” as we affectionately coined him while sitting at the hotel bar yesterday, is still outside yelling and we hope he doesn’t decide to cross the street and yell directly at us. We get in the car and T. drives us to the airport.
4:00 a.m. – We figure out how to return the car (just park it and put the keys in a box), and we somehow find our way to our terminal. It’s not hard, but we’re just not all there. We make it through security without incident and wait for our early flight.
6:00 a.m. – We board without incident and eat weird butter and cheese sandwiches on the plane. When flying in Europe, you always get free food on board, even for short flights. They usually give you small sandwiches or croissants. My favorite is any type of meat and cheese baguette, so I would say the butter and cheese sandwich isn’t my favorite; however, I enjoy it just fine, but T. and K. are disgusted. I mean, it is quite literally a white bread with a thick spread of creamy butter and white cheese so. I understand the disgust, but a woman’s gotta eat. I get coffee with the sandwich.
8:45 a.m. – We deplane in Amsterdam, our layover, and the customs line we didn’t realize we’d have to go through is insane. We start to panic a little because our flight is boarding in five minutes. I finally flag down a TSA guy and he lets us cut, to which some salty Americans say to us: “Our flight boards in 30 minutes. Get behind us!” K., who is the nicest ever, gets salty back and says: “Okay, well ours is boarding right now, we’re all in the same boat. You don’t have to be rude.” They shut up but still don’t let us go in front of them, but in the end, our line moves faster and we haul it out of there before they do. Triumph! We are sweating profusely by the time we get to our gate and as soon as we are there, the flight gets delayed. After taking off layers of clothing, we finally board. Automated gates with scanners are such a great international treat (truly!) and make boarding so fast.
9:50 a.m. – We aren’t sitting together, so K. and T. sit together in the back while I sit up a little farther. I read some of my books and enjoy some alone time (as alone as you can be on a flight). The flight goes smoothly and we land a few hours later in Florence! Time to meet up with the parents and the rest of the family for the rest of our trip to Europe trip.
Daily Total: $0
How did you prepare for this trip? I try really hard not to prepare for trips, to be honest. I like to fly by the seat of my pants for European travel, but my boyfriend’s family are hardcore planners. We’ve been getting emails about the trip for about a year now, which has made me crazy. It stresses me out to think about things so far in the future when it’s not necessary – I’m not someone who gets very excited in anticipation of an upcoming trip, I get stressed and overwhelmed. I love to travel, but on my own terms. I have a dream after this trip of taking a long weekend in London (somewhere I’ve never been) alone. I just want to stroll the streets and meet interesting people, not be forced to go on a tour with the rest of the Americans.
My boyfriend booked and found all the hotels since he has an Expedia Gold account and he rented the car. I booked one of the flights but he found it and just had me put it on my credit card for points. I did a lot of the restaurant research on the trip (not before), because I had international data. I asked people I trusted for food recs and also did a lot of searching on TripAdvisor for quality places to eat. I think it worked out fairly well!
Did you use credit card points/miles to pay for parts of this trip? If so, please explain further: Nope! I spend my miles as soon as I accrue them, but have been saving recently (just not before this trip).
Do you have credit card debt as a result of booking this vacation? Nope! I spend my miles as soon as I accrue them, but have been saving recently (just not before this trip).
When did you book your flight? Do you think you got a good deal? We booked our flights in January of this year (about four months out). I think we got an okay deal. We were more concerned about timing because of work, so we focused on that. Our one-way flight to Dublin is more than I’d like to pay, but we wanted a specific redeye on a specific day and that’s just how it worked out. We are doing a lot of hopping around.
What was your favorite part of the trip? In Ireland, it was definitely the road trip. Though the drives felt long when jet-lagged and the different driving experience was a little tough at first, it was a great way to explore the country and a bunch of different cities. The countryside is beautiful and the sat nav in the car made it really easy to navigate even without phone data.
What was the best meal or food you ate while you were there? Wild garlic and pea mac and cheese! So amazing even though it doesn’t sound like it.
Is there a tourist trap you wish you had avoided? I don’t think so – while in Ireland, we did touristy things but they were worth it. We didn’t go crazy. We mostly wandered around the towns exploring, which is hard to translate to a diary we walked 15,000-30,000 steps a day in every city on our trip. We didn’t always see particular landmarks or famous sites, we just loved seeing the cities by foot.
What advice would you give someone who is traveling to the same location? Maybe do a little more planning than we did. I love flying by the seat of my pants but we really didn’t see much in Dublin at all and we also missed some exploring in Kilkenny. I should’ve read a little more about the history of the towns and some non-touristy things to do (beyond just wandering around, which I also love!)
Would you stay at your hotels again? Our hotels were all sufficient since we didn’t hang out in them too much. I don’t usually really care where I sleep as long as it’s clean so I’m pleased with the ones T. picked! We obviously didn’t love our hotel in Kilkenny but somehow had the best sleep of our lives? So I can’t even complain about that one. Maybe it was the ghosts.
Where were you located in a specific city and would you recommend staying in that part of town? In each city we went to, we tried to stay centrally. T. picked all of the hotels and there wasn’t one that felt out of place or like we should’ve stayed somewhere else. I think our Galway hotel was by far the most perfectly picked place, however. Right by a delicious café! And a few blocks from the water. I would recommend not staying on Temple street in Dublin because it was insanely crazy. It’s a party street. Unless you’re into that, then definitely do that.
Is there anything you wished you had time to do but didn’t? Everyone says the Jameson or Guinness tours are worth it in Dublin so I would’ve liked to see it for free alcohol, but I’m not sure I’m too bummed out about missing them. It would’ve been nice if we had a few bonus days and energy to travel up to North Ireland and explore around there. We heard from a lot of people that the Giant’s Causeway is amazing, but we weren’t anywhere near it.
Do you feel like you were there for the right length of time? Would you have come home sooner or stayed longer given the chance? I definitely think five days is plenty of time in Ireland for what we set out to do. I know I could’ve for sure stayed longer, though I’m not sure if my stomach could’ve continued to handle the amount of beer and french fries I consumed. I think I ate more potatoes in five days than I did in an entire year, and I’m not kidding.
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